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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.
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Get Laid Tonight: A No-Fail One-Night Stand Plan

More women than ever are seeking no-strings-attached sex, but Gillian Telling reminds men that you still have to earn it. She gives men a no-fail one-night stand plan.

One of my single girlfriends keeps her sex life fresh with a steady Friday night routine: On her way home she detours to a hipster bar near her apartment to scout potential partners for a good old-fashioned one-night stand. “I like sex before I go to sleep,” she shrugs. “It doesn’t take me long to find a guy who’s cute and willing. After flirting I’ll invite him back to my place for a drink. We’re usually going at it before I’ve uncorked the wine.” Sometimes she doesn’t even bother asking his name. “I’m not looking for a relationship right now,” she says. “I just want to get laid.”

Sound too good to be true? It’s not. While most girls used to be ashamed of indulging in a one-night stand, these days more and more women occasionally enjoy uncomplicated sex with a veritable stranger. In a 2008 study published in the journal Human Nature, 54 percent of women reported that they felt good after a one-night stand. But just because women are more casual than ever about casual sex, that doesn’t mean you can grab the nearest girl and relieve her 
of her pants employing nothing more than monosyllabic grunts and some hand signals. There is an art to the one-night stand, and a misstep at any point could derail the whole endeavor. To illuminate these pitfalls—and devise a no-fail one-night-stand plan—I spoke with women who’ve been happily whammed, bammed, and thank-you-ma’amed. Follow the tips I’ve collected and a parade of successful one-night-only encounters will be yours.

Choose Your Target

It’s nearly impossible to tell simply by looking at her whether a woman is on the prowl for no-strings-attached sex, but if she’s alone at a bar after midnight on a Tuesday, chances are she’s not there for the rockin’ jukebox. Another clue? Body art. A 2006 study at Hanover College in 
Indiana suggested a significant correlation between women with piercings or tattoos and the likelihood that they’re into one-night stands. The most important cues a woman will offer, however, are behavioral, so train yourself to be a careful observer. Read more

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