JoEllen Notte says you must have these five things for a successful friends-with-benefits relationships.
I love having friends with benefits!
No-strings-attached sex with someone who I’m comfortable with? Awesome!
The thing is, because so many of us were taught that committed relationships were the goal of all sex, this is new territory for a lot of folks — and that can lead to trouble.
With that in mind, I’ve put together this handy list of 5 keys to successful friends with benefits relationships to help you keep your FWB time WTF-free: Read more
If you’re unsatisfied with your sex life, see if you might be making these mistakes.
By now you may have perfected the missionary position and learned how to unhook a bra with one hand. But there’s still plenty you could be doing to get women more interested in having sex with you.
“If you’re being offered a template on how to titillate and stimulate your woman, take it!” says sex educator Dr. Yvonne K. Fulbright. “She’s not suggesting that you’re bad in bed; she’s just letting you know what her preferences are.”
Women like having sex. A lot of them love it, and a few even think about it all the time. But their shortcoming is that they often want men to be mind readers. Many women aren’t confident enough to ask for what they want in bed, so instead, they accept a so-so sex life. Read more
Fifteen women reveal the outrageous lies they’ve told during sex.
For most guys, sex is a pretty tricky subject. We’re taught from a young age that it’s weird, or bad, or dirty, or sinful. Then puberty hits and, holy cow, we can’t think about anything else. We aren’t given any real instructions except for “don’t get an infection” and “don’t get anyone pregnant,” unless we get the explicit instructions “don’t have any sex with anyone until you’re married.”
Our first times are awkward, bad, sometimes painful and sometimes emotionally scarring. Ultimately we kind of cobble together a toolkit of “things to do during sex” through trial and error. But even by their mid- to late-20s, many guys really aren’t any good in bed. Read more
Men often believe women like these five things, but they don’t, says Lindsay Tigar.
You all have certain go-to moves in the bedroom that one girlfriend acted like she loved, so you’ve tried it with every girlfriend since then. While it might seem like something that really gets women going, it’s important to actually pay attention if it’s doing the trick, or, well, boring her (or worse, freaking her out). Just like every new person you have sex with makes for a different experience, new bodies respond in varying ways to positions, techniques and moves, and as a great lover, it’s important to always shape your habits to fit your lover’s needs. (Just as they’ll do the same with you.) Read more
Porn star Nina Hartley offers men tips on making love with older women.
If saving water isn’t a good enough reason to shower with your partner every morning, here are five more good reasons.
The movies out there have taught us over the years that every shower scene turns into steamy SEX shower within seconds. Of course, movies forget to mention some important things that can either make it into a fantastic experience or wonder why on Earth would someone portray it like that in a movie when the reality is so different.
Apart from the sexual portion, showering as a couple has other immense benefits — and no, we’re not just talking about saving on water.
Here’re 5 reasons you should get sudsy together instead of solo: Read more