Do Women Have More Pleasure during Sex with Circumcised or Uncircumcised Men?

penis uncircumcisedDo women have more pleasure during sex with circumcised or uncircumcised men? Some women prefer either circumcised or uncircumcised penises over the other. However, this is most likely due to whatever they are accustomed to seeing. By the 1970s, 80 percent of American male infants were circumcised though that figure has dropped to 60 percent today. This still handily outdistances the international average of 15 percent.

There are three common complaints from American women about sex: vaginal dryness, vaginal discomfort or pain, and difficulty achieving orgasm during intercourse. In my opinion, all three of these problems are not the woman’s fault at all. Those problems exist almost entirely because her partner’s penis is missing its foreskin.

Circumcised sex may cause the vagina to abnormally tense up and decrease its lubrication. Women report more problems with lubrication when having sex with circumcised men, possibly because of irritation from the harder tip and involuntary tensing against it, and also because the longer stroke length tends to remove lubrication from the vagina. Often, an artificial lubricant is necessary.

During intercourse, the foreskin acts as an effective natural lubricant, and that’s very important for women. The foreskin and the rest of the shaft skin are loose and can move or “glide” up and down the shaft of the penis. Looking at it in another way, the penis shaft can move and glide inside the foreskin. During intercourse, the shaft of the intact penis doesn’t rub up against the walls of the vagina like a circumcised penis does. Instead, it slides back and forth inside its own foreskin. This gives the woman a great sense of motion while almost eliminating the uncomfortable rubbing friction that is felt during intercourse with a circumcised penis.

The abundant skin of the natural penile shaft further cushions the force of the coronal ridge in the vagina. In addition, the mobile skin of the penis is “grasped” by the ridges of the vaginal mucosa and held in place. The bunching and unbunching of penile skin during intercourse enhances a man’s pleasure, but it also excites the woman. The give of the uncircumcised penis allows for more bend and flex of the organ in the vagina, adding to a woman’s pleasure and comfort

As an uncircumcised man thrusts in and out of a woman’s vagina, his penis head is repeatedly being covered and uncovered by the foreskin, and the head contacts both the inner foreskin and the vagina. The foreskin itself is also being directly stimulated by the vaginal walls, and the interaction between the vagina, foreskin, and penis head produces intensely pleasurable sensations for the man.

Because of the sensitivity of the penis head and all the stimulation provided by the interactions of the vagina, foreskin, and penis head, an uncircumcised man can use more slow and deliberate thrusts, being able to focus on pleasuring his partner instead of his need to work to achieve orgasm. During sex with an uncircumcised penis, both the penis and vagina ride on a cushion of skin, and the vagina experiences pleasure without the soreness that can often accompany circumcised sex. The foreskin is a natural gliding stimulator of the vaginal walls during intercourse, helping her to achieve orgasm more easily.

You should be pleased with your penis regardless of whether it is circumcised or uncircumcised. Both work just fine, and each has its own unique qualities. Some women prefer the hard, fast, and vigorous technique common among circumcised men, while other women women prefer the slow, gentle, deliberate style of lovemaking most commonly seen among uncircumcised men. Though I appreciate the comfort and extra sensation that an uncircumcised penis naturally provides, my first orgasm from intercourse was with a circumcised penis – and so was my last one. A man’s lovemaking skills have much more to do with a woman’s pleasure during sex than whether his penis is circumcised or uncircumcised.

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16 Responses to “Do Women Have More Pleasure during Sex with Circumcised or Uncircumcised Men?”

  1. Restoring Tally Says:

    Your opinion is correct. There is a New Zealand study that determined that many “female problems” are caused by the man being circumcised. I was circumcised at birth and I am restoring my foreskin. Before I restored, we used lots of lube and my female partner usually ended up sore after sex. Now that i am restoring and have some foreskin, we no longer need to use lube, and my female partner does not get sore after sex. She also says that it feels better with the foreskin, but I already knew that based on how she responded. :)

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  3. Beth Says:

    The guy in the picture has a short foreskin compared to the ones I have seen. I do enjoy the skin, it gives me that ribbing effect that I can’t get from circumcised guys. And it does seem like that don’t have to thrust as hard to accomplish an orgasm as guys that have been circumcised. Nice article.

  4. Svetlana Ivanova Says:

    The thing about circumcised men is that they have to learn a lovemaking style that seems to come naturally to uncircumcised men since the head of their penises is more sensitive. Fortunately, for American girls and teenagers, the rates of circumcision are way down from the 80% that it used to be.

