About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Oral Sex

Why Do Men Want Women to Swallow?

Sexpert Ducky Doolittle explains to a female reader why men want women to swallow.

Q: My partner wants me to swallow when I give him oral sex. What’s the appeal?

A: Some guys are very adamant about wanting their partners to swallow their ejaculate. Other guys just want their partner to do exactly what makes them feel most comfortable, swallow or not. And then other guys aren’t into seeing their partners swallow at all. Read more

6 Oral Sex Techniques That Deserve Some Kind of Medal

These six oral techniques deserve some kind of medal, says Heather Jennings.

This is kind of depressing, but we’re going to give it to you straight. According to a 2010 Esquire survey that the Internet will never let die, women may not be as excited about oral as we’ve been led to believe. To make matters worse, there really is such thing as an oral sex gap — women are twice as likely to go down on their partners and half as likely to receive pleasure when the favor is returned.

While oral sex sounds like a great appetizer to the main event in theory, 10 percent of the Esquire women said they didn’t like it at all. And a whopping 44 percent of women said it could be “nice” every once in a while. What gives? Well, you know, and we know, that many aren’t as proficient as they claim to be in the ways of the tongue beneath the sheets. And many of us women are shy about asking for what we want in bed, making even the best attempt at oral very awkward indeed. Read more

How to Lick Her Vagina to Make Her Orgasm Every Time

Sex coach Nick Hardwick reveals how to lick your woman’s vagina so that she orgasms every time.

You probably already know that eating pussy is the easiest way to make a woman orgasm. You might have also heard that guys who master this skill get much hotter sex, and a lot more often.

It’s one of the easiest ways to make her want sex as much as (if not more than) you.

The problem is most guys have no clue how to go down and perform oral sex on a woman. Read more

Porn Stars Reveal 3 Secrets to the Perfect Blow Job

Porn stars reveal how to give the perfect jobs.

If you’ve ever gone down on your significant other and found yourself wondering if you’re doing it right or whether or not if it’s the best they’ve ever had, you’re not alone. Maybe you’re just wondering or maybe you’re looking to better your head game.

Either way, if you want to learn how to give the perfect blow job, you’re going to have to learn from the very best in the business: porn stars.

WoodRocket recently released a video that gives us curious or dedicated Internet searchers all the nitty-gritty insight into tips for pleasing a man’s tip. I imagine that porn stars probably get asked about this all the time, at least enough to make them put out a video on the low down for going down. Read more

3 Oral Sex Tips tto Spice Up 69

Sexpert Emily Morse shares three oral sex tips to spice up 69.

The road to truly spectacular sex is a two-way street. Sometimes, you’ve gotta give a little to get a little—So why not give and get at the same time? That’s why 69 is a fan-favorite in the bedroom. In this position, we’re able to provide a partner with continuous oral pleasure without sacrificing a moment of our own. Read more

A Blow Job Guide for Women Who Hate Giving Blow Jobs

Every man loves fellatio, but not every woman loves to give it. If you are one of those woman, this guide will help.

What’s the thing that every man loves the most? Drinking a cold beer on a hot day and watching his favorite game on TV? Sure… while his woman kneels down in front of him and wraps her mouth and tongue around his love tool! Read more

Are Regular Blow Jobs the Key to a Happy Marriage?

Samara Rose says the key to a happy marriage is weekly (if not daily) blow jobs.

My friend and her husband are ending their marriage over the most banal of issues: sex.

“But Samara, your marriage didn’t work out. Should you be passing judgment?”

Shut your pie hole! My marriage didn’t end because I wouldn’t blow my husband!

They’re ending their marriage because they are “sexually incompatible.” He wants her to do certain things that she hasn’t done since they were dating. He’s angry that she’s being “withholding.” She’s angry that he’s a “sex addict.”

Essentially, they are ending their marriage over blow jobs.

I do not profess to be a sexpert. However, If I were to write a manual on how to have a successful marriage, I would name it, “Put Your Mouth On His Penis.” After all, the way to a man’s heart is through oral sex. Read more

Recent Comments

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