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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.
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Finding a Rhythm That Works When She’s “on Top”

Though many women agree there’s no better sexual position for reaching orgasm than woman-on-top, being in the “on top” position during sex can be an intimidating experience for women. Although it’s commonly assumed that the person in the dominant position has more control over the situation, and is therefore less vulnerable, this is not often the case from an emotional perspective. They may be controlling the movements, but they are also putting their bodies and their sexual prowess on display. Rose Rivera, founder of SpeakSexy.org, has some tips to calm her down and help find her own rhythm. Here’s one tip:

Use Background Music – One of the easiest ways to relax into a sexual situation is to play your favorite sensual tunes in the background. Not only will music give her a little “mind escape” since she can close her eyes and let her imagination drift – very helpful is she is really nervous – but it will provide her with a rhythm. She can further play with this idea by picking music of varying tempos to see which ones “feel” the best to her, and to her partner. Read more

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