  5. Nick Says:

    It usually takes more than just thrusting “hard” to have an orgasm in my opinion, so im thinking it your partners skill that must be the problem. I love how supposedly a circumcised penis is to blame for all of a womans vaginal problems during sex. This article sounds pretty bogus to me, at least the first half. Lube was created for a reason, after all.

  6. Svetlana Ivanova Says:

    Artificial lubrication isn’t usually necessary with an uncircumcised penis, unless the man is large, or the woman is older. For more about the ill effects of circumcision on the sexual satisfaction of women, including links to studies, click here.

  7. Nick Says:

    Leave it to women to blame men for their vaginal problems. Its not like most guys get to make the decision anyway. I can understand how some of this might make sense but the generalization that most circumcised men only have a hard, fast, vigourous technique while uncircumsised men are gentle and deliberate is untrue. Maybe the women have crappy lovers or something and they arent getting enough foreplay but skill has way more to do with a womans pleasure IMO. Also, sometimes some women are just naturally dryer than others in the first place, so it dosent matter if he is circumsised or not, lube is not just there for the guy alone.

  8. Svetlana Ivanova Says:

    “Leave it to women to blame men for their vaginal problems.” You’re kidding, right? Who else should be blamed for vaginal dryness, discomfort or pain, and difficulty achieving orgasm during intercourse? Only a man’s penis can cause these “vaginal problems” or make them an issue for a woman.

    You also seem to be deliberately ignoring that I specifically said: “A man’s lovemaking skills have much more to do with a woman’s pleasure during sex than whether his penis is circumcised or uncircumcised.” Nevertheless, all things being equal, an uncircumcised penis is less likely to cause pain or discomfort and more likely to feel pleasurable inside a woman’s vagina than a circumcised penis.

    The main purpose of the article was to tell circumcised men how to compensate for their lack of a foreskin by becoming more skillful, sensitive lovers and by using lubrication even if they’re not well-endowed.

  9. Nick Says:

    I acknowledged that last sentence so sorry if I didnt make that clear but this article just makes it seem as if all an uncircumcised penis has to do is go in and pump a few times and everyone is happy. Sure, I might be a little biased on the subject but I feel that if you have a circumcised penis and you do everything right like getting a woman properly aroused, communicating and using lube if its needed, then there shouldent be major problem like this in the first place.

  10. Nick Says:

    Lets not forget that a circumcised penis is also cleaner. Sorry, but I figured I had to stand up for my foreskinless bretheren :)

  11. Svetlana Ivanova Says:

    Depends on the man.

  12. Nick Says:

    I know. Just generally speaking.

  13. Svetlana Ivanova Says:

    I’m not really sure what you mean about WordPress automatically rejecting links. I moderate comments all the time with links in them.

  14. Svetlana Ivanova Says:

    No explanation. I didn’t see it in the spam queue either.

  15. Doug Says:

    Nick, you obviously, have a cut cock. Bill, phimosis is uncommon and you could have fixed it without getting half of your cock skin cut off. My parents fortunately had the sense to not circumcise me as an infant. Growing up, I was embarrassed to strip in the locker room after gym class because I thought that my penis was the odd one. However, as a teen and beyond, my girlfriends would tell me what a nice penis I had and it almost seemed like the girls talked because every one of them wanted to give me a try after I had sex with a girl that talked more openly about her sexual exploits. I’ve Been told I’m a much more gentle lover. And I have never had trouble giving my lovers vaginal orgasms within 5 to 7 minutes on average. And after that the floodgates open. Love is biochemical in nature. If you can’t make your woman cum, she can’t form a strong bond with you. If a strong bond isn’t there, she’s more likely to focus on your shortcomings than your good qualities. Most American guys are cut. Its harder to give a vaginal orgasm if you’re cut. Surprise surprise that the divorce rate is approaching 60%. My wife and I have made it through shit that would have most other couples divorced and permanently hating each other. The difference? I don’t bang away at her pussy like a rabid ape. I make love to her gently and she is able to lose herself and cum hard and often. Her brain releases oxytocin and lots of it. We are happier overall. Been together 10 years and counting. But don’t listen to me. Keep cutting yourselves and your baby boys, dooming yourselves and them to a lifetime of sexual inadequacy ; keep reading that bad advice that tells you the woman’s orgasm is her responsibility and that also tells you that a marriage stuck in the courtship stage is normal. If your woman were satisfied (read as MADE WHOLE ) by you and had a strong bond with you, you would experience true love, which courtship is no, and divorce rates would plummet. After all, if the woman’s orgasm is indeed her own responsibility, then what in the hell does she need you for? But no no, don’t listen to me. LOL

    Good blog, svetlana! These guys are clueless.

  16. Svetlana Ivanova Says:

    Thanks, Doug :).

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