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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.
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How Long Is the Ideal Penis?

Penis size may be the single greatest cause of anxiety among men. Worrying about your penis size can lead to relationship problems, avoiding sex or relationships, erectile dysfunction, or premature ejaculation. Studies of penis size show the average erect penis ranges from 5 to 7 inches. Is that enough to satisfy the average woman? To find out, almost 40,000 women were asked, “How long is the ideal penis?”

The fewest number of women preferred short penises. Only 3% of women preferred penises measuring 3-4 inches. The next smallest group of women (5%) thought 4-5 inches was the ideal length. The next smallest percentages were 6% for women who preferred large penises of 8-9 inches and the same percentage of women liking them even longer. Then there is a big jump to 20% of women who think 7-8 inches is ideal. Women who thought the ideal penis was 5-6 inches came in next at 24%. The winner in the ideal penis length survey was 6-7 inches being the perfect size for 36% of women.

If you are not happy with your penis size, just six minutes per day for a few short weeks can make your penis much longer, thicker, and healthier and give you permanent gains, which you can enjoy for the rest of your life. You owe it to yourself to find out more about the secrets behind these groundbreaking new techniques.

What does this survey tell us? First off, really large penises of 8 inches or more are not that popular with women. Only 1 out of 8 women likes them extra large. On the other hand, really short penises are even less popular. Only 1 in 12 women would be satisfied with a penis measuring less than 5 inches. Penises measuring in the average range of 5-7 inches satisfy the majority of women–60%. That’s the good news for the average-sized guy. The bad news is that about 1 out of 3 (32%) do prefer larger than average penises of more than 7 inches.

So what’s a guy to do? If you’re average, that’s going to be just fine for about 2 out of 3 women, and with the others, you can make up for it in other ways. My post Two Sex Positions That Make Your Man’s Penis Feel Bigger tells how changing positions can make your penis feel longer and thicker inside her. Tease Her to Please Her tells how to tease and please a woman by SLOWLY increasing physical stimulation, thereby creating almost unbearable sexual desire and tension. the Friction Zone Technique stimulates the clitoris with the friction and pressure from the upper pubic region (the area right above the pubic bone), making penis size almost irrelevant.

If you begin a night of lovemaking with the methods of Tease Her to Please Her, followed by the Friction Zone Technique, you are guaranteed to leave your woman satisfied and happy at the end of the night. Then whatever your penis size is will be ideal to her.

Are you really happy with your penis size? Just six minutes per day for a few short weeks can make your penis much longer, thicker, and healthier and give you permanent gains, which you can enjoy for the rest of your life. To find out more about the secrets behind these breathtaking new techniques, click here.

61 Responses to How Long Is the Ideal Penis?

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    Probably not. You’re not satisfying here for other reasons more than likely.

  • Nick F says:

    Hey Svetlana,

    I respect your opinion and it does make sense that a certain portion of women physically need a well endowed male of 7″+ because not every woman is the same, everyone is different.

    However think that when it comes to the mental part of sex, society is obsessed with huge penises. Sex is extremely mental for women so if they are programmed to think that they need a specific size to feel pleasure then that will be the case. Think about it…no movie will ever be made about an average guy who made some girl see God 3 times in one night.

    Fortunately or not (depending on how you look at it and where your morals lie) I have been lucky to sleep with enough women to experience a variety of female sizes and mental attitudes towards sex. There were some where I was a little bit big for them and couldn’t do certain positions because I would hit the cervix and cause pain (I know so because they pushed me off or told me that it hurt them). There were some women where I was an inadequate match (they didn’t return). Fortunately there have been a few where she could comfortably enjoy me from every position and still feel like it was enough. These “perfect” or “adequate” matches always resulted in her coming back for more (and at the drop of a hat) as the sex itself was outstanding for both of us.

    In my opinion a good lover (male or female) will take care of their body, be open to trying new things, make it their mission to make their partner orgasm and be patient or understanding with any shortcomings be they physical or nonphysical.

    I think that people should find the proper match for themselves. Find someone whom you are physically attracted to, whom you are mentally attracted to and whose downstairs parts match your own. This is a daunting task but then there wouldn’t be a million songs, movies, poems and whatever else about love (or awesome hookups) if it was that easy to find.

    Based on my research supported with personal experience that not all women are equal down there I would say that 2 in 10 women need a big penis physically while the 1 in 10 is just seeking to satisfy a mental need. Fellas this means that 7 in 10 women is fine with 81.5% of the men out there so you can relax. Ladies who need large ones, this means that there are an equal amount of men out there who can match themselves to you.

    I think its great your blogging about sex and sharing your knowledge and experience with everyone.

  • op says:

    Could you provide a source for the survey you are presenting?

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    No, the a couple of years ago, a reader pointed out that the link to the survey was broken, so I removed it.

  • Katie says:

    From my perspective and experience about sex and penis size I would say experience has everything to do with what you like. Many people haven’t tried certain foods but think they wouldn’t enjoy it but when they do. They realize how great it really is, other have grown up luckily to have been exposed to many different foods. So they have a much broader view a d perspective as to what their really is out there that’s different. I shouldn’t brag but I’ve ways been beautiful and my options and many chooses with guys started young. I was 13 years old when I began having sex with guys and different sizes was something I really noticed. I enjoyed and still love sex allot today I’m a little more reserved but still have a very hard to satisfy sex drive. I will say size matters to me both length and girth make a difference in a serious relationship. I know from experience I’ll be very sexually fustrated with a guy who isn’t the right fit for me. But this has to do with my experience so from my perspective I know what I need. Others who never experience a longer or thicker penis wouldn’t have any real life perspective only assumption. I read allot of guys theory on the subject its kinda funny my only comment to them I’m talking vaginal not anal lol. I’m sure that’s thier perspective!

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    I think you’re right. Once a woman has experience a big penis of a man who knows what he’s doing, she prefers the bigger size, given a choice.

  • Ruben D says:

    I have just over a 7 inch penis 1/8 to be exact but 6 inches round..never thought I was big just a little above average but wife says I’m to big especially for anal…likes the thickness for the vagina but she has a lower cervix so i got to watch it…banged few times..she says she’s be cool if i was 5 inches lol..everyone has preferances

  • Ed says:

    I am confused in that, I’m 6.75 long but 7.75 bone pressed. And I’ve heard of people not counting that extra inch. Which is accurate?

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    The shorter.

  • HI.SVETLANA says:

    Hi, Svetlana, is there a big difference between 6 inch or 8 inch penis?

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    Yes, quite a bit.

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