About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Sex Techniques

10 Foreplay Moves Every Man Should Try

Every man should try these ten foreplay moves to warm up his partner for sex.

Men and women, generally speaking, have very different attitudes towards foreplay. For some men, the very act of putting down their cans of beer and unzipping their flies constitutes as foreplay. But women don’t tend to respond so readily, and they need some warming up first. Read more

What’s Wrong With Doing the Jackhammer?

Sexp” ert Emily Morse explains why “doing the jackhammer” is boring to women.

3 Sex Tricks That Drive Women Wild

You’ve probably heard the admonition that “every woman is different” when it comes to sex techniques. While that is certainly true, some things do work with most women when they’re done correctly. These three sex tricks are good examples.  They work with just about any woman to drive her wild with passion and give her toe-curling orgasms. Continue reading

5 Tips for Men to Give Her the Best Sex She’s Ever Had (From a Woman’s Perspective)

A woman gives men five tips for giving their partner the best sex she’s ever had.

Listen up guys: most lesbians love men. Sure, we might not fall in love with men, but we tend to love guys as friends and peers.

Some of us gay gals love playing sports with guys. Some queer women love geeking out on video games and technology with our nerdy brothers. Just like the affinity between straight women and gay men, there can be a lot of camaraderie between lesbians and straight men. We have so much in common, after all, including a passionate love for women and the desire to sexually satisfy our female lovers. Read more

5 Sex Moves to Try When Thrusting Isn’t Getting Her Off

When your thrusting isn’t getting your partner off, sexpert Pam Babbitt suggests these five sexy moves.

I’m betting that your current sexual paradigm is a far cry from where you started … does get hard, get in, get off sound familiar? But have you considered your thrusting?

In sex , more thrusting does not necessarily mean more pleasure. With stillness, a man’s penis will begin to direct him how to make love, when to move, when to be still. For both partners, motionlessness has the psychological effect of quieting the mind, and it can also be used to moderate your arousal. Read more

10 Sex Tips for When You’re Feeling Tired and Lazy

Brittany Smith gives ten sex tips for when you’re feeling tired and lazy.

Sweaty, electrifying sex in crazy, off-the-wall places is fantastic. But let’s be real: There are times when you’re just not in the mood to put the effort into raunchy sex positions or test your strength during shower or standing against-the-wall sex. Read more

Kunyaza: African Secret to Ultimate Female Orgasm

Kunyaza is a sex technique from Central Africa that uses tapping and rubbing the penis over the clitoris and vulva before penetration in order to increase female arousal and prepare her body for intercourse. Then, similar movements at the opening to the vagina are alternated with shallow and deep thrusts in order to stimulate the G-spot area and trigger female ejaculation. The basic idea behind Kunyaza is to  combine both external and internal stimulation using varied, rhythmic  movements that are adjusted according to the response of the woman. Continue reading

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