About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Female Orgasm

6 Types of Female Orgasm

Although some sexperts steadfastly maintain that there is only one type of female orgasm, Ashlee Miller describes six types.

If you second-guessed how amazing the female body is, you better get your life. A woman’s body can do the most, including damn near erupting like a human volcano when having an orgasm.

K, let’s cut to the chase: There are way more orgasms than just basic ass vaginal and clitoral. From touching feet to stimulating nipples, here are more ways to experience deep, intense ecstasy. Read more

How to Give a Woman a Blended Orgasm

Vanessa Marin reveals what a blended orgasm is and how to give one to a woman.

If you’ve been known to troll—er, frequent—female-centric websites for insight on getting her off, odds are good you’ve stumbled across something called a “blended orgasm.”

Something of a unicorn in the world of pleasure, the phenomenon seems elusive and mysterious—and we’re betting you sure as hell wanna get your hands on one.

Well, now’s the time to learn. Read more

6 Surprising Beauty Benefits of Orgasm

Orgasms not only feel good, but also make you look good, according Suzannah Weiss.

Orgasms are worth pursuing for their own sake, but it doesn’t hurt to know about the mood, beauty, and health benefits of sex. Its improvements on physical appearance are numerous and even a little surprising. It’s almost as if a lot of the time we spend doing our makeup might as well be spent in the sack.

And while orgasms are awesome (had you heard?), sex researcher Nicole Prause, Ph.D., says they aren’t even required to get the added beauty bonuses of sex: Any level of sexual pleasure or even just arousal can have the same effects.

Here are a few beauty perks that come from an exciting sex life: Read more

Can Orgasms Increase Fertility?

Reaching orgasm may increase chances of conception by 15 percent, according to a new study.

While male orgasms have a link to fertility, until now, female orgasms were considered to occur simply for pleasure.

But new research suggests female orgasms could play a key role in fertility.

The study suggests reaching climax could increase a woman’s chance of conceiving by as much as 15 per cent. Read more

Does Clitoris Size Matter?

Does clitoris size matter when it comes to female orgasm? For women who have problems reaching orgasm, it’s more likely due to location, not size, says Lisa Fogarty.

Since the dawn of time, men have been comparing penis sizes for sport (and, cough, reminding themselves that size doesn’t always matter). Women aren’t immune to comparisons — 1 in 7, according to the American Congress of Obstetricians and Gynecologists, has actually considered getting the lips of her vagina surgically trimmed. But what about the clitoris, the magical ~love button~ (with over 8,000 nerve endings!) that pushes you to orgasm? Does the size of that matter? Read more

Can Women Learn to Climax from Penetration Alone?

A Kinkly reader asks sexpert Ducky Doplittle a question:

I’d really like to orgasm with my partner, but I can only come when he gives me oral sex or uses his hands. Is there any way to orgasm during sex?

Ducky Doolittle replies:

Most women don’t orgasm from penetration alone. You may be able to learn to orgasm purely from penetration. If not, you will at the very least learn how to have bigger orgasms in general. But let me be very clear about this: Your body is perfect. There is no wrong way to orgasm. The way you orgasm right now is awesome. Just because you don’t orgasm from penetration does not mean penetration does not feel good. It is physical, bonding, playful and hopefully makes you breathe heavy and gets your heart pumping. So it doesn’t take you over the edge. It’s OK to let your lover know this.

And now I’ll give you some very solid advice on how to achieve bigger, more badass orgasms, with or without penetration. Read more

 

Fingering a Woman to a Blended Orgasm

A clitoral orgasm is good, and a G-spot orgasm is good, but a combined clitoral and G-spot orgasm… priceless.

The Combined Clitoral and G-Spot Orgasm is an ancient Tantric sex technique, which was first practiced over 3000 years ago. Although 70 percent of women can only achieve orgasm through clitoral stimulation, this technique uses combined stimulation of the clitoris and G-spot to bring a woman to what is called a “blended” or “combination” orgasm. This kind of orgasm is at least twice as intense as either the clitoral or G-spot orgasms by themselves. Read more

Recent Comments

  • Tamati: My honey and i have sex at least once a day on average and it amazing. We have been married for a little over...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Yes, the evolutionary theory is probably right. Human males don’t have bright colors or tail...
  • Danny: I love reading your stuff, and I definitely agree that size matters big time. Even though many women would...
  • Katie: Great article, this is exactly what I have been doing with my husband for years now. All massage’s with...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: More women than you might think actually measure a particularly large penis. That’s how they...
  • John Mode: Either women are very poor judges of how big an inch actually is, or they have very unrealistic...
  • Pillywiggins: I like a big cock and being fucked really hard and deep. I never really complain about dick size....
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Typically, the watching part is more of a turn-on for the man, who gets to see his wife experience...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: It should if the woman already has experience with big penises, and the man knows what he’s...
  • Astra Kiro: This feel good sensation applies to all women with men,even in first date circumstances?