About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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5 Ways to Make Your Partner Better at Going Down on You

If your partner is willing but unskilled at cunnilingus, here are five ways to make him better at going down on you.

Almost all women love receiving oral sex, but not every woman is good at giving it. Just being a woman doesn’t make you an expert at going down on another woman. If your lover is a bit below par in the oral department, here are five ways to make your lover better at going down on you. Remember that she is down there because she wants to please you, so help her to help you feel good.  Read more

4 Sex Positions Women Like Better Than Missionary

A survey of 1,100 women revealed that women prefer four positions over missionary.

You want to please your partner. We want to help. (Well, not literally, but you get where this is going.)

That’s why we surveyed more than 1,100 women on which sex positions they wish you’d try more often. Read more

How to Give a Mind-Blowing Blow Job

Tara Babcock reveals how to give and receive a mind-blowing blow job.

10 Cunnilingus Tips and Tricks

woman-having-orgasmSex surveys show that men receive fellatio more often than women receive cunnilingus. One reason for that could be is that some men are not that confident about their ability to please a woman orally. Cunnilingus isn’t rocket science, but it isn’t completely instinctive either. These ten cunnilingus tips and tricks will allow any man to go down on a woman like he’s been there before and knows what he’s doing. Continue reading

The Efflects of Kegel Exercises on Female Orgasm

orgasmSince the pelvic floor muscles are the muscles that that surround the vaginal opening and contract rhythmically during orgasm, it is not surprising that sex therapist emphasize the importance of the PC muscles in the orgasmic response. Nevertheless, there is controversy over the exact effects of the PC muscles on orgasmic response but certain benefits of a strong pelvic floor are well accepted.

A fitter, well-toned pelvic floor will almost certainly increase sexual pleasure for you and your partner, and it can dramatically improve your sexual confidence. The physiological reasons for the improvement go far beyond the increased tactile sensations resulting from a tighter vagina. Continue reading

5 Steps to Better Cunnilingus

O FaceMany men enjoy receiving oral sex even more than having intercourse, so it shouldn’t surprise anyone that many women feel the same way. Cunnilingus is the most surefire way to bring a woman to orgasm, and giving a woman one orgasm is the best way to help her have multiple orgasms, such as during intercourse. Many men are unsure of themselves when it comes to oral sex, though. If that describes you, the following five steps will go a long way to improving your oral skills. Although techniques can help, all the techniques in the world won’t make much difference if you don’t master these basics first. Continue reading

3 Great Sex Techniques to Make a Woman Orgasm

Couple-In-BedMany men are frustrated with their inability to bring their female partners to orgasm while others need something new to spice things up in the bedroom. When it comes to making a woman orgasm, you need to know a variety of sex techniques. It isn’t enough to simply learn one or two different ways to make your partner climax. You need a repertoire of sex techniques that you can use to lead her to sexual bliss. These three are tried and tested way to give women sexual pleasure. Continue reading

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