About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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10 Food for Harder Erections

Diet can play a role in sexual health. These ten foods can help men have harder erections.

Sex In The Middle Ages: 10 Titillating Facts You Wanted To Know But Were Afraid to Ask

The point of articles like this, of course, is to make ourselves feel superior by laughing at how ignorant or weird our ancestors were. Nevertheless, they can still be interesting from a historical standpoint. Some men may wish that fact number five was still in fashion.

Without the Christian church of the Middle Ages, Sigmund Freud of the 19th century would have been out of work. Many of the deepest ideas and notions of sex that we hold today were formulated and laid down in the Middle Ages, especially by the Church’s sometimes confused and other times severe pronouncements.

The Church had opinions and laws about every aspect of sex. Adultery and fornication in some cases were sins punishable by death, but for a time the Church actually condoned prostitution, admitting that it was a necessary evil. And in the early part of the Middle Ages, priests were actually allowed to marry and have children. Read more

Another Reason You Should Think Twice Before Sending an Unwanted Dick Pic

It’s hard to imagine how socially awkward a guy would have to be to think that sending a dick pic is a seduction strategy. I always immediately block anyone who sends a one, but this sounds like an intriguing next step: Meet Dick Pic Locator, the app that uses GPS technology to out and shame perverts.

Let’s get one thing straight right off the bat: it is not a good idea to send a lady unsolicited dick pics. There are many reasons for this, chief among them being that it’s totally ineffective: if you send a woman a photo of your dick when she hasn’t asked for it first, she will either a) be outraged or b) immediately text it to 7 or 8 of her closest friends, who will immediately start mocking your penis. Read more

Why You Should Never Chew Gum Before Sex and 5 Other Libido Torpedoes to Avoid

It turns out that chewing gum not only turns off the person watching you do it, but ruins your own libido as well. Science reveals why you should never chew gum before sex and five other libido torpedoes.

Think it’s a good idea to freshen up your breath with some gum before getting it on? Think twice. Science says that chewing gum prior to sex will affect your bedroom life in a negative way. Read more

How to Become a Male Porn Star

Porn star Ryan Driller reveals how men can break into the business..

Apart from being a way to relieve stress, build endurance and, you know, have a nice time, watching some pornography might be more than just an illicit, harmless way to explore your fantasies — it could actually inspire a career change.

That being said, believe it when we say that every guy — and yep, from your brother to your old high school coach — has thought to himself, “Hmm, I wonder what it’s like to be a male porn star? And do I have what it takes to make it big?” (Pun intended.) Read more

5 Reasons to Have Morning Sex, According to Science

If you need a reason to have sex in the A.M., science gives you five.

Ahh, morning sex. The laziest of all lays. You wake up in the morning all warm and hazy, and you roll over and look at the beautiful woman angelically sleeping next to you. Sure, she might have putrid morning breath and drool caked on her face, but you don’t care—you just really want to have sex with her, thanks to your morning wood. Read more

Is the Secret to Happiness Stripping Off Your Clothes?

It looks as if nudists have been right all along. According to a study, if you want to be happy, strip off your clothes.

If you want a happy New Year, research suggests that you should make it a “nude” year. According to a study from the University of London, the key to a happy life starts with removing all of your itchy clothes. They determined that people who partake in nudist or naturalist behaviors tend to lead much happier lives. So, your crazy aunt June, with her trips to nudist camp every summer, doesn’t seem quite as nutty as she used to. Read more

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  • Svetlana Ivanova: Clothes are a human invention, not an evolutionary development, and the extent to which they were...
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  • Svetlana Ivanova: Yes, the evolutionary theory is probably right. Human males don’t have bright colors or tail...