About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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3 Ways to Find a Third Partner for a Threesome

Lindsay Tigar reveals three proven ways to find a third partner for a threeesome.

Maybe it’s your 40th birthday or you’ve been with your leading lady for 15 years. Or perhaps you’re both just curious and finally brave enough to give it a go. Whatever the reason for deciding to try to have a threesome, let us be the first to congratulate you on adding this (potentially) very hot experience to your sexual history. Even if it turns out to be a one-time thing, as long as you and your girl are on the same page about what it’ll mean (and what it won’t) for your relationship, it could be the rut-buster that brings some fire and energy back to your sexual routine. Read more

10 Tips for Surviving Your First Sex Party

If you’ve been invited to a sex party, aka orgy, Laura Jayne Martin has ten tips to help make your first time a great time.

Orgies are intimidating, and you’re definitely going to have a lot of, um, new experiences the first time you go to one. Don’t let that scare you off! Here are 10 ways to seem like sex parties are so old hat for you. Read more

6 Secrets to an Unforgettable Threesome

Adina Rivers reveals her six secrets for an unforgettable and powerful threesome

9 Ways to Have a Sexy, Intimate Threesome

Sophie Saint Thomas reveals nine ways to have a sexy, intimate threesome.

Have you done your homework and decided that you and your partner are ready to try a threesome? Congrats, the hard part is over. Now comes the threesome with the magical unicorn where everyone comes, laughs, and has the best night of their lives. Sorry, but nope. Once you’ve decided your relationship can handle a ménage à trois, then comes the actual hard part: figuring out how to have a sexy, romantic, drama-free threesome. Read more

How to Have a Satisfying Double Penetration

Have you decided to fulfill your fantasy of being with two men at once by arranging an MFM threesome? If you have, you are in for an amazing experience, but you still may have questions, especially about double penetration. First of all double penetration is not a requirement of an MFM threesome. The men can just take turns or you could just do oral along with vaginal or anal sex. However, double penetration is what makes an MFM threesome special, particularly for a woman. If you do want to try it, here are a few tips to have a satisfying double penetration. Continue reading

10 Signs a Woman Is Willing to Have a Threesome

A threesome might be one of your fantasies, but what about your wife or girlfriend? These ten signs may indicate that she is as interested as you are.

A threesome is arguably every man’s ultimate fantasy. But making that fantasy a reality is no easy feat. So how can one determine whether the person they’re in a relationship with would ever be open to one? I personally have know idea. That’s why I’ve reached out to somebody who does know.

The person I spoke to was Chris Maxwell Rose, an independent sex educator and one of two founding members of Pleasure Mechanics, a website that serves as a vast electronic library of sexual knowledge, the riches of which are shared through online classes taught by both Rose and her partner. When it comes to threesomes, you could say Rose wrote the book on it. Because, well, she did. Read more

What a Straight Women Learned at an All-Female Sex Party

A straight woman reveals what she learned by attending an all-female sex party.

The first time I saw a dental dam was in eighth-grade health class. The second was at a sex party in New York City’s Lower East Side.

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I never thought I’d go to a sex party. Sex parties, to me, were the sort of in-real-life bacchanalia that you only see in porn. Not really my thing. I mean, I identify as a confident and fairly sexually adventurous woman, but I’m very tame in the sense that my preferences are strictly male and I’m partial to monogamy.

So, why did I go to an upscale, ladies-only play party last weekend? Read more

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