About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Sex Techniques

Girth vs. Length and How to Touch a Clitoris

KarenLee Poter interviews a sexologist about the topics of s penis girth vs. length and how to touch a clitoris.

16 Women Reveal Their Go-To Moves for Getting Their Partners to Climaz When They’re Ready to Wrap Things Up In Bed

What to do when you’re ready to call it a night and get some sleep, but your partner keeps going and going like the Energizer Bunny? Sixteen women reveals their go-to moves for getting their partners to climax when they’re ready to wrap things up in bed.

1. TREAT HIS NIPPLES LIKE A PANIC BUTTON

“If I touch his nipples it speeds things up so fast due to the extra stimulation, I have to time it carefully though because if I touch them and play too quickly after starting then I am the one wishing he lasted longer! It is like my secret panic button.” Read more

10 Breast and Nipple Play Tips

One way to spice up foreplay is with more breast play. Try these ten breast and nipple play tips.

A woman’s breasts are one of her primary erogenous zones. They are so erotically sensitive, in fact, that some women can even achieve orgasm from breast and nipple stimulation alone! These ten tips for breast and nipple play may not trigger a nipple orgasm, but even if they don’t, they will be sexy and fun for both you and your lover. Read more

10 Foreplay Moves Every Man Should Try

Every man should try these ten foreplay moves to warm up his partner for sex.

Men and women, generally speaking, have very different attitudes towards foreplay. For some men, the very act of putting down their cans of beer and unzipping their flies constitutes as foreplay. But women don’t tend to respond so readily, and they need some warming up first. Read more

What’s Wrong With Doing the Jackhammer?

Sexp” ert Emily Morse explains why “doing the jackhammer” is boring to women.

3 Sex Tricks That Drive Women Wild

You’ve probably heard the admonition that “every woman is different” when it comes to sex techniques. While that is certainly true, some things do work with most women when they’re done correctly. These three sex tricks are good examples.  They work with just about any woman to drive her wild with passion and give her toe-curling orgasms. Continue reading

5 Tips for Men to Give Her the Best Sex She’s Ever Had (From a Woman’s Perspective)

A woman gives men five tips for giving their partner the best sex she’s ever had.

Listen up guys: most lesbians love men. Sure, we might not fall in love with men, but we tend to love guys as friends and peers.

Some of us gay gals love playing sports with guys. Some queer women love geeking out on video games and technology with our nerdy brothers. Just like the affinity between straight women and gay men, there can be a lot of camaraderie between lesbians and straight men. We have so much in common, after all, including a passionate love for women and the desire to sexually satisfy our female lovers. Read more

Recent Comments

  • Svetlana Ivanova: Depends on the woman.
  • Fox2: Would that be most probably wouldn’t feel it? I have seen you say elsewhere that less than 5″ means...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Some may, but most probably won’t. For some women in long-term relationships, penetration is...
  • Fox2: Not sure if commenting is working at the moment. Thanks but even though these positions will help maximise my...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: These positions help maximize what you have, whatever that is.
  • Fox: Would these positions help with a penis 4-4.5inches long and around 4inches around? Or do you need to be packing...
  • BOB: FUR
  • Svetlana Ivanova: If a woman doesn’t want to please the man she’s with, she’s with the wrong man.
  • Jane Doe: This article not only implies that all men want submissive partners, it tells women to take on a persona....
  • Svetlana Ivanova: It isn’t misogynistic at all. It’s realistic and sex-positive.