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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Oral Sex

The Two Moves That Make Fellatio Most Enjoyable

Performing fellatio on a maan is sometimes called “sucking him off.” Sucking is a major reason that blow jobs so enjoyable for men. Our mouths have the unique ability to create suction, or a vacuum effect. This is a sensation that will drive your partner wil, and bring him to orgasm again and again. Suction may be also the reason why many men prefer fellatio to sexual intercourse: A vagina can’t suck! You can only give a man the kind of pleasure that sucking provides with your mouth. You have two options for sucking: Continue reading

How to Make 69 Your New Favorite Position in 5 Easy Steps

The fantasy of 69 is often better than the reality. Rebecca Jane Stokes reveals how to make 69 your new favorite sex position in five easy steps.

If you have ever read anything I have written on this site befor Reade about different sex positions, then you know that I’m a pretty open person.

There is, however, one sex position that I have always had a hard time wrapping my head around.

You know it: the 69 sex position. Read more

Quick Oral Sex Tips for Men

Glamazon Tyomi from Glamerotica101.com gives men a few quick tips on how to become great at the performance of cunnilingus.

Better Cunnilingus: How to Tongue Her Vagina

This is a technique that your partner may not have had done to her before, so big bonus points to you when you do it.

When giving their lovers oral sex, many women stick to licking the clitoris only. They know that licking the clitoris can produce an intense orgasm, so they stay with the tried and true. However, if you’re feeling a bit naughty and want your lover to have a really mind-blowing orgasm, tonguing her vagina can take oral sex to the next level. Tongue thrusting is an oral sex technique that your lover may never have had used on her, so that makes it exciting all by itself. Read more

5 Hand Techniques That Enhance Cunnilingus

Cunnilingus is hot all by itself. Almost every woman enjoys the feeling of a warm, wet mouth in her most sensitive spots.  Besides stimulating your partner with your tongue during cunnilingus, there are also hand techniques that you can use to spice things up. Also, by using your hands and fingers, you can give your mouth and tongue a break without stopping the stimulation altogether. Here five hand techniques to enhance cunnilingus. Continue reading

8 Next-Level Oral Sex Tips

Cory Stieg shares eight next-level oral sex tips that people actually use.

The only thing more satisfying than being on the receiving end of great oral sex is knowing that you did a great job performing it on your partner. To give is to receive, if you will. Every sexual partner has different taste — literally and figuratively — and when you figure out exactly what your partner likes, it can be intensely gratifying.

Having a few go-to tips in your back pocket will make oral sex speed along for those times when you feel like you’ve been under water for hours. No shade, but giving oral sex is work, and it doesn’t make you any less altruistic if you wish it would go by quicker sometimes. Read more

10 Fellatio Tips to Drive Your Man Mad With Lust

No matter how much a woman enjoys performing fellatio on her partner, the main reason she does it is to give him sexual pleasure. Men certainly appreciate receiving the basic blow job, but there’s so much more you can do to spice it up for your partner. If you haven’t tried anything new with your blow jobs lately, these ten tips are sure to give you some good ideas. Continue reading

Recent Comments

  • Svetlana Ivanova: Depends on the woman.
  • Fox2: Would that be most probably wouldn’t feel it? I have seen you say elsewhere that less than 5″ means...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Some may, but most probably won’t. For some women in long-term relationships, penetration is...
  • Fox2: Not sure if commenting is working at the moment. Thanks but even though these positions will help maximise my...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: These positions help maximize what you have, whatever that is.
  • Fox: Would these positions help with a penis 4-4.5inches long and around 4inches around? Or do you need to be packing...
  • BOB: FUR
  • Svetlana Ivanova: If a woman doesn’t want to please the man she’s with, she’s with the wrong man.
  • Jane Doe: This article not only implies that all men want submissive partners, it tells women to take on a persona....
  • Svetlana Ivanova: It isn’t misogynistic at all. It’s realistic and sex-positive.