About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Sexual Relationships

How To Turn a One-Night Stand Into a Regular Booty Call

Danielle Page reveals how to turn a one-night stand into a regular booty call.

Booty calls are the lazy man’s one-night stand. And that goes doubly if you’re able to find a girl who’s willing to be your regular go-to. For starters, booty calls are more reliable — and definitely involve less work. They’re also easier on your wallet — assuming you’re being a gentleman and buying your target a drink. Not to mention how time efficient the whole booty call process can be, when done right. Instead of chatting up a girl for hours at the bar only to have her turn down your offer to come back to your place, your booty call is, ideally, ready and able. Read more

How to Tell if a Man Is Good in Bed BEFORE You Get Between the Sheets

Here’s how to tell if a man is good in bed before you take off your clothes and get between the sheets with him.

You can’t tell how good in bed a man is by just his appearance. That would be ridiculous, right? Actually, wrong.

That shy gentleman who took you out to dinner the other night may actually be an animal in the sack. On the other hand, that boisterous dude who took you to a crazy rock concert may be a dud. While there is no way to truly tell until you both hit the sheets, there are a few signals.

Daily Mail writer Tracey Cox lists 13 ways to tell what he may be like in the bedroom.

He’s good in bed if… Read more

10 Tips to Make Married Sex Feel Like a One-Night Stand

Has your sex life gone into hibernation after marriage? Use these ten easy tips on how to make married sex feel like a one-night stand.

A marriage is a happy beginning to many things.

But when it comes to sex, a marriage can do more damage than good.

Of course, the first few months of a marriage after dating each other for years can still be fun. Read more

5 Ways to Fix Bad Sex

Your relationship doesn’t have to suffer because of bad sex. Mikayla gives five ways to go from bad sex to better sex, and even great sex.

Ugh.  Nothing is quite as disappointing as bad sex!  You have all this anticipation looking forward to this romance-novel type experience where the orgasms flow like rivers and soft music plays in the background while you and your lover roll around pleasing each other only to have the reality fall very, very short!  This could be simply bad “first time sex” or it could be something more regular.  Whichever it is, bad sex sucks!  So, how do you go from BAD sex to better and even GREAT sex?  Here are 5 quick tips! Read more

7 Ways to Be Good in Bed

Sexpert Tracey Cox says there are seven things you must master to be good in bed.

A great body? Being able to tie a cherry stalk into a knot with your tongue? Knowing every position in the Kama Sutra?

What ARE the qualities that separate an average lover from a brilliant one?

I’d say if you can tick all these boxes, you can award yourself a big gold star! Read more

6 Tips for Having Casual Sex

Casual sex isn’t just for sluts anymore. Maura Kelly gives six tips for how to have casual sex.

Lovelies:

Over the weekend, I spent some time with my dear friend Jack, a frequent contributor to Nerve.com, where he writes the column “I Did It for Science.” Jack is absolutely frighteningly brilliant–or at least, I’m always half-terrified, when I’m with him, that I won’t be able to keep up: He has a B.A. from Brown and a Ph.D. in Medieval Literature from Duke. And yet, he’s no geek: When he talks, you’re mesmerized by the stories he tells, amazed by the books he waxes so eloquent about it, and laughing at the jokes he’s always making. Plus, he’s so rakishly handsome–with a thick swirl of ginger hair, a toothy smile, and high cheekbones–that I always have a moment of elevated heart-beating when I first see him again. As if all that weren’t fantastic enough, he is a huge sweetheart: in addition to being attentive and sweet when we’re hanging out, he also goes out of his way to help me in any way he can. Read more

What Is the Right Time to Orgasm?

Women reveal when they want their partners to orgasm.

Orgasming is the obvious end goal to pretty much every sex act. But when it comes to how long it takes you to get there, what’s the ideal amount of time to last before giving yourself over to the big “O”?

Of course, the answer is going to vary from person to person. But if you’re taking too long or climaxing too early, it’s likely that your partner is going to try out a few tactics to either speed things up — or keep you from coming Read more

Recent Comments

  • Svetlana Ivanova: Depends on the woman.
  • Fox2: Would that be most probably wouldn’t feel it? I have seen you say elsewhere that less than 5″ means...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Some may, but most probably won’t. For some women in long-term relationships, penetration is...
  • Fox2: Not sure if commenting is working at the moment. Thanks but even though these positions will help maximise my...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: These positions help maximize what you have, whatever that is.
  • Fox: Would these positions help with a penis 4-4.5inches long and around 4inches around? Or do you need to be packing...
  • BOB: FUR
  • Svetlana Ivanova: If a woman doesn’t want to please the man she’s with, she’s with the wrong man.
  • Jane Doe: This article not only implies that all men want submissive partners, it tells women to take on a persona....
  • Svetlana Ivanova: It isn’t misogynistic at all. It’s realistic and sex-positive.