About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

Google Translator

    Translate from:

    Translate to:

Sex Positions

4 Tips for Being on the Bottom

Missionary position is the most popular sex position, so Tara Block gives four tips for enjoying it even more.

So I’ve given you some tips for being on the top, but good old missionary position (guy on top) is also a fan favorite! The guy being on top can give a man a real sense of control and dominance, which can be very arousing to a woman, but since you’re not doing much of the moving around, here are some tips to make being on the bottom more exciting. Read more

7 Sex Positions That Involve Minimal Eye Contact

Whether it’s a one-night stands or hooking up with an ex, here are seven sex positions that involved minimal eye contact.

There are about as many different sex positions as there are flavors of ice cream. Sometimes you’re all about the ones that make you feel closer together as a couple. Other times—like when you’ve brought home the bartender you keep flirting with, or you ran into your emotionally stunted ex who has a magical vagina—they feel too intimate. There’s nothing wrong with doing lovey-dovey sex positions, but depending on the situation, that might be the last thing you want. In those moments, try these. Read more

16 Exotic Sex Positions You Need to Try

Natasha Ivanovic describes sixteen hot sex positions you need to try out.

Sometimes you need that extra spice and pizzazz in the bedroom. Vanilla sex is fine and dandy; however, it’s time to try some exotic sex positions.

Missionary is great, I mean, you can’t go wrong with this oldie but goodie. But there are some days where you just want to switch it up and try something out of the ordinary. And a few good exotic sex positions can take your sex life to a whole new level. Read more

How to Make Spooning the BEST Sex Position for… Just About Everything

Spooning is more than just a cuddling position. It can be the best sex position for just about everything.

Spooning offers the perfect blend of passion and intimacy. It combines the body-to-body, side-by-side closeness of romantic sex positions with the power and excitement of going at it from behind. Meanwhile, both of you are comfortable lying down and neither person is totally “in power.” Rather, both of you are moving in tandem to give you each the ultimate pleasure. Read more

7 Sex Positions That Work the Clitoris and G-Spot at the Same Time

Jamie Hergenrader says that these seven sex positions stimulate a woman’s clitoris and G-spot at the same time.

When a certain sex position feels amazing, it’s safe to assume that it’s hitting either your G-spot or your clitoris.

But what about positions that—wait for it—stimulate both hot spots at the same time? Yes, those magical unicorn positions do exist and they’re bound to result in a mind-blowing orgasm.

It’s a buy-one, get-one (BOGO) for your vagina, basically. Ready for a sex fest like no other? Allow us to blow your mind. Read more

The Most Popular Sex Positions in 9 Different Countries

Find out how  sex position preferences vary in different countries around the world

DrEd, a U.K.-based doctor-service site, asked 2,000 people in the U.S. and the U.K. about their favorite sex positions, and—for better or worse—it appears most of us aren’t terribly eager to reinvent the wheel. Doggy style was the most popular, favored by 35.1 percent of respondents, followed by missionary (22.5 percent) and cowgirl (19.4 percent). After those three, the numbers took a pretty big dip: “holding legs up” and “69” each got 4.3 percent of the vote, “spooning” sex got 4.1 percent, and 3.9 percent of people say they favor “reverse cowgirl.” Read more

5 Sex Positions That Hit Her G-Spot

If you want to give your partner a G-spot orgasm, try these five sex positions, says Mikayla.

Who doesn’t want to have the best sex ever? And what woman doesn’t want to have a glorious G-Spot orgasm? Well, I think it is safe to say that all women would love to have this type of orgasm and those who have already had one would like to have more! However, the G-Spot orgasm is not always easy to achieve. Sure, there are those rare women who can just think G-Spot and have an orgasm – but they are the rare birds of our sex. The G-Spot, on average, is a hard thing to stimulate during intercourse. Why? Well, it is on the top side of the vagina, about 2-3 inches in. It is not always enlarged enough to be stimulated. A penis is usually flexible and not as hard as needed for proper stim (no offense guys!) Also, it takes a long time to get to the point where you can have an orgasm from G-Spot stim. So, how can you improve your odds?

START WITH THESE THREE TIPS Read more

Recent Comments

  • Katie: Great article, this is exactly what I have been doing with my husband for years now. All massage’s with...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: More women than you might think actually measure a particularly large penis. That’s how they...
  • John Mode: Either women are very poor judges of how big an inch actually is, or they have very unrealistic...
  • Pillywiggins: I like a big cock and being fucked really hard and deep. I never really complain about dick size....
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Typically, the watching part is more of a turn-on for the man, who gets to see his wife experience...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: It should if the woman already has experience with big penises, and the man knows what he’s...
  • Astra Kiro: This feel good sensation applies to all women with men,even in first date circumstances?
  • Dorian: Unfortunately I am quite small and I know that my wife likes them really big. Would you recommend to try...
  • John: Hi Svetlana, I have come across this googling for “double blowjob” as I received this last weekend...
  • Tanya: I think most women would agree to some degree that size doe’s matter. Rather have too much than not...