How Long Is the Ideal Penis?
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Penis size may be the single greatest cause of anxiety among men. Worrying about your penis size can lead to relationship problems, avoiding sex or relationships, erectile dysfunction, or premature ejaculation. Studies of penis size show the average erect penis ranges from 5 to 7 inches. Is that enough to satisfy the average woman? To find out, almost 40,000 women were asked, “How long is the ideal penis?”
The fewest number of women preferred short penises. Only 3% of women preferred penises measuring 3-4 inches. The next smallest group of women (5%) thought 4-5 inches was the ideal length. The next smallest percentages were 6% for women who preferred large penises of 8-9 inches and the same percentage of women liking them even longer. Then there is a big jump to 20% of women who think 7-8 inches is ideal. Women who thought the ideal penis was 5-6 inches came in next at 24%. The winner in the ideal penis length survey was 6-7 inches being the perfect size for 36% of women.
What does this survey tell us? First off, really large penises of 8 inches or more are not that popular with women. Only 1 out of 8 women likes them extra large. On the other hand, really short penises are even less popular. Only 1 in 12 women would be satisfied with a penis measuring less than 5 inches. Penises measuring in the average range of 5-7 inches satisfy the majority of women–60%. That’s the good news for the average-sized guy. The bad news is that about 1 out of 3 (32%) do prefer larger than average penises of more than 7 inches.
So what’s a guy to do? If you’re average, that’s going to be just fine for about 2 out of 3 women, and with the others, you can make up for it in other ways. My post Two Sex Positions That Make Your Man’s Penis Feel Bigger tells how changing positions can make your penis feel longer and thicker inside her. Tease Her to Please Her tells how to tease and please a woman by SLOWLY increasing physical stimulation, thereby creating almost unbearable sexual desire and tension. the Friction Zone Technique stimulates the clitoris with the friction and pressure from the upper pubic region (the area right above the pubic bone), making penis size almost irrelevant.
If you begin a night of lovemaking with the methods of Tease Her to Please Her, followed by the Friction Zone Technique, you are guaranteed to leave your woman satisfied and happy at the end of the night. Then whatever your penis size is will be ideal to her.
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Tags: female penis preference, ideal penis, Penis Size, sex poll
I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. My sexual history and preferences are detailed in my post 
December 15th, 2008 at 11:56 pm
“Only 1 in 12 women would be satisfied with a penis measuring less than 5 inches”
I’m 4.5 inches! And yet you say, “you can make up for it in other ways”
You gotta think small guys know CAT and how to use their mouths and hands, and STILL 1 out of 12!
My God. Will no woman tell me truth to my face?
December 16th, 2008 at 6:30 am
The statistic refers to preferring the penis only and doesn’t consider the man it ‘belongs to. Also, I wish I could play the lottery with 1 in 12 odds. Do you know or can you meet twelve single women? The chances are that at least one of them prefers a small penis. Finding her may not be easy, but it’s possible.
December 17th, 2008 at 5:24 pm
You yourself admit you would not stay with a small guy even if he was a “nice” guy.
1 in 12 lottery? OMG! I know this study and its ironic you use it. Statistical anomalies in the range of 5% is in actuality, nearly non-existent.
The same study shows that women who are attaractive place a large importance on size where women less attractive place LESS importance.
Attractive women get attractive normal penis size nice guys
Less attractive, most likely co-dependent women SETTLE for small penis men who may or may not be attractive, but who know better that this woman is the best they can do.
Sounds crass and bitter? Reality.
December 17th, 2008 at 5:41 pm
You’re a tiresome crank. I did not “admit” that I would not stay with a nice guy who was small. I said I liked big penises sexually, but, as I have stated on my blog and to you, there is no reason a man with a small penis cannot be a good lover.
Why are you so obsessed with badgering me to “confirm” your fixation that women reject you solely because of your small penis? What then? Where do you go from there? What would the “admission” you’re so desperately seeking, justify?
December 19th, 2008 at 5:22 am
I need to know for sure. You say a small penis can be a “good” lover. What does that say?
Just like all these “experts” you perpetuate the myth. Its the meat not the motion, but if you have A LOT of motion and use the oral and hand techniques normal guys do, you can be just like them and women will adore you as much.
But with every other bit of advice you clearly expose the contradiction. And then get “tired” when asked to clarify.
I don’t know who this guy is, but the Penis Size Debate guy’s site, though vulgar at times is spot on.
If Size Matters, then how can it suddenly not just my doing (I guess my only) positions? If only 1 in 12 women would find my size pleasing, then how can you say its EASY for me to find her? I’m sure you can get 12 dates and be a perfect person to each (as you said, women don’t have to be good in bed), but thats just not realistic.
Sure go ahead and say my “Obsession” is what makes it worse. Right, as if me being Ghandi would make my penis suddenly normal size or change women’s primal preference. If when I was 16 ONE woman would have set me straight, I would have either killed myself then or would not have wasted all this time and embarrassment and become a monk or hermit.
