About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Female Orgasm

Can Orgasms Increase Fertility?

Reaching orgasm may increase chances of conception by 15 percent, according to a new study.

While male orgasms have a link to fertility, until now, female orgasms were considered to occur simply for pleasure.

But new research suggests female orgasms could play a key role in fertility.

The study suggests reaching climax could increase a woman’s chance of conceiving by as much as 15 per cent. Read more

Does Clitoris Size Matter?

Does clitoris size matter when it comes to female orgasm? For women who have problems reaching orgasm, it’s more likely due to location, not size, says Lisa Fogarty.

Since the dawn of time, men have been comparing penis sizes for sport (and, cough, reminding themselves that size doesn’t always matter). Women aren’t immune to comparisons — 1 in 7, according to the American Congress of Obstetricians and Gynecologists, has actually considered getting the lips of her vagina surgically trimmed. But what about the clitoris, the magical ~love button~ (with over 8,000 nerve endings!) that pushes you to orgasm? Does the size of that matter? Read more

Can Women Learn to Climax from Penetration Alone?

A Kinkly reader asks sexpert Ducky Doplittle a question:

I’d really like to orgasm with my partner, but I can only come when he gives me oral sex or uses his hands. Is there any way to orgasm during sex?

Ducky Doolittle replies:

Most women don’t orgasm from penetration alone. You may be able to learn to orgasm purely from penetration. If not, you will at the very least learn how to have bigger orgasms in general. But let me be very clear about this: Your body is perfect. There is no wrong way to orgasm. The way you orgasm right now is awesome. Just because you don’t orgasm from penetration does not mean penetration does not feel good. It is physical, bonding, playful and hopefully makes you breathe heavy and gets your heart pumping. So it doesn’t take you over the edge. It’s OK to let your lover know this.

And now I’ll give you some very solid advice on how to achieve bigger, more badass orgasms, with or without penetration. Read more

 

Fingering a Woman to a Blended Orgasm

A clitoral orgasm is good, and a G-spot orgasm is good, but a combined clitoral and G-spot orgasm… priceless.

The Combined Clitoral and G-Spot Orgasm is an ancient Tantric sex technique, which was first practiced over 3000 years ago. Although 70 percent of women can only achieve orgasm through clitoral stimulation, this technique uses combined stimulation of the clitoris and G-spot to bring a woman to what is called a “blended” or “combination” orgasm. This kind of orgasm is at least twice as intense as either the clitoral or G-spot orgasms by themselves. Read more

Scientists Have Found These Powerful Points in the Vagina

Sexpert Adina Rivers says that activating these powerful points in the vagina may lead to full-body orgasm and emotional healing.

You may have heard the term ley lines used to describe alignments of ancient sites or holy places.  They are believed to carry spiritual and mystical energy from one point to another, but did you know that there are actually ley lines within your body and even crazier in your vagina?

In this article, I will show you how you can find, unlock, and activate them to empower yourself physically, mentally, and spiritually. Read more

8 Orgasm Tips to Add to Your Sex Life

These eight orgasm tips can spice up your sex life starting right now.

Here at Refinery29, we don’t believe that any approach to sex is one-size-fits-all. Different techniques work for different people (with different partners, and at different times). That said, we have collected quite a few tried-and-tested tips that sex therapists, sex toy experts, and sex-having people swear can help you reach orgasm (and maybe even orgasms). No, orgasm isn’t the be-all-end-all of sex, but it’s part of the gamut of sexual experience, and a pretty great one at that. Read more

Here’s How Long Sex Should Last for Maximum Female Pleasure

Nothing should be written in stone when it comes to how long sex should last, but these are some guidelines.

Let’s talk about sex, baby! (Because, really, what else did you come to Cosmopolitan.com to talk about? Besides physics and the answer to world peace.)

Over at GQ, they’re trying to answer the question: How long should sex last? Especially for a woman’s enjoyment? (They’re doing the Lord’s work.) Read more

Recent Comments

  • Katie: Great article, this is exactly what I have been doing with my husband for years now. All massage’s with...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: More women than you might think actually measure a particularly large penis. That’s how they...
  • John Mode: Either women are very poor judges of how big an inch actually is, or they have very unrealistic...
  • Pillywiggins: I like a big cock and being fucked really hard and deep. I never really complain about dick size....
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Typically, the watching part is more of a turn-on for the man, who gets to see his wife experience...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: It should if the woman already has experience with big penises, and the man knows what he’s...
  • Astra Kiro: This feel good sensation applies to all women with men,even in first date circumstances?
  • Dorian: Unfortunately I am quite small and I know that my wife likes them really big. Would you recommend to try...
  • John: Hi Svetlana, I have come across this googling for “double blowjob” as I received this last weekend...
  • Tanya: I think most women would agree to some degree that size doe’s matter. Rather have too much than not...