About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Premature Ejaculation

9 Ways for Men to Last Longer in Bed

Premature ejaculation no fun for women (and embarrassing for men), so top sexologists reveal nine ways for men to last longer in bed..

For most guys, the bedroom is probably the one place you don’t want to finish first. Sex experts (and, we assume, you) agree that nothing makes a guy feel more insecure than coming up short when it matters most. So if you’re plagued by this sexual shortcoming, relax—there are numerous ways to boost your sexual endurance and last longer in bed. Read more

6 Tips for Men to Last Longer in Bed

Premature EjaculationPremature ejaculation is a problem that many, if not most, men experience at some time. Even if when it’s not a chronic problem, it can happen with a new partner or after a dry spell. Premature ejaculation makes sex less enjoyable for both you and your partner. She cannot have an orgasm if you’re a “minute man,” and you don’t get to enjoy having your penis inside her vagina for very long. These six easy tips can help men last longer in bed. You don’t have to learn anything, or practice. You can use them tonight if you get lucky. Continue reading

How Long Should Sex Last?

Danielle Stewart discusses how long is too long or not long enough for sex duration.

3 Ways to Guarantee All-Night Sex

Men can have longer-lasting, better sex with these three tips.

Don’t panic

If you’re having problems with longevity in the sack, forget pills or “natural” remedies, as they’ll never help, says Dr Keith Hopcroft. “Also, try to keep cool about the situation. It usually improves with time, and ‘performance anxiety’ just makes matters worse.” Try these three techniques to help you go the distance: Read more

Which Sex Positions Help Prevent Premature Ejaculation?

woman-and-sleeping-manControl is the key when you want to last longer in bed. Being in control allows you to slow things down a bit when you need to cool down. Knowing which sex positions provide the most and least stimulation will allow you to vary your sexual repertoire so you can treat yourself and your partner to a variety of moves. What’s great about this is that you use the best sex positions to delay ejaculation while at the same time you learn to be a more sophisticated lover. Continue reading

Better Orgasms for Men: Edging

The article I linked to in my post 7 Ways for Men to Have Better Orgasms mentions a technique called edging. Heaven explains more about the art of holding back from that final moment.

5 Ways to Last Longer in Bed

Blow your woman’s mind tonight by using one of these five easy techniques to make sex last even longer!

Better sex tonight

The one thing that everyone seems to want more of is sex. So once you’ve done the hard work of setting the scene, getting her in the mood and making sure you’re wearing your best pants, why not make the actual event something to savour, rather than a time trial?

Try one of these techniques tonight, taken from the new Men’s Health Big Book of Sex, and prepare to maximise pleasure for you and your partner. Read more

For more on this topic, see my post 3 Easy Ways to Delay Ejaculation.

Recent Comments

  • Svetlana Ivanova: Depends on the woman.
  • Fox2: Would that be most probably wouldn’t feel it? I have seen you say elsewhere that less than 5″ means...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Some may, but most probably won’t. For some women in long-term relationships, penetration is...
  • Fox2: Not sure if commenting is working at the moment. Thanks but even though these positions will help maximise my...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: These positions help maximize what you have, whatever that is.
  • Fox: Would these positions help with a penis 4-4.5inches long and around 4inches around? Or do you need to be packing...
  • BOB: FUR
  • Svetlana Ivanova: If a woman doesn’t want to please the man she’s with, she’s with the wrong man.
  • Jane Doe: This article not only implies that all men want submissive partners, it tells women to take on a persona....
  • Svetlana Ivanova: It isn’t misogynistic at all. It’s realistic and sex-positive.