About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Oral Sex

6 Oral Sex Techniques That Deserve a Medal

Heather Jennings describes six oral sex techniques  that she says deserve some ind of medal.

This is kind of depressing, but we’re going to give it to you straight. According to a 2010 Esquire survey that the Internet will never let die, women may not be as excited about oral as we’ve been led to believe. To make matters worse, there really is such thing as an oral sex gap — women are twice as likely to go down on their partners and half as likely to receive pleasure when the favor is returned.

While oral sex sounds like a great appetizer to the main event in theory, 10 percent of the Esquire women said they didn’t like it at all. And a whopping 44 percent of women said it could be “nice” every once in a while. What gives? Well, you know, and we know, that many aren’t as proficient as they claim to be in the ways of the tongue beneath the sheets. And many of us women are shy about asking for what we want in bed, making even the best attempt at oral very awkward indeed. Read more

5 Cunnilingus Finger Techniques

Even though cunnilingus is oral sex,  these five finger techniques can make it even better.

Oral sex is mainly about the mouth and tongue, but that doesn’t mean you should adopt a hands-off policy when going down on your lover. Skillful fingers work quite well to help build the sexual tension that will be released with orgasm. Adding these five finger techniques to your oral sex repertoire will add to your lover’s pleasure. Read more

If You’ve Never Tried Irrumatio You’re Missing SO Many Orgasms

Sex adviser Susan Bratton says that if you’ve never tried irrumatio, you’re missing so many orgasms.

Most men admit to me that the oral sex they receive from their woman is not as good as they’d hope, yet they won’t tell their partner this because they’re afraid doing so might demoralize her.

The same way women are afraid to hurt a guy’s ego by giving him direction in bed, men don’t want to make us feel bad, especially if there’s a chance we might take serious offense and refuse not only to work together to improve the situation, but we also may withhold oral favors (or sex of any kind) in response.

After all, even a crappy blowjob is better than NO blowjob. Read more

For more about irrumatio, see my article Irrumatio: Even Better Than Fellatio?

Science Finds a Huge Benefit to Swallowing Semen

A study has found a huge benefit to swallowing semen.

What if someone told you that you could live longer without having to make a potion of your own blood and the hair of a virgin? What if the solution to living longer was in your very own home…actually, in your husband’s penis?

A study published in  revealed that spermidine, a chemical found in semen (but also in foods that you can eat with pleasure, like cheese and whole grains) helped rats’ hearts function better and reduced blood pressure, thereby helping them live longer.

“Our results suggest a new and feasible strategy for protection against cardiovascular disease,” the researchers wrote. Read more

How to Give a Mind-Blowing Blow Job

Tara Babcock reveals how to give and receive a mind-blowing blow job.

Why Do Men Want Women to Swallow?

Sexpert Ducky Doolittle explains to a female reader why men want women to swallow.

Q: My partner wants me to swallow when I give him oral sex. What’s the appeal?

A: Some guys are very adamant about wanting their partners to swallow their ejaculate. Other guys just want their partner to do exactly what makes them feel most comfortable, swallow or not. And then other guys aren’t into seeing their partners swallow at all. Read more

6 Oral Sex Techniques That Deserve Some Kind of Medal

These six oral techniques deserve some kind of medal, says Heather Jennings.

This is kind of depressing, but we’re going to give it to you straight. According to a 2010 Esquire survey that the Internet will never let die, women may not be as excited about oral as we’ve been led to believe. To make matters worse, there really is such thing as an oral sex gap — women are twice as likely to go down on their partners and half as likely to receive pleasure when the favor is returned.

While oral sex sounds like a great appetizer to the main event in theory, 10 percent of the Esquire women said they didn’t like it at all. And a whopping 44 percent of women said it could be “nice” every once in a while. What gives? Well, you know, and we know, that many aren’t as proficient as they claim to be in the ways of the tongue beneath the sheets. And many of us women are shy about asking for what we want in bed, making even the best attempt at oral very awkward indeed. Read more

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