About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Sexual Relationships

10 Things That Turn Men on in the Bedroom

Mark Rosenfeld reveals the top ten thing turn men on in the bedroom.

5 Things Women Can Do to Be Better in Bed

Nikolao Montaya, shares five things women can do to be better in bed.

Men are often given advice about how to perform sexually, while women are left to themselves to figure it out on their own. The only information they are ever given come from women’s magazines and talk shows that don’t care about telling them the truth. They would rather repeat the same old things that make everyone nod instead of educating girls and make them better in bed. So for those women who want their men to stick around, here’s how you do it. Read more

5 Good Girl Turned Bad Girl Sex Tricks

Discover the hidden vixen waiting to come out and play with these five sex tricks every bad girl uses!

Have you ever secretly wished you were a bad girl in disguise? Most guy’s secret fantasy is knowing that while their woman is respectable, they can also get down and dirty in the bedroom. Not sure how to release the vixen within? It’s not as difficult as you may think! You don’t need tons of sexual experience, leather get-ups (although they don’t hurt!) or a demanding attitude. What you do need is a willingness to explore being more confident in your sexual life. To help you out, we’ve compiled the best Bad Girl Tricks that will turn you into a bedroom vixen almost overnight. Your partner won’t know what hit him, but he sure won’t be complaining! Read more

What to Do if You’ve Run Out of Ideas for What to Do in Bed

The longer you’ve been together, the more likely this is to happen: what do you do when you’ve run out of ideas for what to do in bed? Sexpert Tracey Cox has some thoughts.

Lots of couples think the ‘new’ thing has to be something crazy kinky to work. It doesn’t.

The trick is to try one or two small things and build from there.

Here’s some ideas to get you started: Read more

11 Signs a Man Is Very Experienced in the Bedroom

Krista McHarden reveals how to tell if a man is very experienced in the bedroom.

Reddit shared how to tell if the man you’re with is experienced in the ~sexual arts~, and it all checks out. Here’s how to tell if the dude you’re boning (or about to bone down with) knows how to please a lady. (Lady = you. Duh.) Read more

15 Things All Women Who Are Good in Bed Do

Do men really want “a lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets?” Sexpert Tracey Cox says yes.

What do men want from women in the bedroom?

We’ve all heard the one about ‘a lady in the street and a whore in the bedroom’, but how much truth is there in the saying?

After years of researching and writing about sex, I’d say quite a bit – in the second half at least. Read more

Ex-Dominatrix Reveals Sex and Relationship Tips

If there is anyone who knows everything there is to know about the sexual desires and needs of both men and women, it’s former dominatrix Nichi Hodgson.

n part one of this series with Nichi, the journalist, Ooh by Je Joue brand ambassador and former dominatrix has top tips for keeping the passion in any relationship – be it two months or 62 years down the line.  Read more

Recent Comments

  • Svetlana Ivanova: Depends on the woman.
  • Fox2: Would that be most probably wouldn’t feel it? I have seen you say elsewhere that less than 5″ means...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Some may, but most probably won’t. For some women in long-term relationships, penetration is...
  • Fox2: Not sure if commenting is working at the moment. Thanks but even though these positions will help maximise my...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: These positions help maximize what you have, whatever that is.
  • Fox: Would these positions help with a penis 4-4.5inches long and around 4inches around? Or do you need to be packing...
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  • Svetlana Ivanova: If a woman doesn’t want to please the man she’s with, she’s with the wrong man.
  • Jane Doe: This article not only implies that all men want submissive partners, it tells women to take on a persona....
  • Svetlana Ivanova: It isn’t misogynistic at all. It’s realistic and sex-positive.