About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Steamy Sex Positions to Try Tonight

If your sex life has gotten into a bit of a sexual rut lately, getting out may be as simple as trying one of these steamy sex positions tonight.

When did you last try a new sex position? Whether or not you’re in a relationship, it’s all too easy to fall back on a handful of tried-and-tested moves and forget the delicious variety available to you and your partner.

That’s where Clare Cavanah and Rachel Venning come in. They’re not only the founders of sex toy boutique and educational hub Babeland, they’re the authors of Moregasm: Babeland’s Guide to Mind-Blowing Sex. With insight into everything from BDSM to birth control, Moregasm is an expert (yet relatable) roadmap to your best-ever sex life. Read more

5 Exciting Ways to Spice Up Missionary Position

The missionary sex position is so often used that it can begin to get boring. Here are five exciting ways to spice it up.

Missionary sex gets a bad rap because it’s the go-to position for most couples, but it’s also a favorite because it’s damn good: There’s lots of eye contact, you can feel his weight on you, and it’s incredibly intimate. And if you do want to spice things up, step up your game with some of these sexy tweaks. Read more

6 Sex Positions for Men Who Are Overweight

If your partner complaining that you’re too heavy when you’re in the missionary position, then try out these six positions!

My sex life is suffering since I am on the heavier side. My wife tries to avoid having sex with me because she says she can’t bear my weight. Are there are any other sex positions I can try? 

Your problem isn’t unique. A lot of couples have this problem when one sex partner is significantly heavier than the other. In such cases, you can try out the following sex positions. Read more

Porn Stars Share the Sex Positions You Should NOT Try at Home

Porn stars reveal the porn sex positions you should not try at home.

In our society, where sexual education in schools often leaves out the concept of pleasure entirely, it’s no wonder that adults and teens look to the easily accessible world of online pornography for information. And while some directors and performers aim to make their films informative in nature, the vast majority of porn doesn’t even feature a condom — much less a realistic perspective on what sex looks like. Read more

How to Ride a Man During Sex

Adina Rivers reveals how to ride a man during sex.

8 Sex Hacks for When You and Your Partner Are Way Different Sizes

If you and your partner are way different sizes, Hayley McMillen gives eight different sex hacks you can try.

If you and your boo are significantly different sizes, sex may present some logistical challenges — whether you’re attempting to align the body of a basketball player with that of a jockey or a linebacker’s figure with a ballerina’s. Fortunately, there are ways to deal short of finding another partner. Read on for size-difference tips, with insight from sex therapist Vanessa Marin, who happens to be five feet tall with a six-foot spouse, and sex educator Kelly Shibari, Penthouse’s first self-described plus-size model and collaborator on the instructional film Read more

The Sex Positions Yo Need to Know If You Want to Have Sex Outdoors

If you want to have sex outdoors, you need to know these sex positions, says Cory Stieg.

Outdoor sex isn’t just for through-hikers on the Appalachian Trail or teenagers trying to find a place to hook up away from their parents — having sex outside can be exhilarating and wild for lots of couples. But, unlike squeezing in a spontaneous quickie, sex in the great outdoors requires a little more planning and caution. Read more

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