About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Sexual Relationships

Women Share the Lies They’ve Told in Bed

Fifteen women reveal the outrageous lies they’ve told during sex.

For most guys, sex is a pretty tricky subject. We’re taught from a young age that it’s weird, or bad, or dirty, or sinful. Then puberty hits and, holy cow, we can’t think about anything else. We aren’t given any real instructions except for “don’t get an infection” and “don’t get anyone pregnant,” unless we get the explicit instructions “don’t have any sex with anyone until you’re married.”

Our first times are awkward, bad, sometimes painful and sometimes emotionally scarring. Ultimately we kind of cobble together a toolkit of “things to do during sex” through trial and error. But even by their mid- to late-20s, many guys really aren’t any good in bed.  Read more

How to Get Her in the Mood for Morning Sex

Ali Eaves explains what to do when you’re an early riser, and she isn’t.

It bugs me how late she likes to sleep on weekends. How do I get her to join me at the breakfast table?
—Andrew from Athens, Ohio

You’re hoping I’ll say morning sex, aren’t you?

Sorry, but I’d suggest bacon. There are few people on Earth who aren’t roused by the smell of sizzling pork fat.  Read more

5 Things Men Think Women Like in Bed – But Don’t

Men often believe women like these five things, but they don’t, says Lindsay Tigar.

You all have certain go-to moves in the bedroom that one girlfriend acted like she loved, so you’ve tried it with every girlfriend since then. While it might seem like something that really gets women going, it’s important to actually pay attention if it’s doing the trick, or, well, boring her (or worse, freaking her out). Just like every new person you have sex with makes for a different experience, new bodies respond in varying ways to positions, techniques and moves, and as a great lover, it’s important to always shape your habits to fit your lover’s needs. (Just as they’ll do the same with you.) Read more

Tips for Making Love to Older Women

Porn star Nina Hartley offers men tips on making love with older women.

5 Steamy Reasons to Shower Together EVERY Morning

If saving water isn’t a good enough reason to shower with your partner every morning, here are five more good reasons.

The movies out there have taught us over the years that every shower scene turns into steamy SEX shower within seconds. Of course, movies forget to mention some important things that can either make it into a fantastic experience or wonder why on Earth would someone portray it like that in a movie when the reality is so different.

Apart from the sexual portion, showering as a couple has other immense benefits — and no, we’re not just talking about saving on water.

Here’re 5 reasons you should get sudsy together instead of solo: Read more

Sex Toys: How to Add Them to Partner Sex

partner-sexMany people think of sex toys as strictly for masturbation, but they don’t have to be.  If you use sex toys with your partner, they can do double duty and help turn the sex you’re already having into something even better.  However, many couples never add this extra boost to their sex life for various reasons. They may be afraid of insulting their partner, or worry that adding a sex toy will destroy the intimacy of sex in their relationship. They may be shy about revealing how they masturbate or even that they do. None of these concerns should keep you from adding sex toys to partner sex, however, as long as you do it the right way. Continue reading

3 Simple Steps to Spice Up a Boring Sex Life

If your sex life has fallen into a rut that you can’t seem to get out of, try these three simple steps to spice things up.

Learning how to spice up your sex life is far easier than you think.

It’s not always a case of going to your local sex shop (or online) and buying whips, chains, handcuffs, and all other sorts of bondage equipment. You certainly can if that is what you’re into, but it’s not always necessary.

There are actually a lot of simple things that you can try out with your man, that will work just as effectively without you needing to “go off the deep end.”

Let me show you 3 to get you started: Read more

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