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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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How to Give a Tantric Breast Massage

Though most men, and even many women, are fascinated by breasts, they actually can be an incredibly neglected and forgotten area in the realm of Tantric pleasure and touch. Breast massage is a fantastic way to nurture and pleasure your lover.  Jennifer Lawless of Tantra: Gateway to Ecstasy explains how to give a Tantric breast massage to the woman in your life.

A Tantric breast massage is a ritual that allows a woman to receive sensual energy and unconditional love from her partner. The breast massage is a special type of Tantric massage that focuses on the woman’s breasts. Not only does massaging the breasts make them firmer, it also makes them healthier and aids in maintaining the balance of hormones in a woman�’s body. Breast massage is also a great way for a man to give pleasure, healing, and intimacy to his partner. The breasts are the seat of a woman’s sexuality and need to be loved and honored before any other part of her body will open up to you.

Breast massage can be tricky because breast tissues are quite delicate. However, if done properly and with exerting only moderate pressure, massaging the breasts is perfectly safe. The procedure is also quite simple. Read more

How to Give a Sensual Massage for Valentine's Day

Valentine’s Day is fast approaching. Sexpert Sarah Gibson says sensual massage can be an intimate and cost-effective way to make your Valentine very happy.

Not got a huge budget for Valentines this year? But still want to show your partner that you care? A romantic, sensual massage is a gift that any girl will appreciate this February 14th. And the only expense is massage oil – if you don’t already have it. Simply follow the hot tips below and you’re in for an even hotter night. Read more

How to Give a Tantric Clitoral Massage

Clitoral massage is an excellent skill to have in your repertoire when making love to a woman. If you really want to impress your female partner, Jennifer Lawless at Tantra: Gateway to Ecstasy tells you how to make her clitoris the center of attention by giving her a clitoral massage. .

All women are capable of having an orgasm from clitoral stimulation. In fact, the sole function of the clitoris is to give a woman pleasure and bring her to orgasm. The purpose of clitoral massage is to make her clitoris the center of attention. It can be done by itself, or as part of a Yoni massage, a G-spot massage, or an erotic massage. Read more

6 Ways to Massage Your Lover's Breasts without Hurting Her

Do you know how to handle your lover’s breasts properly during a sexual massage? Most women find men too rough when it comes to fondling their breasts, and even more so during sexual massage. So what do you do?

A woman has a lot of erogenous zones. But one that is universally known is her breasts. You really can’t give a sexual massage if you don’t give enough attention – and respect – to woman’s lovely pair of breasts.

However, sadly, a lot of men manhandle breasts! Worse, many of you guys think that we love you pinching, grabbing, and even biting them. Ok, maybe we don’t mind as much in the middle of a really, wild romp between the sheets but for the most part, doing that hurts!

So how do you ensure that you don’t cause pain when sexually massaging her breasts? Read on!

How to Give a Tantric Lingam Massage

If you have a couple of hours, a quiet space, and some massage oil, you can give your man a special experience. A Tantric Lingam massage both gives a man immense pleasure and honors his masculine power says Jennifer Lawless at Tantra: Gateway to Ecstasy.

In Tantra, the penis is called the Lingam, which in Sanskrit can be translated as “Wand of Light.” A Lingam massage is a massage of the male genitals using a large variety of strokes and grips. The goals of the Lingam massage are to honor your man’s Lingam and to help him to expand his ability to receive pleasure.

The setting and your attitude are what make a Lingam massage a special experience for your man. Prepare a quiet, preferably dim, space with a bed, a futon mattress, or a blanket and pillows on the floor. The temperature in the room should be a little warmer than normal because you will both be nude. Lighting candles or an oil lamp in the room will keep the lighting subdued and also help generate heat. Your oills and lubricants should be within easy reach. Try to get spill-proof bottles and use plastic rather than glass. Make sure that you have a couple of hours where you won’t be disturbed. Read more

Prostate Massage for the Ultimate Male Orgasm

happy coupleUsually, we consider the penis to be the only male sex organ, but the prostate is a man’s other sexual organ. The prostate is a gland of the male reproductive system located underneath the bladder and just in front of the rectum. Widely considered to be the male equivalent of the female G-spot, there is a lot of pleasure to be had from the prostate. When performed correctly, a prostate massage can give a man a much more intense orgasm than he has ever experienced before. Continue reading

Healing Your Woman with Tantric Yoni Massage

Even if your woman doesn’t need “healing,” a Yoni massage is still a good way to spend an evening giving her pleasure and learning what she likes and doesn’t like.

Yoni (YO-NEE) is the Sanskrit word for the vagina. In Tantra, the vagina is a sacred part of the female body, which must be treated with care and respect. The Yoni massage is a sensuous form of intimacy that builds trust between partners and brings them closer together emotionally and spiritually.

Although the Yoni massage can be extremely stimulating, the purpose is not to bring the woman to orgasm. Rather, it is to relax both the giver and the receiver and to bring emotions to the surface. The experiences and feelings that a woman may have during the Yoni massage can be very different, ranging from anger, lust, sadness, or even indifference. Everything is possible and everything is allowed. The Yoni massage is not about focusing on a special kind of feeling or fulfilling a particular expectation. The idea is simply to observe and to experience. As you learn to master the Yoni massage, your sex life will be greatly enriched, and you will learn a great deal about feminine sexuality. Read more

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