There are 2 truths here. Size matters (not from 6-7, but <5), and either women are somehow wired to be willing to forego PIV pleasure or they are not. You, and your “expert” friends, and every GF I ever had are too unwilling to be unpopular to say the truth. If its the best news of my life, then why is it so hard to phrase in a non-vague, ambiguous, and non-contradictory way?
December 20th, 2008 at 12:28 pm
“making penis size almost irrelevant.”…”Then whatever your penis size is will be ideal to her.”
“On the other hand, really short penises are even less popular. Only 1 in 12 women would be satisfied with a penis measuring less than 5 inches. ”
I’m 4.5 inches long and by 4.5 inches around!!!!!!!
Seriously how can you say this and not feel guilty? !!! “If its the best news of my life, then why is it so hard to phrase in a non-vague, non-ambiguous, and non-contradictory way?”
December 21st, 2008 at 11:14 pm
” I wish I could play the lottery with 1 in 12 odds. Do you know or can you meet twelve single women? The chances are that at least one of them prefers a small penis. Finding her may not be easy, but it’s possible.”
How else can I interpret this? “Yup, you’re really limited, but keep looking!”
Come on. Are you really gonna leave me interpreting? Why not just say it!
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March 10th, 2009 at 3:38 am
Don’t mind Ron. He’s pretty screwed up and can’t understand the concept of working harder to make up for what he wasn’t born with.
I’m long and a bit on the thin side. I’m tired of girls complaining about hitting the cervix. If I could trade away some of my length for girth, I would indeed do it!
Good article!
March 10th, 2009 at 12:53 pm
If you’d read all of Ron’s comments to various posts, you’d see that “screwed up” doesn’t even begin to describe him. He’s banned from commenting and on my email blacklist.
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October 13th, 2009 at 3:47 pm
The stuff in this blog is rubbish. this lady is playing up the numbers so more people will either 1. use her advice, or 2. keep coming back to this site so she can make money.
most medical literature shows that the average male is about 5.6 inches(median not mean) and the median girth is 4.6. this goes across all races.
statistically speaking, people with 7 inch penis’s are very rare. most porn stars have 8 inch penis’ and they are huge…9 is even rare for PORN STARS-at that level you reach god like status-i.e. lexington steele(who claims 11 but really isnt)
for the record..if you were to pick 100 random guys regardless of race in the US you would have about 95 guys between 4.5 and 7 inches. the other 5 would be a mix of guys at or below 4.5 and 7 or above.
most girls are happy with a 6 inch penis. and 5 inch thickness. this is based of years of medical literature.
the claim that average penis size is 6. inches is wrong. it is based off the kinsey study which was A SURVEY…ask a guy what his penis size is and he’ll always lie. when actual measurements were taken in other real medical studies(with females as the measurers) the penis sizes were reported as between 4.8 and 5.5 inches.
so relax guys…and dont believe all this crap…just look up ACTUAL MEDICAL LITERATURE.
October 13th, 2009 at 4:13 pm
I’m not quite sure what your objection to my article is. You claim that the most renowned sex researcher in history, Dr. Alfred Kinsey, was wrong, and that the average penis size is actually 4/10 of an inch shorter than Kinsey’s survey found. So what?
My article is based on a survey (which I did not take) of women’s preferences for penis size, which has nothing to do with the ACTUAL MEDICAL LITERATURE. The point of the article is that women vary in their preferences for penis size. Some like them small, some like them medium, and some like them large. The survey attempted to quantify those preferences.
A man’s desire for a big penis is usually not primarily about sexually satisfying women anyway. It’s about making himself feel more masculine. You’re wasting your time urging men not to want a big penis. For good or bad, it’s ingrained in men’s psyches, just as wanting big breasts is ingrained in women’s psyches.
BTW, a statement from an anonymous commenter that the “stuff” on an established, popular blog is “rubbish” is not particularly persuasive. Unless you’re willing to reveal your identity and your credentials, you would do better just sticking to the points you want to make.
December 6th, 2009 at 9:41 pm
Well I’m 8 long 5 maybe 5 1/4 round and every woman I know wants something close to that. So I wouldnt say that she is playing up the numbers because most of my friends are female and unless she has a small vagina I don’t think 5 will do it maybe six but 5 without a great girth probably wont do it. And more so women don’t talk in numbers they talk visually….big, really big, huge those kinds of words and six or less in no of those. And o yeah medical literature never gave any woman an orgasm.
December 7th, 2009 at 8:15 am
Every woman you know says your penis is the perfect size. What are the odds of that? Though I prefer a large penis myself, believe me, not every woman does. In fact, one of my all-time most popular articles is What to Do If Your Man’s Penis Is Too Big.
December 24th, 2009 at 8:22 pm
How do you make anal sex pleasure? How do you find your sensitive areas?
December 25th, 2009 at 12:40 pm
Try starting with my post 10 Steps to Great First-Time Anal Sex.
January 20th, 2010 at 8:30 am
The average size, by definition, is sufficient. The truth is, most women don’t have a clue which size they prefer. They know if small is a problem or big is a problem, but show a girl a penis anywhere between 4-9 inches and I doubt she’d be able to correctly guess the length to even the nearest half inch.