If a woman isn’t sufficiently aroused before intercourse, it’s  unlikely that she’ll have an orgasm with intercourse. Men’s Health gives men six steps to arousing a woman, and the first one isn’t putting her hand on your penis. Arouse her sufficiently, and she’ll do that on her own.

1 Time to talk
To get the party started your lovely lady doesn’t need you to massage anything but her ego. “She needs psychological cues to reinforce how desired she feels, which comes from what you say to her early on,” says Dr Margaret Rees, consultant gynecologist at the John Radcliffe Hospital in Oxford. Read more

While some men have been educated in female anatomy and in the practice of pleasing a woman, most men fumble around like a donkey on ice skates trying to find a way to get a woman to reach orgasm. If they only knew that the clitoris is a primary source of erotic stimulation for women, they would be much more successful. Sex therapist Ian Kerner explains how not to be “ill-cliterate.”

In the US, many men seem to know more about what’s under the hood of a car than the hood of the clitoris. I think “ill-cliteracy” is a shame. In terms of the G spot, a lot of fuss is made over the differences between clitoral and G spot orgasms. The clitoral orgasm is often criticised as being quick and light-hearted, while G spot orgasms are somehow deemed more serious and substantive. Read more

Nearly all men can climax without difficulty, but women just aren’t built that way. Psychologist and sex expert Dr. Belisa Vranich reveals the ten things that get in the way of female orgasm.

The two of you are having sex, but only one is climaxing. And it’s probably not her.

The number one “Dear Doc” question I get has to do with “lack of desire,” “lower libido,” or “inability to achieve orgasm” for women, and it can be caused by a number of physical and psychological factors.

Once the kids are out of earshot, read the following out loud to her and see if she’s shaking her head in agreement, then make the necessary adjustments to make “Oh, no..” turn into “Oh, yes!” Read more

Jo Hemmings, author of How to Have Great Sex, gives men step-by-step instructions on how to use the Extended Sexual Orgasm technique.

The ESO technique
If you take pride in the quality of your lady’s climax, then read on. Usually a woman’s orgasm lasts around 15 seconds at best but, according to American sexperts Alan and Donna Brauer, it’s possible to extend those sought-after shudders for as long as half an hour. The Brauers’ Extended Sexual Orgasm (ESO) technique is pretty demanding, but if followed correctly can yield deeply intense marathon orgasms – as well as sporadic pleasurable contractions up to 24 hours after the act. If there’s a better way to make amends after the inevitable Valentine’s row, we’d like to hear it. Read more

Let’s face facts. If  your woman is NOT getting what she needs from you sexually, then it’s going to be FRUSTRATING for her and for YOU. It  can literally ruin your sex life! Recent studies reveal that 45-55% of married women engage in extramarital sex at some time or another during their relationship (many of them as a result of being unsatisfied with their sex life!) More than 20% of the women who have had extramarital affairs reported they did so for purely sexual reasons.

What would your sex life be like if your partner was completely “satisfied”  every single night?  Do you want to know EXACTLY how to bring your partner to the heights of ecstasy every single time you have sex? Are you interested in learning advanced techniques to please her with MULTIPLE orgasms every night?

For the past few years, Gabrielle Moore has been helping couples all over the world achieve their goal of improving intimacy in their lives – more specifically, giving women orgasms. This is where Gabrielle Moore really shines in her groundbreaking book Female Orgasms Revealed. She has answers for the men who want to know how to help their partner have orgasms. and women who want to know why they aren’t able to have orgasms with their partners. (The answers are usually NOT what you think. You may be surprised by some of them.)

After years of hands-on experience and research, Gabrielle Moore has created a step-by-step “take you by the hand” method to help men  seduce women and give them the hottest orgasms, using the most advanced and proven techniques.

