About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Sex Positions

4 Sex Positions Women Like Better Than Missionary

A survey of 1,100 women revealed that women prefer four positions over missionary.

You want to please your partner. We want to help. (Well, not literally, but you get where this is going.)

That’s why we surveyed more than 1,100 women on which sex positions they wish you’d try more often. Read more

6 Doggy-Style Problems and How to Solve Them

If you don’t like doggy-style sex for some reason, the problem may be fixable, according to Hayley MacMillen.

When you think of doggy style, you probably think of kneeling on all fours while your partner grabs your hips and enters you from behind … but this isn’t the only option. This position is easy to modify, which is good news for those of us for whom it doesn’t work perfectly every time. Ahead, six common doggy-style struggles and what to do about them. Read more

7 Sex Positions That Help Men Last Longer

One reason that women do not have orgasms from sexual intercourse is that their partners don’t last long enough. These seen sex positions can help with thatt although one is more a technique than a position.

Ever find yourself in the heat of the moment… and then things are over WAY too soon? Endurance is no laughing matter, and it’s something that can create a mess of even the best planned nights.

But how can we help our date to last longer? Sex positions that create relatively shallow penetration are quite helpful in having him last longer before orgasm since deep thrusting (like what you do in doggy style) often makes guys come a lot earlier than desired. Read more

5 Camping Sex Positions to Ignite Your Passion for the Great Outdoors

Make nature more fun with these five camping sex positions.

Camping can be super romantic what with all the nature, snuggling up in your tent by the fire, and looking up at the stars. But a camping trip, especially the first one together, is a big-ass relationship milestone. Can it withstand constant togetherness amid withdrawal from Wi-Fi, decent coffee, and comfort in general?

If you’re willing to put your relationship to that kind of test, these are the positions that’ll make it worth the trek. Read more

My Sex Positions Ebook Is Available!

missionary-positionEverybody says that changing sex positions is good, that knowing your different options will make your sex life exciting and so on, but why, how, and what advantages does it actually give a couple? One thing trying new sex positions is not about is sexual acrobatics, which few people are interested in  What many couples are interested in, though, is making sex more fun and pleasurable. Continue reading

6 Doggy-Style Tips for Women

doddy-styleMen love the doggy-style position, but women? Not so much.. Doggy-style has the woman on all fours with her partner entering her from behind. Men love it because they not only do  they get a great view of your behind, but many also say it takes less effort and that they’re able to enter you deeper than in other sex positions. Women, on the other hand, often find the position, not only impersonal, but also uncomfortable, or eve painful. Following these six tips may just lead to an entirely different experience in this position. Continue reading

How to Have Stand-Up Sex Against a Wall

Stand-up sex against a wall is a Hollywood favorite. Experts weigh in on how realistic it is.

“In movies, I’m always seeing guys lifting a girl up and having sex against a wall. I’ve tried it, but it doesn’t really work—is there some trick I don’t know about?” – Terry L. Grove City, PA

Moushumi Ghose, MFT, pyschotherapist/sex therapist: Nope, there’s no trick to it, except being super-strong. Standing-up sex has lots of in-the-moment passion, but without a counter or some type of support, it’s not a position you’ll probably be able to hold for very long. Read more

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