About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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3 Great Morning Sex Positions

spooningFeeling sluggish in the morning? Seeking a healthy boost to kick start your day? Seeking to make a connection with your partner that will leave you with a warm glow the rest of your day? Look no further than the bedroom. Scientists say that people who start their days by having sex are all-around healthier and happier than those who don’t. If you do decide to start your day with a “bang,” try one of these three morning sex positions. Continue reading

Sex Toys: How to Add Them to Partner Sex

partner-sexMany people think of sex toys as strictly for masturbation, but they don’t have to be.  If you use sex toys with your partner, they can do double duty and help turn the sex you’re already having into something even better.  However, many couples never add this extra boost to their sex life for various reasons. They may be afraid of insulting their partner, or worry that adding a sex toy will destroy the intimacy of sex in their relationship. They may be shy about revealing how they masturbate or even that they do. None of these concerns should keep you from adding sex toys to partner sex, however, as long as you do it the right way. Continue reading

Two Ways to Make Missionary Position More Pleasurable

Missionary PositionThe missionary position is one of the most used sex positions. It’s not only the position a most couples use when they first have sex, but it’s usually the go-to position later in their relationship. Most women like missionary position for its face-to-face intimacy even though it doesn’t usually provide much clitoral stimulation. With a few adjustments, though, missionary can be as orgasmic as any sex position. Here are some missionary position tips that will increase sexual pleasure for your female partner. Continue reading

8 Foreplay Tips to Drive a Woman Wild With Desire

ForeplayForeplay is an essential ingredient of a satisfying sexual encounter. Women in particular like lots of foreplay to help them become aroused and achieve orgasm – and of course, men love it too! The build-up of sexual tension should be as much a part of the funas the main event. Here are eight tips to help you get more from foreplay and drive your partner wild with desire. Continue reading

How to Give Your Woman a Vaginal Massage

V-MassageA vaginal massage can be an extremely pleasurable experience. It releases emotional tensions and stress. While most couples fondle the vagina as a foreplay technique, few make it the main course. Paying special attention to her vagina is a way to spice up your sex life and strengthen your intimate relationship.

The Benefits of Vaginal Massage

So why is vaginal massage different from simply stimulating the clitoris with your hand? Tt actually has a lot more benefits for both of you because it: Continue reading

4 Orgasmic Sex Positions

happy-coupleSex surveys show that the majority of women do not climax from sexual intercourse. One reason for this, of course, is that their sex partners do not last long enough for them to achieve orgasm. Another is that some sex positions do not provide enough clitoral and/or G-spot stimulation for the woman to achieve orgasm no matter how long her partner lasts. The following four positions provide the stimulation missing in some sex positions. Continue reading

Fingering: Pleasuring a Woman with Your Hand

orgasm-faceFingering is a term meaning the manual manipulation of the clitoris, vulva, vagina, or anus for the purpose of sexual arousal and stimulation. Fingering can be the entire sexual encounter, or it may be part of foreplay. To “finger yourself” is to masturbate with your hand. Fingering can be done outside the vagina only, inside the vagina, or around and inside the anus. Continue reading

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  • Svetlana Ivanova: Depends on the woman.
  • Fox2: Would that be most probably wouldn’t feel it? I have seen you say elsewhere that less than 5″ means...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Some may, but most probably won’t. For some women in long-term relationships, penetration is...
  • Fox2: Not sure if commenting is working at the moment. Thanks but even though these positions will help maximise my...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: These positions help maximize what you have, whatever that is.
  • Fox: Would these positions help with a penis 4-4.5inches long and around 4inches around? Or do you need to be packing...
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  • Svetlana Ivanova: If a woman doesn’t want to please the man she’s with, she’s with the wrong man.
  • Jane Doe: This article not only implies that all men want submissive partners, it tells women to take on a persona....
  • Svetlana Ivanova: It isn’t misogynistic at all. It’s realistic and sex-positive.