About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Sex Techniques

Cuddling Positions That Turn Women On

Bobby Williams reveals the cuddling positions that turn women on.

Body contact is the ultimate stimulation technique to foreplay. Girls go crazy over it – and some guys like it also. Our skin sends signals to our brain and triggers that parts which elude protection, love, and sex. To each person, the levels are different since our bio rhythms vary from in biological patterns.

In a less scientific definition… women get hot when we cuddle. You can tell a lot about a person by the way they cuddle which is why we need to step up our game in the cuddling department. What do you want to tell your girlfriend? The cuddling language is a complete translation to one’s affection for the other, and women base it on an emotional level. Read more

Sex Without Intercourse: A Hot Option for Lovers of All Ages

Michael Castleman says that vaginal intercourse is not necessary for peak erotic pleasure or orgasm.

We live in a sexual culture overwhelmingly focused on intercourse. Sex in books, movies, and on TV is dominated by the old in-and-out. To many Americans “sex,” means intercourse.

But for many lovers, sex that revolves around intercourse is problematic: Read more

14 Sex Moves That Are So Easy and Yet Feel So Good

Natasha Ivanovic says these fourteen sex moves are so easy, and yet feel so good.

You know the saying, good sex is hard to find. And at the end of the day, the connection you have with someone that you have sex with is important. But, even with an amazing connection, you need to know the right sex moves that feel good.

Of course, this isn’t going to happen overnight. In fact, it may take you a couple times to figure out what works for both of you. [Read: 10 often-overlooked sex moves you’ll love in bed]

The sex moves that feel good Read more

12 Days of Sexmas: Advanced Sex Tips

Women offer some advanced sex tips to make Christmas even merrier.

Christmas means a lot of things. It means you’ll probably get to see someone from the office throw up in the toilets before/during/after the office party, your uncle will definitely tell you something you don’t want to know about your mum and you will certainly be the recipient of an ill-advised Secret Santa gift that you’ve got to pretend is “just brilliant”. What it doesn’t have to mean? Average sex.

If you’re lucky, you’ll be getting a chunk of time off work and be at home with your significant other for a longer stretch than at any other time of the year. But what are you to do when good old standard missionary loses its merriment? While lists of sex tricks are ten a penny on the old gossip wall that is the internet and anyone that’s ever got it on can cobble together a must-do-between-the-sheets list, we dug deeper for you this year. Read more

5 Fingering Techniques You Should Try

Believe it or not, women enjoy fingering about as much as they enjoy oral sex and penis-in-vagina penetration. Take advantage of that with these five fun and pleasurable techniques.

Porn portrays lesbian sex as mostly dildos and scissoring, but fingering is actually the most popular lesbian sexual practice, according to at least one sex survey. Since most lesbians enjoy fingering, it’s important to know how to make it fun and pleasurable. The following are five fingering techniques that every lesbian should know. Read more

Girth vs. Length and How to Touch a Clitoris

KarenLee Poter interviews a sexologist about the topics of s penis girth vs. length and how to touch a clitoris.

16 Women Reveal Their Go-To Moves for Getting Their Partners to Climaz When They’re Ready to Wrap Things Up In Bed

What to do when you’re ready to call it a night and get some sleep, but your partner keeps going and going like the Energizer Bunny? Sixteen women reveals their go-to moves for getting their partners to climax when they’re ready to wrap things up in bed.


“If I touch his nipples it speeds things up so fast due to the extra stimulation, I have to time it carefully though because if I touch them and play too quickly after starting then I am the one wishing he lasted longer! It is like my secret panic button.” Read more

Recent Comments

  • Flinkd: Bigger penis is stretching the walls of the vagina better. (nerve endings feel more pressure, therefore...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Depends on the woman.
  • Fox2: Would that be most probably wouldn’t feel it? I have seen you say elsewhere that less than 5″ means...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Some may, but most probably won’t. For some women in long-term relationships, penetration is...
  • Fox2: Not sure if commenting is working at the moment. Thanks but even though these positions will help maximise my...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: These positions help maximize what you have, whatever that is.
  • Fox: Would these positions help with a penis 4-4.5inches long and around 4inches around? Or do you need to be packing...
  • BOB: FUR
  • Svetlana Ivanova: If a woman doesn’t want to please the man she’s with, she’s with the wrong man.
  • Jane Doe: This article not only implies that all men want submissive partners, it tells women to take on a persona....