Sex educator Yvonne K. Fulbright explores why are some lovers still so squeamish about giving or receiving oral sex.

If you want to silence a room and get everyone’s attention, just say these magic words: I’m writing a book on oral sex.

Typical reaction: speechlessness, followed by nervous laughter, followed by a comment along the lines of “Let me know if you ever need any research assistance!”

It’s amusing. People love oral. It’s ultimately irresistible. But this once taboo behavior can still be a tough sell in the bedroom. What gives? Read more

France is in uproar over anti-smoking posters showing male and female teenagers kneeling in front of a man, as if being forced to perform fellatio.

French advertising companies are often criticised for using sexual images to sell everything from designer spectacles to sweetcorn.

Now, for the first time, a controversy has erupted in France over the use of sexually suggestive posters as a deterrent.

A campaign to discourage young people from smoking shows male and female teenagers kneeling in front of a man, as if being forced to have oral sex. A cigarette takes the place of the man’s sexual organ. The caption reads: “Smoking is to be a slave to tobacco.” Read more

Want to know how to give great oral sex to your man? Rock his world with these fellatio tips from Cosmopolitan.

The ultimate blow job features five key elements: warmth, wetness, eagerness, repetition and at least one surprise manoeuvre. Let Cosmo show you how to perfect this winning combo and your mouth will be his favourite place on the planet..

1 Hot Spot
Don’t skip foreplay, even if your man is as erect as a May Pole. Tell him you’ll decide when he can remove his pants and while he’s straining against the fabric, gently nibble up and down his shaft. Next, place your lips around the head of his cotton-clad penis and blow warm air over him to focus sensation on this hot spot. Read more

Betty Dodson and Carlin Ross answer the question: “How can I learn to deep throat?” For more tips, check out my posts Deep Throat: What It Is and How to Do It, 5 Advanced Deep Throat Techniques, and How to Deep Throat a Really Long Penis.

“Graze on my lips; and if those hills be dry, stray lower, where the pleasant fountains lie.”- William Shakespeare

Fellatio is the act of applying your lips and mouth to a man’s penis with the purpose of giving him pleasure. Fellatio, giving head, blow job – call it what you wish – is seldom discussed as an expression of female sexual empowerment, but rather as a form of male dominance. Taking a man’s penis in our mouths is traditionally seen as an act of submission. It is assumed we do it against our will.

However, fellatio can not only give a man immense pleasure, but can also be extremely empowering for a woman. I view the fellatio as a form of male surrender, something requiring a mutual degree of trust and self-restraint. (more…)

While circumcision as a religious rite has been around for thousands of years, the practice took hold in the United States in the late 1800s as a means of curbing sexual diseases and masturbation. By the 1970s, 80 percent of American male infants were circumcised. Today, that figure has dropped to 60 percent, but this still far exceeds the international average of 15 percent. Many American women have literally never seen an uncircumcised penis and don’t know what to do with one when they encounter it, especially when it comes to oral sex. Performing fellatio on an uncircumcised penis can be a pleasurable experience for both you and your partner as long as you are gentler with your moves. (more…)

There are many different kinds of oral sex techniques, and you’ve probably even picked up a set of oral sex tips or your own oral sex techniques along the way. Imagine being so good at oral sex that you can help your partner let go of any inhibitions and have orgasms that blow his or her mind. Legendary porn star Nina Hartley shares the secrets to her success on New World Sex Educator Jaiya’s radio show Sex with Jaiya. After describing how she left nursing to become a porn star, Nina explains how you can create great combos when it comes everything from cunnilingus to fellatio to analingus. Listen to Advanced Oral Sex with Nina Hartley

SexInfo101.com illustrates twelve cunnilingus sex positions, which you can click on to get a 3D animated effect.

Known by many names; going down, eating out, clam chowder, and carpet munching to name a few, the art of cunnilingus is best known for an important skill to master if you want to keep your woman satisfied… and generally speaking, a satisfied woman is a faithful one!

This expose on the family of positions in which cunnilingus can be performed should help a great deal, and make sure to check out our oral sex guide for the techniques once you are there! Read more

One of my most popular posts has long been 7 Tips for Swallowing Semen, which aims to help women who find the taste objectionable.  A British company may have made that post obsolete, however. Blue Mountain Nutraceuticals has produced a pill for men called Sweet Release that claims to change the scent and taste of  semen to a “delicious apple flavor.”

We ladies work so hard to heat things up in the bedroom. It’s a damn shame what we’re cooking up when we’re naked, never tastes that good going down—literally. Semen is hardly the fine wine of sexytimes. But Blue Mountain Nutraceuticals in the U.K. is turning the mouth-puckering lemons of love into, well, apples. Read more

At AskMen.com, Jasmine Leigh says that the beauty of performing oral sex on a woman  is that it doesn’t matter how big your penis is, how cut you are, or how ugly you are. When your face is covered in her, neither of you will care as long as you observe one rule: ladies first.

Performing above-average oral sex on a woman takes some skill and an understanding of women’s bodies. There are several things that can go wrong, however if you understand what’s required to send her over the edge, you can become a master of oral sex, and be talked about, fantasized about and remembered for the rest of her natural life. The beauty of oral sex is that it doesn’t matter how big your penis is, how cut you are or how ugly you are; when your face is covered in her, neither of you will care. The rule? Ladies first.

The basics

Getting your tongue to do the right thing during your lady’s first adventure might seem difficult, but the trick is to start off slowly and softly. Pretend she is a sweet lollipop, and you want to savor every lick. Flex your tongue, soften it, explore — then repeat. Read more