About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Why You Should Never Chew Gum Before Sex and 5 Other Libido Torpedoes to Avoid

It turns out that chewing gum not only turns off the person watching you do it, but ruins your own libido as well. Science reveals why you should never chew gum before sex and five other libido torpedoes.

Think it’s a good idea to freshen up your breath with some gum before getting it on? Think twice. Science says that chewing gum prior to sex will affect your bedroom life in a negative way. Read more

How to Become a Male Porn Star

Porn star Ryan Driller reveals how men can break into the business..

Apart from being a way to relieve stress, build endurance and, you know, have a nice time, watching some pornography might be more than just an illicit, harmless way to explore your fantasies — it could actually inspire a career change.

That being said, believe it when we say that every guy — and yep, from your brother to your old high school coach — has thought to himself, “Hmm, I wonder what it’s like to be a male porn star? And do I have what it takes to make it big?” (Pun intended.) Read more

5 Reasons to Have Morning Sex, According to Science

If you need a reason to have sex in the A.M., science gives you five.

Ahh, morning sex. The laziest of all lays. You wake up in the morning all warm and hazy, and you roll over and look at the beautiful woman angelically sleeping next to you. Sure, she might have putrid morning breath and drool caked on her face, but you don’t care—you just really want to have sex with her, thanks to your morning wood. Read more

Is the Secret to Happiness Stripping Off Your Clothes?

It looks as if nudists have been right all along. According to a study, if you want to be happy, strip off your clothes.

If you want a happy New Year, research suggests that you should make it a “nude” year. According to a study from the University of London, the key to a happy life starts with removing all of your itchy clothes. They determined that people who partake in nudist or naturalist behaviors tend to lead much happier lives. So, your crazy aunt June, with her trips to nudist camp every summer, doesn’t seem quite as nutty as she used to. Read more

Why Do Women Become More Bisexual as They Age?

Women become more bisexual as they age, according to science.

Like most women, I have no shame in admitting that I find other females attractive. I have even admitted to being open to bisexual experimentation (“Of course I would sleep with Halle Berry! It’s a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity”).

For women, it’s perfectly acceptable to be a little bi-curious (cue every male fantasy), and according to research, it’s the norm. Read more

Sex This Many Times Monthly Lowers Prostate Cancer Risk

According to a science, the number of times that men ejaculate during a month affects their prostate cancer risk.

The more often you ejaculate, the lower your risk of prostate cancer will be, Harvard is reporting and it doesn’t matter if you’re making sweet love to your honey bunch, banging a bridesmaid in a taxi cab, or choking the chicken in your mom’s powder room. Read more

7 Myths About Sex That Won’t Go Away

Do you believe any of these myths about sex – or all of them?

As someone who’s written about sex for more than three decades (yes, that old!), I find it rather depressing that some of the sex myths that were kicking around when I was studying psychology at university are still widely believed today.

Here’s seven, stubborn commonly believed ‘facts’ about sex that have absolutely no basis in reality at all. Read more

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