About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Sex Positions

The 7 Most Pleasurable Sex Positions

D.A. Barber says these are the seven most pleasurable sex positions. Have you tried them all?

If your sex life is loosing its excitement or you just want to spice things up and make her moan every night, then it’s time to start experimenting with the 7 most pleasurable sex positions. No, you don’t have to become a Kamasutra master or crawl into bed with a bunch of battery-operated toys. You’ll just need to be willing to sweat a bit (chicks like that!) while you lift, squat and bounce her panting body around. So consider this a “menu” of the 7 most pleasurable sex positions to feed your gratification and surprise the hell out of her. Read more

5 Great Sex Positions for a Thick Penis

In the debates about the importance of  to penis size, women generally acknowledge that long looks great, but thick feels great. A thick penis is highly pleasurable during sex. The advantage of a thick penis is that the thickness helps to stimulate all the nerve endings found at the entrance of the vagina. Also, a thick penis stretches and fills the vagina, which is a satisfying feeling for a woman. Some women are a bit intimiddated by a thick penis, but using the right sex position can make penetration smooth and enjoyable. These five sex positions are great if your partner has a thick penis Two of them also work well for anal sex.. Continue reading

How to Perform the Golden Gate 69 Position

The Golden Gate 69 position is difficult to perform, but if you like to experiment, give it a try.

The Golden Gate sex position is a 69 position so that both you and your man can perform oral sex on each other at the same time. It’s a very difficult to perform position and not many students have reported it as that pleasurable, so it’s more a novelty sex position than a serious one. You’ll find plenty of satisfying position in our sex positions guide with illustrations. Read more

4 Sex Positions Women Like Better Than Missionary

A survey of 1,100 women revealed that women prefer four positions over missionary.

You want to please your partner. We want to help. (Well, not literally, but you get where this is going.)

That’s why we surveyed more than 1,100 women on which sex positions they wish you’d try more often. Read more

6 Doggy-Style Problems and How to Solve Them

If you don’t like doggy-style sex for some reason, the problem may be fixable, according to Hayley MacMillen.

When you think of doggy style, you probably think of kneeling on all fours while your partner grabs your hips and enters you from behind … but this isn’t the only option. This position is easy to modify, which is good news for those of us for whom it doesn’t work perfectly every time. Ahead, six common doggy-style struggles and what to do about them. Read more

7 Sex Positions That Help Men Last Longer

One reason that women do not have orgasms from sexual intercourse is that their partners don’t last long enough. These seen sex positions can help with thatt although one is more a technique than a position.

Ever find yourself in the heat of the moment… and then things are over WAY too soon? Endurance is no laughing matter, and it’s something that can create a mess of even the best planned nights.

But how can we help our date to last longer? Sex positions that create relatively shallow penetration are quite helpful in having him last longer before orgasm since deep thrusting (like what you do in doggy style) often makes guys come a lot earlier than desired. Read more

5 Camping Sex Positions to Ignite Your Passion for the Great Outdoors

Make nature more fun with these five camping sex positions.

Camping can be super romantic what with all the nature, snuggling up in your tent by the fire, and looking up at the stars. But a camping trip, especially the first one together, is a big-ass relationship milestone. Can it withstand constant togetherness amid withdrawal from Wi-Fi, decent coffee, and comfort in general?

If you’re willing to put your relationship to that kind of test, these are the positions that’ll make it worth the trek. Read more

Recent Comments

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