About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Most Teen Boys Think Porn Is Realistic

I already knew this was true, but it’s still bad news for it to be confirmed.

A study of the porn habits of 1,000 preteens and teenagers in the U.K. found that most teens have not only seen porn, but a considerable percentage of teen boys say they want to try to emulate sex acts they see in porn videos. Read more

15 Things Women Want Men to Know About Breasts

You may love breasts, but how much do you really know about them if you don’t have a pair of your own? Hannah Smothers reveals the fifteen things that women want men to know about breasts.

That famous line from a book by a man (Tale of Two Cities) about how “it was the best of times, it was the worst of times,” or whatever is, in my opinion, actually about having boobs. There are such wonderful benefits to having a pair of playthings affixed to your chest. But then there are the dark moments (PERIODS). Either way, having boobies is like being part of a fun, exclusive club and I wouldn’t trade it for the world. Read more

Update: Is Facebook Anti-Lesbian?

FakebookAs I predicted, less than 24 hours after the latest block was removed, Facebook picked another old photo from my secret group, claimed that I had posted on my personal, public page, and banned me for seven days this time. This is after I had gone through every photo posted in the secret group and removed any that were similar to the ones Facebook removed. This confirms to me that the content of the photos was not really the issue. In fact, I think that in the photo they removed this time, the girls were both clothed, although they were kissing.

Also, Facebook is  demanding a government-issued  ID to unlock my account. This is their favorite harassment tactic for purging users.  Since I won’t even give Facebook a phone number, I will definitely not be submitting sensitive documents to strangers of the internet – and hostile strangers at that, it seems. Besides, what’s the point? Even if I did, Facebook will just pick out another photo from my secret group, and use it to ban me again.

I believe that this is the end of my Facebook “experience.” A week from now, when the block expires, and I confirm that Facebook will no longer allow me to access my account, I will removed the Facebook link from the sidebar.

Is Facebook Anti-Lesbian?

Best FriendsI have been on Facebook for eight years, but I suspect my days  there are numbered because Facebook seems to have an anti-lesbian bias. I just received my second ban from posting within a two day span Two days ago, Facebook removed a photo I posted a week or so earlier in my secret Facebook group for bi-curious, bisexual, and lesbian women. It falsely claimed that it had been posted to my personal timeline, and banned me for 24 hours. (The posts in a secret group cannot be seen my anyone, but members.) Less than  24 hours after the block was lifted, Facebook removed another old photo, and again falsely claimed that it had bee posted on my personal timeline. Even though the photo had been posted days earlier, this showed that I was “defying” Facebook, so I have been banned for three more days. (See my update.) Continue reading

Can Women Get “Blue Balls,” Too?

Yes, women can although the mechanism – and probably feeling – is a little different.

No doubt you’ve heard of blue balls, the painful condition that can occur when a man gets aroused but doesn’t have an orgasm. And you’ve probably been thankful on more than one occasion that women can’t get them. Or can we? Read more

Big Breasts from the Woman’s Viewpoint

Sarah Miller reveals what it is like to have big breasts.

I have had large breasts for about 20 years. I’m 32, so let’s say, roughly, that my breasts were on their path to greatness halfway through the Carter administration. By the time Reagan was sworn in, I was officially stacked.

I first realized I had big breasts when I was about 12, in, of all places, a fish market on Cape Cod. For years, the fishmonger had been showing my buxom aunt marked favoritism. “This is for you,” he would say, measuring out what she’d asked for, then, with a wink and a glimpse at her bustline, tossing on a few more shrimp or an extra fillet Read more>

11 Sex Slang Terms You Need to Know in 2016

Being up-to-date on the latest sex slang terms may not be absolutely necessary for most people, but it is kind of fun to be in-the-know.

Millennials say the darnedest (and dirtiest) things. But seriously, the new sex slang terms that are becoming popular in 2016 are equal parts hilarious and cringe-inducing. Check out what everyone will be saying this year and see if you’re in the know. We’re warning you now, some of these are worthy of a brow raise. Read more

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