Archive for the ‘Personal Sex Experiences’ Category
Welcome back! Thanks for visiting.My posts about anal sex have always been among my most popular with readers, especially my post 10 Steps to Great First-Time Anal Sex. However, my own first-time anal sex wasn’t planned (at least by me) and didn’t follow the ten steps.
My first anal experience happened during my senior year of [...]
Fellatio from a Female Perspective
Saturday, December 5th, 2009
“Graze on my lips; and if those hills be dry, stray lower, where the pleasant fountains lie.”- William Shakespeare
Fellatio is the act of applying your lips and mouth to a man’s penis with the purpose of giving him pleasure. Fellatio, giving head, blow job – call it what you wish – is seldom discussed [...]
What Does Sex Feel Like for a Woman?
Tuesday, September 29th, 2009
What does sex feel like for a woman? When men ask that question, what they usually want to know is what a penis feels like in your vagina. Saying it feels wonderful is enough to put a self-satisfied smirk on most men’s faces and end the discussion, but others aren’t so easily brushed off. They [...]
Can a Woman Feel When a Man Ejaculates Inside Her?
Monday, September 14th, 2009
Can a woman feel when a man ejaculates inside her? Curious men want to know, or at least several men I’ve known have been curious. I always said I could when they asked because I was pretty sure that’s what they wanted to hear. However, a more honest response would have been to say that [...]
What Does a Big Penis Feel Like to a Woman?
Saturday, January 3rd, 2009
My posts about penis size are always popular, but the responses I get from women are about their concerns with how big their partner is, not about how small. Some women find that a very long or thick penis can cause discomfort and even pain during sex. A long penis can hurt because it can [...]
100 Things about Me Sexually
Saturday, September 20th, 2008
I got the idea for doing this post from Wendy Blackheart’s list posted at her blog Heart Full of Black. I agree with her that it’s not easy to make a list like this, so, if you think some of the entries are lame, try making one yourself. (Here’s a list of 100 Sexy Facts [...]
My First (Surprise) MFM Threesome
Saturday, September 13th, 2008
Group sex is one of the most popular topics at Sex Secrets. My post The 3 Best Positions for MFM Threesomes ranks seventh all-time with over 12,000 page views. My only personal experience of group sex is with MFM threesomes. (I love being the center of attention, and I love double penetration.) However, my first [...]

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. My sexual history and preferences are detailed in my post