Here’s a sneak peek at what you’ll find in this amazing program:

• The 4 definite reasons why it is SO difficult for women to have an orgasm. (Just knowing these reasons will help give her an orgasm 98.7% of the times!)
• The 34 hottest and most “uncommon” positions you MUST try tonight if you want her to reach a DOZEN orgasms at least! GUARANTEED!
• How to be in absolute control of the MOST important sexual organ of a woman (And NO, it´s definitely not the clitoris!)
• How to “re-train” your woman´s body so that she can have regular orgasms during sex!
• How to use the “partial-penetration” technique to your advantage and have your woman literally BEGGING you for more!
• The 4 stages a woman MUST follow to have an orgasm!
• Why you MUST keep your hands away from her vagina until you know that she is well into the second stage, unless you want to interrupt an orgasm just like 91.4% of men do!
• How to master the FOURTH stage of a woman´s sexual response so that she can reach MULTIPLE orgasms after the first ONE!
• The 6 hottest recently-disclosed techniques to  bring a woman to MULTIPLE orgasms WITHOUT even penetrating her! You will NOT even have to touch her vagina to make her start screaming your name in ecstasy!
• How to use oral sex just as “an excuse” to convince your female partner to have anal sex with you!

When you get your copy of Female Orgasm Revealed, you will also have unlimited access to  Gabrielle Moore’s Intimate Forum (FREE Access – 24/7) where she literally has NO SHAME in sharing EVERYTHING she knows about how to improve your sex life.

What’s more, you’ll automatically get these hot, extra bonus books:
The Female Masturbation Handbook
Secrets to the Greatest Sex Ever
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To check out Gabrielle Moore’s book Female Orgasms Revealed, click here. Don’t forget to sign up for her emails and the FREE e-book about the myths of female sexuality.

Dan and Jennifer explain clitoral circles. This handy little technique will have a woman squirming with excitement in no time!

There are hundreds of ways in which male and female bodies can come together for mutual pleasure. Knowing a variety of sex positions can help you be a better and more inventive lover for your partner. Author Deborah Sundahl recommends four sex positions that make it easier for women to achieve orgasm. (I would skip bringing a copy of the instructions to bed with you, though, unless you have a really bad memory.)

Of course you want a steamier sex life — but there is more to it then candlelight and lingerie. There are actual tried-and-true methods for getting better stimulated and having the Big O. So, get ready for hotter sex with suggestions that will surprise and thrill your partner, from Deborah Sundahl, author of Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot. Feel free to print this out and bring it to bed with you. We doubt your partner will complain! Read more

From killer to kinky, Handbag lists twelve sure-fire tips to getting harder, faster, stronger, and multiple orgasms.

Work those pelvic floors, ladies!

Next time you’re on the loo, try stopping yourself peeing mid-flow. The muscles you clench up to stop the flow are your pelvic muscles. You can repeat this exercise any time, anywhere – in fact, right now at your desk! Strong PC (pubococcygeal) muscles mean stronger orgasms, so spend a couple of weeks ‘working out’ and you’ll be far more delighted with the outcome than any weight loss at the gym… Read more

If your woman isn’t as eager for sex as you’d like her to be (or not interested at all), it’s probably because she isn’t getting much enjoyment from it. It’s human nature to want more of what we like and less of what we don’t. If your partner isn’t sick, injured, or cheating on you, the reason she doesn’t want to have sex more often is because she doesn’t enjoy it. Period.

Surveys reveal that only about 30 percent of women have orgasms with intercourse. Female sexual pleasure mostly associates with her clitoris and G spot. Women often don’t have orgasm with intercourse because some sex positions don’t provide enough stimulation of these pleasure spots. Here are some positions and techniques that do provide the stimulation your woman needs to have an orgasm with intercourse. (more…)

SexInfo101.com illustrates twelve cunnilingus sex positions, which you can click on to get a 3D animated effect.

Known by many names; going down, eating out, clam chowder, and carpet munching to name a few, the art of cunnilingus is best known for an important skill to master if you want to keep your woman satisfied… and generally speaking, a satisfied woman is a faithful one!

This expose on the family of positions in which cunnilingus can be performed should help a great deal, and make sure to check out our oral sex guide for the techniques once you are there! Read more