About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Sex Positions

7 Sex Positions More Fun Than Doggy-Style

Jamie Hergenrader reveals how to score all the benefits of doing it from behind, without getting down on all fours..

Ladies and gents love doing it doggy style. And though the name leaves a lot to be desired (seriously, who came up with that?), this position offers up lots of benefits so you get the most bang for your, um, bang.  Read moreRead more

4 Tips for Being on the Bottom

Missionary position is the most popular sex position, so Tara Block gives four tips for enjoying it even more.

So I’ve given you some tips for being on the top, but good old missionary position (guy on top) is also a fan favorite! The guy being on top can give a man a real sense of control and dominance, which can be very arousing to a woman, but since you’re not doing much of the moving around, here are some tips to make being on the bottom more exciting. Read more

7 Sex Positions That Involve Minimal Eye Contact

Whether it’s a one-night stands or hooking up with an ex, here are seven sex positions that involved minimal eye contact.

There are about as many different sex positions as there are flavors of ice cream. Sometimes you’re all about the ones that make you feel closer together as a couple. Other times—like when you’ve brought home the bartender you keep flirting with, or you ran into your emotionally stunted ex who has a magical vagina—they feel too intimate. There’s nothing wrong with doing lovey-dovey sex positions, but depending on the situation, that might be the last thing you want. In those moments, try these. Read more

16 Exotic Sex Positions You Need to Try

Natasha Ivanovic describes sixteen hot sex positions you need to try out.

Sometimes you need that extra spice and pizzazz in the bedroom. Vanilla sex is fine and dandy; however, it’s time to try some exotic sex positions.

Missionary is great, I mean, you can’t go wrong with this oldie but goodie. But there are some days where you just want to switch it up and try something out of the ordinary. And a few good exotic sex positions can take your sex life to a whole new level. Read more

How to Make Spooning the BEST Sex Position for… Just About Everything

Spooning is more than just a cuddling position. It can be the best sex position for just about everything.

Spooning offers the perfect blend of passion and intimacy. It combines the body-to-body, side-by-side closeness of romantic sex positions with the power and excitement of going at it from behind. Meanwhile, both of you are comfortable lying down and neither person is totally “in power.” Rather, both of you are moving in tandem to give you each the ultimate pleasure. Read more

7 Sex Positions That Work the Clitoris and G-Spot at the Same Time

Jamie Hergenrader says that these seven sex positions stimulate a woman’s clitoris and G-spot at the same time.

When a certain sex position feels amazing, it’s safe to assume that it’s hitting either your G-spot or your clitoris.

But what about positions that—wait for it—stimulate both hot spots at the same time? Yes, those magical unicorn positions do exist and they’re bound to result in a mind-blowing orgasm.

It’s a buy-one, get-one (BOGO) for your vagina, basically. Ready for a sex fest like no other? Allow us to blow your mind. Read more

The Most Popular Sex Positions in 9 Different Countries

Find out how  sex position preferences vary in different countries around the world

DrEd, a U.K.-based doctor-service site, asked 2,000 people in the U.S. and the U.K. about their favorite sex positions, and—for better or worse—it appears most of us aren’t terribly eager to reinvent the wheel. Doggy style was the most popular, favored by 35.1 percent of respondents, followed by missionary (22.5 percent) and cowgirl (19.4 percent). After those three, the numbers took a pretty big dip: “holding legs up” and “69” each got 4.3 percent of the vote, “spooning” sex got 4.1 percent, and 3.9 percent of people say they favor “reverse cowgirl.” Read more

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