About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Sex Positions

8 Sex Positions That Make a Small Penis Feel Bigger

It’s a fact of life that some men are under-endowed. The good news is that changing positions can make a small penis feel longer and thicker. Two of the favorite sex positions for most couples are missionary (man on top and doggy-style (rear entry). Fortunately, these are two of the easiest to adjust to make your partner’s penis feel bigger inside you. Try these eight missionary and doggy variations and see what a difference they can make. Continue reading

6 Killer Sex Positions That Will Make a Woman Go Crazy

Adventurous Sex Positions That Are Actually Super-Easy to Pull Off

Spicing up your se x life is easy with these adventurous sex positions that are actually do-able.

Everywhere you look, there’s some new sex position being touted as a “must-try” move.

The problem is, the majority of those amazing, yoga-esque, Cirque Du Soleil sex positions are basically impossible to do unless you’re a gold-medal gymnast or an actual pole professional. It’s easy to fall into a routine when the alternative is a potentially mortifying trip to the ER. Read more

Steamy Sex Positions to Try Tonight

If your sex life has gotten into a bit of a sexual rut lately, getting out may be as simple as trying one of these steamy sex positions tonight.

When did you last try a new sex position? Whether or not you’re in a relationship, it’s all too easy to fall back on a handful of tried-and-tested moves and forget the delicious variety available to you and your partner.

That’s where Clare Cavanah and Rachel Venning come in. They’re not only the founders of sex toy boutique and educational hub Babeland, they’re the authors of Moregasm: Babeland’s Guide to Mind-Blowing Sex. With insight into everything from BDSM to birth control, Moregasm is an expert (yet relatable) roadmap to your best-ever sex life. Read more

5 Exciting Ways to Spice Up Missionary Position

The missionary sex position is so often used that it can begin to get boring. Here are five exciting ways to spice it up.

Missionary sex gets a bad rap because it’s the go-to position for most couples, but it’s also a favorite because it’s damn good: There’s lots of eye contact, you can feel his weight on you, and it’s incredibly intimate. And if you do want to spice things up, step up your game with some of these sexy tweaks. Read more

6 Sex Positions for Men Who Are Overweight

If your partner complaining that you’re too heavy when you’re in the missionary position, then try out these six positions!

My sex life is suffering since I am on the heavier side. My wife tries to avoid having sex with me because she says she can’t bear my weight. Are there are any other sex positions I can try? 

Your problem isn’t unique. A lot of couples have this problem when one sex partner is significantly heavier than the other. In such cases, you can try out the following sex positions. Read more

Porn Stars Share the Sex Positions You Should NOT Try at Home

Porn stars reveal the porn sex positions you should not try at home.

In our society, where sexual education in schools often leaves out the concept of pleasure entirely, it’s no wonder that adults and teens look to the easily accessible world of online pornography for information. And while some directors and performers aim to make their films informative in nature, the vast majority of porn doesn’t even feature a condom — much less a realistic perspective on what sex looks like. Read more

Recent Comments

  • Svetlana Ivanova: Depends on the woman.
  • Fox2: Would that be most probably wouldn’t feel it? I have seen you say elsewhere that less than 5″ means...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Some may, but most probably won’t. For some women in long-term relationships, penetration is...
  • Fox2: Not sure if commenting is working at the moment. Thanks but even though these positions will help maximise my...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: These positions help maximize what you have, whatever that is.
  • Fox: Would these positions help with a penis 4-4.5inches long and around 4inches around? Or do you need to be packing...
  • BOB: FUR
  • Svetlana Ivanova: If a woman doesn’t want to please the man she’s with, she’s with the wrong man.
  • Jane Doe: This article not only implies that all men want submissive partners, it tells women to take on a persona....
  • Svetlana Ivanova: It isn’t misogynistic at all. It’s realistic and sex-positive.