About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

Google Translator

    Translate from:

    Translate to:

Female Orgasm

7 Factors That Can Have a Huge Impact on Female Orgasm

Macaela Mackenzie says that seven factors can have a huge impact on a woman’s  ability to orgasm.

Sometimes, making it to the big O feels less like a romantic, bodice-ripping throw down and more like a methodical hunt for an elusive, rare unicorn. The orgasm gap between men and women is well documented, which is why we’re all about what science has to say about upping your likelihood of finding that magical moment.

Obviously, your bedroom moves matter. But research says a lot of seemingly random factors can actually play a major role in your odds of orgasming—we’re talking everything from your anatomy to your sexting skills.

To keep your sex life steamy, pay attention to these random science-backed factors that will increase your chances of catching that elusive O. Read more

Female Ejaculation Is Real: 5 Ways to Help Her Do It

Female ejaculation is real, and several sexperts, including a porn star, give five ways to help a woman do it.

Female ejaculation, a.k.a. squirting, is the highest form of compliment in the bedroom: if you’ve made a woman squirt, you know that you’re doing something right. But even though the art of female ejaculation has been studied for more than 2,000 years, according to Beverly Whipple, PhD, a certified sex therapist and a professor at Rutgers University, most researchers are still mystified by it. Read more

8 Simple Ways to Guarantee an Epic Orgasm

Tatiana Perez shares eight simple ways to guarantee an epic orgasm.

1. Focus.

It may sound kinda dumb, but I told you these tricks would be stupid! ;) If your goal is to have an epic orgasm, you’ve gotta want it. Tell yourself you’re giving your parter the best damn luvin’ s/he’s every received, contract those pelvic muscles, and voilà! You’ll be climaxing like never before. Read more

Why This Legendary Type of Orgasm Is Controversial

Female ejaculation is still controversial, but why?

Female ejaculation, aka squirting, has become a lot more mainstream in the past few decades, thanks in part to porn. Indeed, many a porn video has led us to believe that if you stimulate a vagina in just the right way, it’ll transform into a free-flowing, wellspring of ejaculate. Read more

You Know About the G-Spot, but What About the A-Spot?

We know all about the G-spot, but here’s why you need to find your A-spot tonight.

You probably know about or at least have heard of the female G-spot, a zone responsible for mind-blowing orgasms when hit. But if you’ve never heard of the A-spot — a lesser known (and therefore highly underrated) area that’s just as pleasure-inducing — you’re in for quite the treat tonight. To get the lowdown on this foreign territory, I spoke with clinical sexologist and founder of b-Vibe anal sex products Alicia Sinclair, who provided us with everything you need to know, from where to find it to how it can change the way you orgasm. By the time you finish reading, you’ll want to rush straight to the bedroom yourself. Read more

5 Tips for Better Clitoral Stimulation

The clitoris is the only organ in the human body designed solely to proviide sexual pleasure. What that means is that even though women have other sensitive erogenous zones, the clitoris with its 8,000 nerve ending is the key to female orgasm. Try these five tips for better clitoral stimulation to bring your partner to a toe-curling climax. Continue reading

5 Techniques for Achieving Multiple Orgasms

If one orgasm is good, more is even better. Once you reach orgasm, using one or more of these five techniques may lead to another.

While it’s true that too much of a good can sometimes be bad, that doesn’t go for orgasms. If one is good, having two, three, or four is even better. Multiple orgasms means having more than one c.imax during a single lovemaking session, which could mean within minutes, hours, or the entire evening. All women are capable of having multiple orgasms. If you want to give it a try, using these five techniques one you reach your first orgasm can often lead to having more than one. Read more

Recent Comments

  • Flinkd: Bigger penis is stretching the walls of the vagina better. (nerve endings feel more pressure, therefore...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Depends on the woman.
  • Fox2: Would that be most probably wouldn’t feel it? I have seen you say elsewhere that less than 5″ means...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Some may, but most probably won’t. For some women in long-term relationships, penetration is...
  • Fox2: Not sure if commenting is working at the moment. Thanks but even though these positions will help maximise my...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: These positions help maximize what you have, whatever that is.
  • Fox: Would these positions help with a penis 4-4.5inches long and around 4inches around? Or do you need to be packing...
  • BOB: FUR
  • Svetlana Ivanova: If a woman doesn’t want to please the man she’s with, she’s with the wrong man.
  • Jane Doe: This article not only implies that all men want submissive partners, it tells women to take on a persona....