About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Erotic Massage

How to Give a Woman a Butt Massage

Whether as part of a whole-body erotic massage or just by itself, massaging the butt can be very relaxing and arousing for a woman.

Your lover’s butt is one of the sexiest parts of her body, not only to look at, but also to touch. The gluteus maximus, the main muscle that gives each buttock its round shape, is one of the largest muscles of the body, which means that it loves being massaged. You can incorporate butt massage into a full-body erotic massage, use it as preparation for anal play, or just make it a treat by itself. Read more

Tips for Giving a Great Breast Massage

Tantric sex educator shares tips for giving a great breast massage.

8 Easy Tips for a Slippery and Sexy Nuru Massage

If you have heard about Nuru massage and are curious, these eight easy tips will help you to give one.

Curious about Nuru massage? You are not alone! Nuru massage is one of the fastest-growing erotic massage trends.

As sex experts who focus on couples massage, we’ve been getting a ton of questions about Nuru massages. So, we put together this guide on how to enjoy it at home! Read more

6 Herbs for Mind-Blowing Orgasms

Looking to improve your sex life? Take these six  natural herbs to spice things up.

There are many things that can intensify your orgasm, including foreplay.

But did you know that having a simple cup of tea can make you have a more intense, fulfilling orgasm? Read more

How to Give a Woman a Sensual Erotic Massage

An erotic massage can be a fun time by itself or lead to something more. Find out how to give your woman a sensual erotic massage.

Everyone loves getting a massage. It relaxes the body, stimulates circulation, and feels great. The only thing that tops a massage is a sensual erotic massage. It’s a great way for you and your lover to have a sexy time together and make her feel good. You don’t need to be a massage therapist, either, to give a sexual erotic massage. Just follow the steps below. Read more

How to Give a Woman a Sensual Breast Massage

Give your partner’s breasts the attention they deserve.

A sensual breast massage is a wonderful way to nurture and pleasure your lover. This breast massage awakens sensation and makes the breasts and nipples more sensitive to sexual stimulation and pleasure. Some women who have never enjoyed breast play in the past discover new pleasure through breast massage, and begin enjoying their breasts more fully as an erogenous zone. Read more

How to Give Your Man a Tantric Testicle Massage

The testicles are often neglected as an erogenous zone. Jennifer Lawless reveals how to correct that omission..

Testicles are one of the most sensitive parts of a man’s body. Knowing this, many women are afraid to massage their men’s testicle for ear hurting them. The irony is it’s this sensitivity that makes men feel pleasure when their testicles are stroked or massaged. The testicles on a man are one of the most erogenous spots if touched and stimulated correctly. The truth is that testicle massage can be a sensual experience for a man if a lover is doing it. It can be done by itself, or as part of an erotic massage, a lingam massage, or a male G-spot massage. Read more

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