About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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One of the fun aspects of having a blog is feedback from readers. I welcome comments on my posts and will comment back when appropriate. Comments are moderated, however, so they won’t appear until I’ve approved them. I encourage honest discussion, but comments that are abusive will not be approved.

I never approve comments that are spam, aren’t relevant to the post, contain links to commercial websites with little or no editorial content, or are in a foreign language that I can’t recognize and translate.

If you have questions about sex techniques or sexual relationships that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can send me an email at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo(dot)com. I cannot answer medical questions.

You are wasting both your time and mine if you contact me about the following:

  • I do not write guest posts for other blogs or websites.
  • I do not publish guest posts from other bloggers or writers.
  • I do not accept advertising for this blog.
  • I do not review books, videos, websites, or sex toys.
  • I will not send you nude photos or sex videos.
  • I do not blog to find sex partners. I explain why I will not meet with you in my post 4 Reasons I Don’t Hook Up with Readers.

Recent Comments

  • Svetlana Ivanova: Depends on the woman.
  • Fox2: Would that be most probably wouldn’t feel it? I have seen you say elsewhere that less than 5″ means...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Some may, but most probably won’t. For some women in long-term relationships, penetration is...
  • Fox2: Not sure if commenting is working at the moment. Thanks but even though these positions will help maximise my...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: These positions help maximize what you have, whatever that is.
  • Fox: Would these positions help with a penis 4-4.5inches long and around 4inches around? Or do you need to be packing...
  • BOB: FUR
  • Svetlana Ivanova: If a woman doesn’t want to please the man she’s with, she’s with the wrong man.
  • Jane Doe: This article not only implies that all men want submissive partners, it tells women to take on a persona....
  • Svetlana Ivanova: It isn’t misogynistic at all. It’s realistic and sex-positive.