About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Seduction

8 Simple Steps to Give Your Bedroom Sex Appeal

Is your bedroom a mood-killer Candace Braun Davison lists eight simple steps to give your bedroom year-round sex appeal.

Forget the rose petals — these decorating ideas will give your room year-round sex appeal. Read more

How to Convince a Woman to Have Sex with the Lights On

Ali Fedotowsky reveals how to convice a woman to have sex with the lights on.

My girlfriend doesn’t like the lights on during sex. What can I do to make her feel less self-conscious?

—Matt, Las Vegas, NV

Look on the bright side: You two are doing it regularly, right? So you’ve established a mutual comfort zone. Now you just need to expand it. Read more

The Best Way to Approach a Woman in a Bar

Ali Fedotowsky, the Men’s Health Girl Next Door, reveals the best way to approach a woman in a bar.

In theory, the bar is a fertile ground to find babes. On any given Friday night, you’ll spot a beautiful woman blowing off steam after a tough work week, or catching up with friends over a couple of strong cocktails. Read more

9 Men Reveal Why They Send Penis Pics

Why do men send unsolicited penis pics? Nine men reveal why they did it.

It was just a matter of time before we took  the technology we have at our fingertips and made it all about sex. I mean, we’re horny, sexual beings, so why wouldn’t we? But while sending our partners nude photos seems totally acceptable, the whole “dick pic” thing just doesn’t have the same level of respectability. Maybe it’s because dudes on OKCupid think it’s the ideal way to snag a lady friend? I’m not really sure.

We tracked down nine men who were willing to not only admit that they’ve sent a dick pic (or two or three or more), but also tell us why, oh why, they do such things. I’ve yet to meet a woman who’s ever said, “And he sent me a dick pic and it was awesome!” But while some of us may not be able to appreciate their, um, manhood, we can at least now start to figure out why the hell they do it. Read more

15 Sexy Questions That Will ll Get Any Woman “in the Mood”

Donna Begg gives men fifteen sexy question that will get her mind off her stressful day and “in the mood.”

Men can all agree that there is something incredibly sexy about making a girl feel aroused … simply by talking to her. Thanks to technical advances, guys can now dirty talk via text to get their girl in the mood.

Whether you are whispering face-to-face with her or sending her steamy digital messages, here are 15 suggestive questions sure to get her in a sexy mindset.

Disclaimer: While some guys might use these questions to flirt with a girl, that’s not always advisable. Women often feel offended (that’s a little too much, too soon, buddy!) instead of becoming aroused. It’s always best to save these arousing questions for the woman already solidly in your life. Read more

Top 10 Things That Turn a Woman On

Wing Girl Marni tells men tthe top en things that turn women on.

Why Men Always Think Women Are Flirting with Them

Scientists try to explain why men mistakenly think women are flirting with them so often.

Most women have probably experienced being friendly around a man, only to have it be misinterpreted as flirtatiousness. Simple signals of interest in a conversation — smiling, laughing, being interested in a conversation — are all somehow perceived as come-ons. Straight men, research has found, are a lot more likely than straight women to fool themselves into thinking someone is romantically interested in them when they aren’t.  Read more

Recent Comments

  • Svetlana Ivanova: Depends on the woman.
  • Fox2: Would that be most probably wouldn’t feel it? I have seen you say elsewhere that less than 5″ means...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Some may, but most probably won’t. For some women in long-term relationships, penetration is...
  • Fox2: Not sure if commenting is working at the moment. Thanks but even though these positions will help maximise my...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: These positions help maximize what you have, whatever that is.
  • Fox: Would these positions help with a penis 4-4.5inches long and around 4inches around? Or do you need to be packing...
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  • Svetlana Ivanova: If a woman doesn’t want to please the man she’s with, she’s with the wrong man.
  • Jane Doe: This article not only implies that all men want submissive partners, it tells women to take on a persona....
  • Svetlana Ivanova: It isn’t misogynistic at all. It’s realistic and sex-positive.