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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Sex Positions

The 5 Sex Positions That Could Banish Your Stress for Good

To relieve stress, skip your workout and give these sex positions a try.

It2’s 017 and, friends, times are stressful. While stress is a natural occurrence in our daily lives, too much of it can wreak havoc, making us tense, exhausted, and, um, orgasm-less.

“Women are often guilty of saying, ‘I’m fine, everything’s fine!’ but left wondering why they can’t climax,” says sexologist Megan Stubbs, Yep, you read that right—stress will create a huge mental block between you and your grand finale. Read more

The 8 Must-Try Sex Positions, According to Real Women

Real women reveal their favorite sex positions and what makes them so hot.

If the phrase “familiarity breeds contempt” rings true, going through all the same motions in the bedroom, time and time again, doesn’t exactly help in the love department. Relationship experts recommend keeping things spontaneous (whether that means trying a different time, place, or generally being more adventurous in bed) to avoid falling into a cycle of boring “duty” sex, but also to foster healthy habits in a long-term relationship.

Below, we asked eight real women for their favorite sex moves, then consulted sex experts for their tips on how to upgrade your own go-to moves so they feel new and exciting. In short, it doesn’t take a Kama Sutra master to have better sex, it’s really about breaking from habit, exploring the unknown, and enhancing what already works. Read more

15 Sex Positions to Try in the Gym

Vanessa Marin reveals how to get two good workouts in the same place.

We know the benefits that exercise can have on your sex life, but we had no idea so many of you actually liked getting it on at the gym. Reasex positionsd more

5 Best Sex Positions for After You Have Had a Baby

Sex positions might be among the things you need to change after having a baby.

They say everything changes when you have a baby—and that definitely includes your sex life. “What worked for you before having a baby might be very different after giving birth,” says Mary Jane Minkin, M.D., a clinical professor of obstetrics, gynecology and reproductive sciences at the Yale University School of Medicine. Why? Your anatomy has changed. Read more

8 Sex Positions That Make a Small Penis Feel Bigger

It’s a fact of life that some men are under-endowed. The good news is that changing positions can make a small penis feel longer and thicker. Two of the favorite sex positions for most couples are missionary (man on top and doggy-style (rear entry). Fortunately, these are two of the easiest to adjust to make your partner’s penis feel bigger inside you. Try these eight missionary and doggy variations and see what a difference they can make. Continue reading

6 Killer Sex Positions That Will Make a Woman Go Crazy

Adventurous Sex Positions That Are Actually Super-Easy to Pull Off

Spicing up your se x life is easy with these adventurous sex positions that are actually do-able.

Everywhere you look, there’s some new sex position being touted as a “must-try” move.

The problem is, the majority of those amazing, yoga-esque, Cirque Du Soleil sex positions are basically impossible to do unless you’re a gold-medal gymnast or an actual pole professional. It’s easy to fall into a routine when the alternative is a potentially mortifying trip to the ER. Read more

Recent Comments

  • Flinkd: Bigger penis is stretching the walls of the vagina better. (nerve endings feel more pressure, therefore...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Depends on the woman.
  • Fox2: Would that be most probably wouldn’t feel it? I have seen you say elsewhere that less than 5″ means...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Some may, but most probably won’t. For some women in long-term relationships, penetration is...
  • Fox2: Not sure if commenting is working at the moment. Thanks but even though these positions will help maximise my...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: These positions help maximize what you have, whatever that is.
  • Fox: Would these positions help with a penis 4-4.5inches long and around 4inches around? Or do you need to be packing...
  • BOB: FUR
  • Svetlana Ivanova: If a woman doesn’t want to please the man she’s with, she’s with the wrong man.
  • Jane Doe: This article not only implies that all men want submissive partners, it tells women to take on a persona....