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Have Men Really Stopped Liking Blowjobs?

Have men really stopped liking blow jobs? According to Geoff Dyer in Esquire, heterosexual fellatio has become the erotic equivalent of the leisure suit, peaking in popularity in the 1970s. He discovered this by taking “a small survey of some more mature male friends.” There’s the problem. If he had taken a survey of junior high and high school boys, he would have gotten completely opposite results. Jezebel speculates on why mature men may have stopped liking blow jobs.

Have blowjobs gone the way of the dodo? According to Geoff Dyer in Esquire, they pretty much have. Dyer claims that heterosexual fellatio has become the erotic equivalent of the leisure suit, peaking in popularity in the 1970s “when the culture was bigging up the blowjob.” Now, he reports, guys just want to go down: “I recently undertook a small survey of some more mature male friends, and the results, while not unanimous, were overwhelming. To speak plainly, given the choice, eight of the ten men surveyed preferred eating pussy to having their dicks sucked.” Read more

4 Responses to Have Men Really Stopped Liking Blowjobs?

  • Mr. X says:

    Very strange. Am I old fashioned, or is this just another invented sex “trend” meant to sell newspapers and magazines.

  • eammon says:

    I’m not sure if it equates to not liking a blow job but it can give me an uneasy feeling. I love to please my wife orally. She has very intense orgasms when I do that. I love her texture, taste and wetness when I am going down on her. As far as me receiving a blow job, it is not the end of the world if I dont get one. I can say that for me a blow job is intense and I get strong urges that make me turn into an animal. It gets like I am humping her mouth like it is her vagina. I then get the urge to cum in her mouth. I cant. It scares me how I get. I become ashamed of my thoughts and stop. I guess it is my way of telling me I am hitting the limit of what is allowable and what is not.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    “Hitting the limit of what is allowable?” What in the world are you talking about? For many women, receiving and swallowing the semen of their man is a huge turn-on.

  • eammon says:

    I dont think my wife of 35 years is turned on by receiving or swallowing my semen. She had never done it nor have I asked her. In fact we really dont discuss sexual likes or dislikes. I know that is not good but it is the way it is. I have tried to bring it up but it ends in an argument. Maybe I need to learn how bring it up. I feel stupid at times. Anyway, about 2 years ago, she did swallow and it felt nice as it happened and it did suprise me. It was her action, not my request. I have never asked her to do it. However, her reaction upon swallowing bothered me since she didnt like the taste or texture. Thankfully, I dont generate a lot of semen. That would have made it worse. It used to be I knew when to back off as I got closer to climax. Now it is like a place I dont wish to go therefore, the limit. I know it sounds very weird but it is what it is.

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