About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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6 Kama Sutra Techniques That Make Missionary Position Even Better

The Kama Sutra is famous for its sex positions, but it also has techniques that make everyday sex positions like missionary even better.

There’s only one problem with missionary sex: The vast majority of men thrust in the same conventional, in-and-out way.  Same speed, same depth, same hip motion, same everything. In other words, yawn and repeat. What these guys don’t know is that there are much more exciting ways for him to insert his penis. Ways that will create new, pleasurable sensations for both you and him. Take these six ideas from the Kama Sutra, for example. It may be an ancient Hindu text—which explains the strange names like “boar’s blow”—but these techniques certainly hold up in 2017. Read more

5 Sex Positions for Plus-Size Women

Sarah Rae Vargas describes five sex positions for plus-size women.

6 Sex Positions to Try When You Just HAVE to Spice Up Your Routine

When you just have to spice up your sex life, try these six creative sex positions.

If you automatically roll your eyes when you see yet another headline with the words sex positions, rest assured that there are still at least a few you definitely haven’t heard of—and that won’t make you feel like you have to be part human, part pretzel to pull them off. If you wanted to, you could truly try a new, totally doable position every day without running out of options.

So if you’re itching for some new and creative sex positions but you feel like you’ve already tried everything in the book, here are some moves even the most voracious readers of sex tips probably haven’t heard of: Read more

7 Sex Positions More Fun Than Doggy-Style

Jamie Hergenrader reveals how to score all the benefits of doing it from behind, without getting down on all fours..

Ladies and gents love doing it doggy style. And though the name leaves a lot to be desired (seriously, who came up with that?), this position offers up lots of benefits so you get the most bang for your, um, bang.  Read moreRead more

4 Tips for Being on the Bottom

Missionary position is the most popular sex position, so Tara Block gives four tips for enjoying it even more.

So I’ve given you some tips for being on the top, but good old missionary position (guy on top) is also a fan favorite! The guy being on top can give a man a real sense of control and dominance, which can be very arousing to a woman, but since you’re not doing much of the moving around, here are some tips to make being on the bottom more exciting. Read more

7 Sex Positions That Involve Minimal Eye Contact

Whether it’s a one-night stands or hooking up with an ex, here are seven sex positions that involved minimal eye contact.

There are about as many different sex positions as there are flavors of ice cream. Sometimes you’re all about the ones that make you feel closer together as a couple. Other times—like when you’ve brought home the bartender you keep flirting with, or you ran into your emotionally stunted ex who has a magical vagina—they feel too intimate. There’s nothing wrong with doing lovey-dovey sex positions, but depending on the situation, that might be the last thing you want. In those moments, try these. Read more

16 Exotic Sex Positions You Need to Try

Natasha Ivanovic describes sixteen hot sex positions you need to try out.

Sometimes you need that extra spice and pizzazz in the bedroom. Vanilla sex is fine and dandy; however, it’s time to try some exotic sex positions.

Missionary is great, I mean, you can’t go wrong with this oldie but goodie. But there are some days where you just want to switch it up and try something out of the ordinary. And a few good exotic sex positions can take your sex life to a whole new level. Read more

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