Welcome back! Thanks for visiting.Cosmopolitan advises a woman whose boyfriend’s penis chokes her during 69. Q: My guy likes to be on top when we do 69, but I feel like I’m being choked. How can I make it more comfortable? A:When your guy is on top during simultaneous oral sex, try pleasing him without [...]

As someone who has coached women in the art of fellatio with some success (or so they tell me), I highly recommend this tutorial by Betty Dodson and Carlin Ross on how to give a blow job. For more on this topic, check out my articles (scroll down); or, if you prefer the viewpoint of [...]

Every man loves fellatio, but not every woman does. If you’re not getting the oral action you crave, The Frisky suggests nineteen ways to get your woman to go down on you. (In my opinion, the last suggestion works the best.) Ah, the blow job. It’s idealized and beloved by most men, more so than [...]

Dan and Jennifer describe the taste of semen and how you can change its flavor.

Cunnilingus is the art of making love to a vulva and vagina with your mouth and tongue. If your new lover is a cunnilingus virgin, or  she has just never received cunnilingus from you, then her first time may be a little scary. For some women, negative thoughts about their genitals interfere with [...]

Try this cunnilingus technique to guarantee your woman more orgasms. Ultimate tongue technique When it comes to keeping a girl happy, there’s nothing quite like a little bit of selfless love. According to registered sex therapist Dr Patti Britton (askthesexcoach.com), “Most women climax after three minutes and all in under 12.” Take your new talents to the [...]

Sex educator Yvonne K. Fulbright explores why are some lovers still so squeamish about giving or receiving oral sex. If you want to silence a room and get everyone’s attention, just say these magic words: I’m writing a book on oral sex. Typical reaction: speechlessness, followed by nervous laughter, followed by a comment along the lines of [...]