About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Oral Sex

How to Give Fellatio to a Big Penis

How do you give felltio to a big penis? Although the overwhelming majority of penises are average or small, about one out of six men have a big one, so this is a question that affects a lot of women. The short answer is that you vary your fellatio techniques to compensate for the fact that your mouth is only so big. Just how you do that depends on whether your partner’s penis is long, thick, or long and thick. Continue reading

3 Amazing Cunnilingus Techniques

Expand your sexual repertoire with these three easy to perform and highly pleasurable cunnilingus techniques.

Because every woman has different degrees of sensitivity in her erogenous zones, there is no single, one-size-fits-all method for oral sex (or any other sex act). That said, most women love these three amazing oral sex techniques. They are both easy to perform and highly pleasurable for your lover. Read more

4 Cunnilingus Warm-Up Moves

Starting cunnilingus with direct clitoral stimulation is usually a bad move. Instead, warm you partner up with these sexy moves.

The most often repeated sex advice is that “every woman is different.” One thing that is true of every woman, however, is that she needs time to get turned on. Even though your lover is undoubtedly already turned on before you go down on her, these four oral sex warm-up moves will help to take her to the next level. Read more

Teabagging: What It Is and How to Do It

The term teabagging has nothing to do with making tea. Teabagging is the act of a man placing his scrotum into the mouth of a woman, usually while standing or kneeling over her. It gets its name from its similarity to the dunking motion of a tea bag when making tea. Since the testicles are an extremely sensitive erogenous zone, dipping them into a woman’s mouth can be quite pleasurable Although teabagging is often seen as an act of domination by a man or submission by a woman, when a woman takes a man’s most sensitive body part in her mouth, the question arises as to who really has the upper hand. Continue reading

6 Hot Cunnilingus Techniques

It’s easy to fall into a rut, even with oral sex. Keep thing spicy in the bedroom with these six hot cunnilingus techniques.

Anything can get boring after awhile if you keep doing the same thing over and over again. That even holds true for oral sex. If you go down on your lover the same way every time, eventually your lover will find it less exciting and pleasurable. Women like a variety of sensations, and these six oral sex techniques can satisfy that desire. Read more

How to Give Great Fellatio

Sexpert Tracey Cox reveals how to give great fellatio.

The Two Moves That Make Fellatio Most Enjoyable

Performing fellatio on a maan is sometimes called “sucking him off.” Sucking is a major reason that blow jobs so enjoyable for men. Our mouths have the unique ability to create suction, or a vacuum effect. This is a sensation that will drive your partner wil, and bring him to orgasm again and again. Suction may be also the reason why many men prefer fellatio to sexual intercourse: A vagina can’t suck! You can only give a man the kind of pleasure that sucking provides with your mouth. You have two options for sucking: Continue reading

Recent Comments

  • Svetlana Ivanova: Depends on the woman.
  • Fox2: Would that be most probably wouldn’t feel it? I have seen you say elsewhere that less than 5″ means...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Some may, but most probably won’t. For some women in long-term relationships, penetration is...
  • Fox2: Not sure if commenting is working at the moment. Thanks but even though these positions will help maximise my...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: These positions help maximize what you have, whatever that is.
  • Fox: Would these positions help with a penis 4-4.5inches long and around 4inches around? Or do you need to be packing...
  • BOB: FUR
  • Svetlana Ivanova: If a woman doesn’t want to please the man she’s with, she’s with the wrong man.
  • Jane Doe: This article not only implies that all men want submissive partners, it tells women to take on a persona....
  • Svetlana Ivanova: It isn’t misogynistic at all. It’s realistic and sex-positive.