About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Sexual Relationships

10 Tips to Make Married Sex Feel Like a One-Night Stand

Has your sex life gone into hibernation after marriage? Use these ten easy tips on how to make married sex feel like a one-night stand.

A marriage is a happy beginning to many things.

But when it comes to sex, a marriage can do more damage than good.

Of course, the first few months of a marriage after dating each other for years can still be fun. Read more

5 Ways to Fix Bad Sex

Your relationship doesn’t have to suffer because of bad sex. Mikayla gives five ways to go from bad sex to better sex, and even great sex.

Ugh.  Nothing is quite as disappointing as bad sex!  You have all this anticipation looking forward to this romance-novel type experience where the orgasms flow like rivers and soft music plays in the background while you and your lover roll around pleasing each other only to have the reality fall very, very short!  This could be simply bad “first time sex” or it could be something more regular.  Whichever it is, bad sex sucks!  So, how do you go from BAD sex to better and even GREAT sex?  Here are 5 quick tips! Read more

7 Ways to Be Good in Bed

Sexpert Tracey Cox says there are seven things you must master to be good in bed.

A great body? Being able to tie a cherry stalk into a knot with your tongue? Knowing every position in the Kama Sutra?

What ARE the qualities that separate an average lover from a brilliant one?

I’d say if you can tick all these boxes, you can award yourself a big gold star! Read more

6 Tips for Having Casual Sex

Casual sex isn’t just for sluts anymore. Maura Kelly gives six tips for how to have casual sex.

Lovelies:

Over the weekend, I spent some time with my dear friend Jack, a frequent contributor to Nerve.com, where he writes the column “I Did It for Science.” Jack is absolutely frighteningly brilliant–or at least, I’m always half-terrified, when I’m with him, that I won’t be able to keep up: He has a B.A. from Brown and a Ph.D. in Medieval Literature from Duke. And yet, he’s no geek: When he talks, you’re mesmerized by the stories he tells, amazed by the books he waxes so eloquent about it, and laughing at the jokes he’s always making. Plus, he’s so rakishly handsome–with a thick swirl of ginger hair, a toothy smile, and high cheekbones–that I always have a moment of elevated heart-beating when I first see him again. As if all that weren’t fantastic enough, he is a huge sweetheart: in addition to being attentive and sweet when we’re hanging out, he also goes out of his way to help me in any way he can. Read more

What Is the Right Time to Orgasm?

Women reveal when they want their partners to orgasm.

Orgasming is the obvious end goal to pretty much every sex act. But when it comes to how long it takes you to get there, what’s the ideal amount of time to last before giving yourself over to the big “O”?

Of course, the answer is going to vary from person to person. But if you’re taking too long or climaxing too early, it’s likely that your partner is going to try out a few tactics to either speed things up — or keep you from coming Read more

7 Sneaky Ways to Show a Man What You Like in Bed

Some women are afraid that their sex partners will be offended or think they’re sluts if they tell them what they want in bed, so Isis Nezbeth  reveals some alternative ways to make your point.

The only thing worse than not having sex is having bad sex, but how do you let him know he’s not getting you there? Should you even tell him? The answer is yes. Sometimes you gotta let him know what’s up! You don’t have to argue about the sex, you can simply show him what you really want. Here are seven sneaky ways to show him what you really want in bed. Let’s get into it! Read more

10 Things Men Wish Women Knew About Sex

Find out ten things men wish women knew about male sexuality.

Freud called female sexuality “the dark continent”; if that’s true, male sexuality could qualify as the dark planet. But when it comes to sex, guys are simple, right? Not true. The bedroom is one of the great stages of male performance, and as such, what you see and hear is typically the role, not the reality. It’s no wonder, in trying to please the actor, a woman loses sight of a guy’s true identity. Here are 10 “unmasking” facts you may want to know: Read more

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