About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Porn Stars Share the Sex Positions You Should NOT Try at Home

Porn stars reveal the porn sex positions you should not try at home.

In our society, where sexual education in schools often leaves out the concept of pleasure entirely, it’s no wonder that adults and teens look to the easily accessible world of online pornography for information. And while some directors and performers aim to make their films informative in nature, the vast majority of porn doesn’t even feature a condom — much less a realistic perspective on what sex looks like. Read more

How to Ride a Man During Sex

Adina Rivers reveals how to ride a man during sex.

8 Sex Hacks for When You and Your Partner Are Way Different Sizes

If you and your partner are way different sizes, Hayley McMillen gives eight different sex hacks you can try.

If you and your boo are significantly different sizes, sex may present some logistical challenges — whether you’re attempting to align the body of a basketball player with that of a jockey or a linebacker’s figure with a ballerina’s. Fortunately, there are ways to deal short of finding another partner. Read on for size-difference tips, with insight from sex therapist Vanessa Marin, who happens to be five feet tall with a six-foot spouse, and sex educator Kelly Shibari, Penthouse’s first self-described plus-size model and collaborator on the instructional film Read more

The Sex Positions Yo Need to Know If You Want to Have Sex Outdoors

If you want to have sex outdoors, you need to know these sex positions, says Cory Stieg.

Outdoor sex isn’t just for through-hikers on the Appalachian Trail or teenagers trying to find a place to hook up away from their parents — having sex outside can be exhilarating and wild for lots of couples. But, unlike squeezing in a spontaneous quickie, sex in the great outdoors requires a little more planning and caution. Read more

6 Kama Sutra Techniques That Make Missionary Position Even Better

The Kama Sutra is famous for its sex positions, but it also has techniques that make everyday sex positions like missionary even better.

There’s only one problem with missionary sex: The vast majority of men thrust in the same conventional, in-and-out way.  Same speed, same depth, same hip motion, same everything. In other words, yawn and repeat. What these guys don’t know is that there are much more exciting ways for him to insert his penis. Ways that will create new, pleasurable sensations for both you and him. Take these six ideas from the Kama Sutra, for example. It may be an ancient Hindu text—which explains the strange names like “boar’s blow”—but these techniques certainly hold up in 2017. Read more

5 Sex Positions for Plus-Size Women

Sarah Rae Vargas describes five sex positions for plus-size women.

6 Sex Positions to Try When You Just HAVE to Spice Up Your Routine

When you just have to spice up your sex life, try these six creative sex positions.

If you automatically roll your eyes when you see yet another headline with the words sex positions, rest assured that there are still at least a few you definitely haven’t heard of—and that won’t make you feel like you have to be part human, part pretzel to pull them off. If you wanted to, you could truly try a new, totally doable position every day without running out of options.

So if you’re itching for some new and creative sex positions but you feel like you’ve already tried everything in the book, here are some moves even the most voracious readers of sex tips probably haven’t heard of: Read more

Recent Comments

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