Fellatio from a Female Perspective
“Graze on my lips; and if those hills be dry, stray lower, where the pleasant fountains lie.”– William Shakespeare
Fellatio is the act of applying your lips and mouth to a man’s penis with the purpose of giving him pleasure. Fellatio, giving head, blow job – call it what you wish – is seldom discussed as an expression of female sexual empowerment, but rather as a form of male dominance. Taking a man’s penis in our mouths is traditionally seen as an act of submission. It is assumed we do it against our will.
However, fellatio can not only give a man immense pleasure, but can also be extremely empowering for a woman. I view the fellatio as a form of male surrender, something requiring a mutual degree of trust and self-restraint. It is one of the only times when a man is completely physically vulnerable, allowing a woman to have total control over his most sensitive organ using one of her most powerful organs – her mouth. The mouth can be an aggressive part of our anatomy, and we both know that it could induce severe pain and injury to the penis. This places a man completely at the mercy of his female partner (and her back molars).
Personally, I love to begin fellatio with a flaccid penis because I enjoy the feeling of his penis growing bigger and harder in my mouth. I’m extremely aroused knowing that my mouth, my kisses, my tongue, my sucking, are creating his response. The sensation of his penis literally tickling the back of my throat with subtle movements is a huge turn-on for me. The fact that he enjoys it so much makes it all that more pleasurable.
As he approaches climax, his penis grows even bigger and harder than I ever imagined that it could be. I can feel the hard contractions begin deep in his testicles, and then I can feel the surge of semen coming through the full length of his penis and shooting and splashing inside my mouth. The explosiveness of his semen shooting into my mouth can sometimes be a little overwhelming, but it’s also kind of exciting knowing that I caused it.
Then as, his body quiets, I can feel the last little contractions signaling the final release. It is a very powerful moment. The vulnerability and trust between us is the most incredibly satisfying feeling.
All women know that men LOVE oral sex, but not all women know how to do it properly. Giving good fellatio is NOT just about opening your mouth and bobbing up and down. To find out what every woman needs to know about giving her man oral pleasure, click here.