These four sensual massages can banish stress and boost your sex life.
On the list of life’s greatest pleasures, massages rank up there with wine and chocolate. But a good rubdown does more than just ease achy muscles. Depending on the technique, it can melt away stress, get you in the mood for sex, or function as an especially erotic kind of foreplay. “Massage is the ultimate bonding experience,” says certified massage therapist Lisa Skye Carle. “Pampering each other feels nurturing and intimate, and you’re bound to discover loads of new and unexpected erogenous zones along the way—it’s the ultimate primer for sex.” Whether you want to wind down or get all wound up, there’s a massage here to meet your needs. Read more
Though most men, and even many women, are fascinated by breasts, they actually can be an incredibly neglected and forgotten area in the realm of Tantric pleasure and touch. Breast massage is a fantastic way to nurture and pleasure your lover. Jennifer Lawless of Tantra: Gateway to Ecstasy explains how to give a Tantric breast massage to the woman in your life.
A Tantric breast massage is a ritual that allows a woman to receive sensual energy and unconditional love from her partner. The breast massage is a special type of Tantric massage that focuses on the woman’s breasts. Not only does massaging the breasts make them firmer, it also makes them healthier and aids in maintaining the balance of hormones in a woman�’s body. Breast massage is also a great way for a man to give pleasure, healing, and intimacy to his partner. The breasts are the seat of a woman’s sexuality and need to be loved and honored before any other part of her body will open up to you.
Breast massage can be tricky because breast tissues are quite delicate. However, if done properly and with exerting only moderate pressure, massaging the breasts is perfectly safe. The procedure is also quite simple. Read more
Valentine’s Day is fast approaching. Sexpert Sarah Gibson says sensual massage can be an intimate and cost-effective way to make your Valentine very happy.
Not got a huge budget for Valentines this year? But still want to show your partner that you care? A romantic, sensual massage is a gift that any girl will appreciate this February 14th. And the only expense is massage oil – if you don’t already have it. Simply follow the hot tips below and you’re in for an even hotter night. Read more
Women like massages, and we like orgasms, so why shouldn’t the two sometimes come “hand in hand?” Writer Melissa Lafsky recounts her search of the female “happy ending” massage at Tango.
Chances are you’ve heard the story: an unmarked door leads to a dimly-lit massage parlor where women with strong hands and tolerant smiles await a train of libidinous male patrons. The “happy ending” tale is all too common, a mixture of truth and urban legend that captivates male imaginations even in an age of casual sex and unlimited Internet porn.
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Luckily, any “rules” restricting female sexuality are dying as fast as Sex and the City repeats can slay them, and it was only a matter of time before women embraced the notion that “quick releases” aren’t just for men. And with competition among spas getting ever more intense, customers are starting to demand more than just Enya and free herbal tea with their Shiatsu, according to massage therapists. Read more
Clitoral massage is an excellent skill to have in your repertoire when making love to a woman. If you really want to impress your female partner, Jennifer Lawless at Tantra: Gateway to Ecstasy tells you how to make her clitoris the center of attention by giving her a clitoral massage. .
All women are capable of having an orgasm from clitoral stimulation. In fact, the sole function of the clitoris is to give a woman pleasure and bring her to orgasm. The purpose of clitoral massage is to make her clitoris the center of attention. It can be done by itself, or as part of a Yoni massage, a G-spot massage, or an erotic massage. Read more
Do you know how to handle your lover’s breasts properly during a sexual massage? Most women find men too rough when it comes to fondling their breasts, and even more so during sexual massage. So what do you do?
A woman has a lot of erogenous zones. But one that is universally known is her breasts. You really can’t give a sexual massage if you don’t give enough attention – and respect – to woman’s lovely pair of breasts.
However, sadly, a lot of men manhandle breasts! Worse, many of you guys think that we love you pinching, grabbing, and even biting them. Ok, maybe we don’t mind as much in the middle of a really, wild romp between the sheets but for the most part, doing that hurts!
So how do you ensure that you don’t cause pain when sexually massaging her breasts? Read on!
Louise-Andree Saulnier, author of Erotic Passions, talks about the importance of the hands in sex: “Show me how you touch, and I will tell you what kind of lover you are. In sex, what you cannot do is, unfortunately, more obvious than what you can do. Your hands do not lie. They transmit important information about what kind of lover you are.”
If you have a couple of hours, a quiet space, and some massage oil, you can give your man a special experience. A Tantric Lingam massage both gives a man immense pleasure and honors his masculine power says Jennifer Lawless at Tantra: Gateway to Ecstasy.
In Tantra, the penis is called the Lingam, which in Sanskrit can be translated as “Wand of Light.” A Lingam massage is a massage of the male genitals using a large variety of strokes and grips. The goals of the Lingam massage are to honor your man’s Lingam and to help him to expand his ability to receive pleasure.
The setting and your attitude are what make a Lingam massage a special experience for your man. Prepare a quiet, preferably dim, space with a bed, a futon mattress, or a blanket and pillows on the floor. The temperature in the room should be a little warmer than normal because you will both be nude. Lighting candles or an oil lamp in the room will keep the lighting subdued and also help generate heat. Your oills and lubricants should be within easy reach. Try to get spill-proof bottles and use plastic rather than glass. Make sure that you have a couple of hours where you won’t be disturbed. Read more
Usually, we consider the penis to be the only male sex organ, but the prostate is a man’s other sexual organ. The prostate is a gland of the male reproductive system located underneath the bladder and just in front of the rectum. Widely considered to be the male equivalent of the female G-spot, there is a lot of pleasure to be had from the prostate. When performed correctly, a prostate massage can give a man a much more intense orgasm than he has ever experienced before. (more…)
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Usually, we consider the penis to be the only male sex organ, but the prostate is a man’s other sexual organ. The prostate is a gland of the male reproductive system located underneath the bladder and just in front of the rectum. Widely considered to be the male equivalent of the female G-spot, there is a lot of pleasure to be had from the prostate. When performed correctly, a prostate massage can give a man a much more intense orgasm than he has ever experienced before. 
I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. My sexual history and preferences are detailed in my post 