About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Sex Positions

7 Sex Positions That Work the Clitoris and G-Spot at the Same Time

Jamie Hergenrader says that these seven sex positions stimulate a woman’s clitoris and G-spot at the same time.

When a certain sex position feels amazing, it’s safe to assume that it’s hitting either your G-spot or your clitoris.

But what about positions that—wait for it—stimulate both hot spots at the same time? Yes, those magical unicorn positions do exist and they’re bound to result in a mind-blowing orgasm.

It’s a buy-one, get-one (BOGO) for your vagina, basically. Ready for a sex fest like no other? Allow us to blow your mind. Read more

The Most Popular Sex Positions in 9 Different Countries

Find out how  sex position preferences vary in different countries around the world

DrEd, a U.K.-based doctor-service site, asked 2,000 people in the U.S. and the U.K. about their favorite sex positions, and—for better or worse—it appears most of us aren’t terribly eager to reinvent the wheel. Doggy style was the most popular, favored by 35.1 percent of respondents, followed by missionary (22.5 percent) and cowgirl (19.4 percent). After those three, the numbers took a pretty big dip: “holding legs up” and “69” each got 4.3 percent of the vote, “spooning” sex got 4.1 percent, and 3.9 percent of people say they favor “reverse cowgirl.” Read more

5 Sex Positions That Hit Her G-Spot

If you want to give your partner a G-spot orgasm, try these five sex positions, says Mikayla.

Who doesn’t want to have the best sex ever? And what woman doesn’t want to have a glorious G-Spot orgasm? Well, I think it is safe to say that all women would love to have this type of orgasm and those who have already had one would like to have more! However, the G-Spot orgasm is not always easy to achieve. Sure, there are those rare women who can just think G-Spot and have an orgasm – but they are the rare birds of our sex. The G-Spot, on average, is a hard thing to stimulate during intercourse. Why? Well, it is on the top side of the vagina, about 2-3 inches in. It is not always enlarged enough to be stimulated. A penis is usually flexible and not as hard as needed for proper stim (no offense guys!) Also, it takes a long time to get to the point where you can have an orgasm from G-Spot stim. So, how can you improve your odds?

START WITH THESE THREE TIPS Read more

The 7 Most Pleasurable Sex Positions

D.A. Barber says these are the seven most pleasurable sex positions. Have you tried them all?

If your sex life is loosing its excitement or you just want to spice things up and make her moan every night, then it’s time to start experimenting with the 7 most pleasurable sex positions. No, you don’t have to become a Kamasutra master or crawl into bed with a bunch of battery-operated toys. You’ll just need to be willing to sweat a bit (chicks like that!) while you lift, squat and bounce her panting body around. So consider this a “menu” of the 7 most pleasurable sex positions to feed your gratification and surprise the hell out of her. Read more

5 Great Sex Positions for a Thick Penis

In the debates about the importance of  to penis size, women generally acknowledge that long looks great, but thick feels great. A thick penis is highly pleasurable during sex. The advantage of a thick penis is that the thickness helps to stimulate all the nerve endings found at the entrance of the vagina. Also, a thick penis stretches and fills the vagina, which is a satisfying feeling for a woman. Some women are a bit intimiddated by a thick penis, but using the right sex position can make penetration smooth and enjoyable. These five sex positions are great if your partner has a thick penis Two of them also work well for anal sex.. Continue reading

How to Perform the Golden Gate 69 Position

The Golden Gate 69 position is difficult to perform, but if you like to experiment, give it a try.

The Golden Gate sex position is a 69 position so that both you and your man can perform oral sex on each other at the same time. It’s a very difficult to perform position and not many students have reported it as that pleasurable, so it’s more a novelty sex position than a serious one. You’ll find plenty of satisfying position in our sex positions guide with illustrations. Read more

4 Sex Positions Women Like Better Than Missionary

A survey of 1,100 women revealed that women prefer four positions over missionary.

You want to please your partner. We want to help. (Well, not literally, but you get where this is going.)

That’s why we surveyed more than 1,100 women on which sex positions they wish you’d try more often. Read more

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