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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Sex Techniques

The 10 Best Cuddling Positions

Cuddling does not begin and end with spooning. Here are more cuddling positions you can try:

Cuddling is one of the best ways to show affection and increase intimacy with your lover. Cuddling releases a hormone that reduces anxiety and stress, so it increases your mental well-being as well. Cuddling goes way beyond spooning (although spooning made the list, of course), so here are the ten best lesbian cuddling positions to explore. Read more

4 Football Plays You Can Use in the Bedroom

Celebrate the NFL playoffs with these four football plays you can use in the bedroom.

As with most things in life, football offers all the wisdom and lessons you need to understand almost any concept. Although your girlfriend might scoff at the notion, the bedroom is really no exception. After all, if these plays are enough to ensure success on the gridiron, then who is she to say that they won’t work in the sack? Read more

6 Underrated Sex Moves Women Should Try

These six underrated sex moves are ones that women should try, but usually don’t.

Nibble His Ear

The ears are an often-overlooked erogenous zone. Just a light nibble on this sensitive part can send shivers down a man’s spine. Start by whispering something sexy or lightly licking the edge of your guy’s ear. If he responds well, gently nibble on the outer edge or lobe a few times during your next make-out session to really get him in the mood for more. Read more

How to Strengthen Your Penis for Better Sex

Relationship coach Jordan Gray reveals how to strength your penis for better sex.

Have you ever suffered from bouts of erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation (especially when it mattered the most to you to perform well)?

It’s completely normal. It’s also completely avoidable. And it can be so much better.

Want to turn your sex life from something that gives you anxiety into something that you confidently crave? Want to know that you can be up for the challenge whenever it presents itself? Want to know that you will forever be able to sexually provide for your partner?

No more having to rely on excuses like “Sorry, I guess I had too much to drink”, “I’m just not in the mood tonight”, or “I came that quickly because you just looked so damn sexy”.

It’s time to strengthen your penis for better sex, firmer erections, and legendary lasting power between the sheets. Read more

8 Fingering Problems and How to Solve Them

Hayley MacMillen examines eight common fingering problems and dhow to solve them.

Fingering, IMO, is severely underrated, often seen as nothing more than a short stop on you and your partner’s way around the bases when — if done right — it can be a main attraction. Zoë Ligon, sex educator and founder of inclusive sex toy store Spectrum Boutique, is with me on this. “Hands are the most versatile sex toy there is!” she exclaims. “They’re often overlooked and just seen as tools for foreplay, but manual sex is sex.” In the interest of elevating the art of the fingerbang for giver and receiver alike, Cosmopolitan.com asked five sex experts for their takes on the biggest fingering problems and how to address them. Read more

Blindfold Sex: 14 Sensual Ways to Use Blindfolds in Bed

Blindfolds are fun to use in sex because cutting off sight, makes touch more intense. Here are fourteen tips for using them in the bedroom.

According to Jessica O’Reilly, author of The New Sex Bible, blindfolds are the most popular bedroom prop. “The sensory deprivation you experience when you eliminate the sense of sight only heightens the perception of other senses, making every touch and every whisper all the more titillating.”

In addition to heightening the senses, blindfolds also reduce performance pressure and inhibitions. When you blindfold your partner, you are free to cut loose and forget about any self-esteem issues you have that might interfere with pleasure.  Read more

12 Days of Sexmas: Advanced Sex Tips From Women

These twelve days of Sexmas advanced sex tips from Nichi Hodgson will make your Christmas even merrier.

Christmas means a lot of things. It means you’ll probably get to see someone from the office throw up in the toilets before/during/after the office party, your uncle will definitely tell you something you don’t want to know about your mum and you will certainly be the recipient of an ill-advised Secret Santa gift that you’ve got to pretend is “just brilliant”. What it doesn’t have to mean? Average sex.  Read more

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