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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Female Orgasm

4 Tricks to Make Her Orgasm

Using these four tricks will a woman achieve orgasm every time, says Rebecca Rosenblat.

She’s arching her back, moaning and groaning in the throes of pleasure. You’re feeling great about yourself and loving how it’s going, but you’re not alone if these moments are sometimes accompanied by a nagging worry: What if I can’t get it right a second time? What if this is all just luck? Read more

Vaginal Kung-Fu Might Be the Key to Better Orgasms

Chances are you haven’t heard of vaginal kung-fu, but according to Lisa Masterson, MD, it could be the key to better orgasms.

Pretty much everyone knows that weightlifting can have benefits for your body. But what many people don’t know is that weightlifting can be good for your vagina as well. Yep, you heard right.

A practice called vaginal kung-fu, or vaginal weightlifting, uses an egg-shaped stone attached to weights to strengthen your pelvic floor muscles. Lisa Masterson, MD, talked about the benefits of vaginal weightlifting in a new video posted to her blog, Health In Heels.

In the video, Masterson said vaginal kung-fu is an ancient Taoist practice that can lead to more intense and pleasurable orgasms. Read more

The 4 G-Spots in a Womans Body You Did Not Know Exist

Adina Rivers reveals the four G-spots in a woman’s body that you probably don’t know exist.

“It’s for real.. a woman has many “G-Spot’s” all over her body. When touched properly these spots can bring her closer to an unforgettable orgasmic ride. In fact she can have an orgasm without being touched on her “real” pussy.”

So I’ve found a very interesting article about the many “vaginas” in a woman’s body.

I’ve personally experienced these hot spots during sensual full body massages. The pleasure found through these points is indescribable, activating energy throughout the whole body and not just in my genitals. This alone opens my body up to more intense and longer lasting orgasms.

So let us check out this magic. Read more

Study: Multiple Orgasm the Norm Not the Exception

How many times can YOU orgasm? A study found that 7 in 10 women can climax more than once during sex (and some reach orgasm twenty times in a session).

Doctors used to think that multiple orgasms were rare.

But new research proves the opposite. Seven in 10 women are able to climax numerous times with their partner.

In fact, hitting the big ‘O’ more than once during a steamy session is common in most relationships, a study shows. Read more

This Is When Women Fake Orgasm Most

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Chances are you’ve heard some faux moans, but why?

Is her big O all for show? Research suggests that most women fake orgasms at least some of the time, as we’ve reported in the past. Now, we confirm your nagging suspicions once again: 68 percent of women admitted to faking an orgasm in a new (unscientific) survey of 2,000 men and women from DrEd.com. Read more

Orgasm Tips to Add to Your Sex Life

Close the orgasm gap with these tips you can add to your sex life now.

Here at Refinery29, we don’t believe that any approach to sex is one-size-fits-all. Different techniques work for different people (with different partners, and at different times). That said, we have collected quite a few tried-and-tested tips that sex therapists, sex toy experts, and sex-having people swear can help you reach orgasm (and maybe even orgasms). No, orgasm isn’t the be-all-end-all of sex, but it’s part of the gamut of sexual experience, and a pretty great one at that.

Unfortunately, the orgasm gap is alive and well, and far fewer women than men are reaching climax on a regular basis. It’s true that there are many reasons behind this inequity, from inadequate sex ed to continued, society-wide disregard for women’s sexual satisfaction. To the extent that you can take action to experience the pleasure you’d like, though, you deserve to. That’s why we’re collecting some of our best tips for achieving orgasm here. Click through to review some you may know and discover others you may not have heard, and check back as we continue to add to the list. Read more

What Is a Cervical Orgasm and How Do You Achieve It?

Have you ever had a cervical orgasm or even know what it is? Mike Hatcher reveals the trick to achieving one.

Sexual intercourse and orgasm are two beautiful things that all women should enjoy these days. Commonly referred to as the full body orgasm, the cervical orgasm represents the ultimate pleasure, the supreme form of satisfaction and excitement that a woman can have after a long, intense sex session. Unfortunately, the full body orgasm is not as popular as the two other more common types of orgasm—as a matter of fact, it is so rare that most of the women do not even know it exists, letting alone achieving it! Read more

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