About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Seduction

6 Ways to Be the Kind of Man Women Want to Sleep With

Tom Miller says following these six dos and don’ts will make a man the kind of man women want to sleep with.

I’m not interested in financing the kind of person whose lifestyle actively promotes “peacocking.”

There’s a good chance that you’re reading this because you need a little help getting laid or you want to become really mad, and anything herein will be akin to gasoline on a hibachi. Getting laid isn’t especially hard. I’ve had intercourse with around a dozen women and if we’re including outercourse, the number probably goes up to a baker’s dozen. But it does take some amount of effort.

People have one-night stands all the time. Why not you? Here’s some advice on how to make it happen. Read more

10 Compliments That Will Get You Laid

Have you been striking out with, “Hey, baby, you so hot?” Then try one of these ten compliments instead. Even if they don’t get you laid, they will improve the relationship because they are the type of compliments that people really appreciate.

It’s been a really interesting week. I’ve spent time with some of the most amazing men and women,  and I’ve also had some of the most bizarre encounters with men and women. In both the best and worst social situations, I have started to realize the power of a fucking awesome compliment. The one thing I’ve learned is that when people are willing to open themselves up and give honest compliments with absolutely no expectation of getting anything in return, they often get exactly what they wanted.

What a concept, I know.

So as fall settles in and we start the hunt for someone to keep us warm on those long wintery Maine nights, consider using a great compliment at the end of an interesting conversation instead of a pick-up line. Or, if you are in a relationship that needs a little reboot, slide one of these compliments into conversation and reignite some Hugh-Grant-style passion. Even better, use this with a friend or a friend-of-a-friend and see how a great friendship can morph into something more. Read more

9 Steps to Giving Your Man a Crazy-Hot Lap Dance

You know, men pay for lap dances.  This nine-step guide tells you how to give your man a crazy-hot lap dance.

If you’ve ever fantasized about mesmerizing your man with a slow striptease before sex, rest assured you’re not the alone. Wanting to tap into your inner diva and mastering the art of seduction is totally natural (not to mention incredibly sexy).

We know a thing or two about how couples can improve their sex lives and become better lovers. One of the most common questions is how you can give your man the best lap dance of his life without seeming like an amateur.

Here’s your guide to mastering the basics of lap dancing for your lover. Read more

7 Ways Men Talk themselves OUT of Getting Laid

 

You can talk yourself into a woman’s bed – or you can talk yourself out of it. Here are seven ways men talks themselves out of getting laid.

Picture, for a moment, the perfect evening: Everything is going fantastic and the mood is just right. Whether you’re out on the town for dinner and drinks, or enjoying a relaxing evening at home watching a movie, you know what you want and you know you’re about to get it.

That is, until he opens his mouth and ruins everything.

There are many ways a man can manage to talk his way out of getting laid. From unreasonable sexual demands to killing the mood with talk of politics or religion, if there’s a way to put out flames of lust and passion, some guys are destined to find themselves going from the Love Shack to the Doghouse.

We talked to a number of women who were willing to share exactly what it is that men have done that set off red flags. Here’s seven that stood out from the pack: Read more

How to Make Her Sexual Fantasies Come True

Want to make her sexual fantasies come true? Nicole Beland reveals how.

Most women aren’t very good at asking for what they want, especially in the beginning of a relationship. And by “beginning,” I mean anywhere from the first night to the first 2 years. For one thing, we’re hopelessly romantic. We imagine that the right guy will instinctively grant us every sexual favor we’ve ever fantasized about, without our having to say anything. Ridiculous, sure, but a girl can dream.

Also—trust me here—we dread being perceived as high maintenance. We see how put out you guys are by the idea of phoning us once a day or escorting us to a cousin’s wedding. So asking for 45 uninterrupted minutes of cunnilingus seems outrageous.

The good news is that we are fantasizing about sex. Read more

20 Women Reveal the Pick-Up Lines That Actually Worked on Them

Twenty women reveal the pick-up lines that actually worked on them.

Approaching a beautiful woman is one of the most intimidating things a man can do. That’s probably why so many guys do verbal cartwheels trying to come up with opening lines that simultaneously display wit, charm, and flattery.

But here’s a little secret: You don’t have to work that hard. We asked real women to share the conversation starters that worked on them, and you may be surprised at their answers. Some of the openers were cheeky, some were simple, and many weren’t even “lines” at all. Read more

8 Simple Steps to Give Your Bedroom Sex Appeal

Is your bedroom a mood-killer Candace Braun Davison lists eight simple steps to give your bedroom year-round sex appeal.

Forget the rose petals — these decorating ideas will give your room year-round sex appeal. Read more

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