About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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9 Things You Need to Know About Anal Sex

If you are interested in trying anal sex, sex experts share nine things you need to know beforehand.

Anal sex may seem taboo, but behind closed doors, plenty of women have tried it: According to a survey published in a 2015 issue of the Journal of Sexual Medicine, more than 1 in 3 women ages 19 to 44 has tried it at least once. That said, it’s probably not a regular Saturday night thing. But one thing’s clear: Whether you’re curious or a connoisseur, anal sex has become mainstream enough that it’s worth taking time to discuss what to know, what to avoid, and the how-to’s needed to make the experience amazing. Here, sex experts share what you need to know if you’re interested in trying it out. Read more

5 Reasons Men Want to Try Anal Sex

If you’re a woman who doesn’t understand why your boyfriend or husband wants to put his penis into your butt instead of your vagina,  Frank Kobola reveals five reasons that men want to try anal sex.

If I had a nickel for the number of times someone has approached me on the street, grabbed me by the shoulders, and shouted, “FRANK! WHY ARE STRAIGHT MEN SO FIXATED ON ANAL SEX!?!” I wouldn’t have any nickels. Primarily because people don’t ever recognize me on the street, and also because that’s a strange question to lead with. But the point still stands that there’s a male obsession with the butt hole that women, especially women who aren’t into anal stimulation, don’t understand. Here’s why guys are so into it. Read more

 

6 Easy Steps to Maximize Your Backdoor Pleasure

Emily Morse used to keep her backdoor closed, but she has since found that anal sex can be enjoyable if you follow six easy steps.

I used to be one of those “backdoor closed” ladies, shooting suspicious eyes at any friend who claimed to like anal sex. Who was she trying to fool? I had my own fears and worries that prevented me from trying it. It took several years, plus a couple positive backdoor experiences, to show me that anal sex really can be enjoyable.

There is a key to maximizing the pleasure, though. Here are six things to do that will help up the feel-good factor for you: Read more

15 Thoughts Men Have During Anal Sex

So, is this really what men think about anal sex?

Ever wonder what goes through his head (no, not that one) when he’s reaching for the backdoor?  Well, we talked to some guys and found out their thought processes!  Let’s take a look below. Read more

Which Women Are Most Likely to Have Anal Sex?

Finding a woman willing to try anal sex is not totally a roll of the dice, according to a study. There are indicators.

There are plenty of misconceptions out there about anal sex, but the biggest one might be that nobody’s having it: According to the results of a new study, at least one in three straight women in the U.S. has tried anal at some point in her life. Read more

8 Women Describe What Anal Sex Feels Like

Eight women who have had anal sex describe what it was actually like for them.

For some women out there, anal action is the cherry on top of the sex version of an ice cream sundae: a little extra delight that completes something that was already delicious on its own. But for others, it’s more like pâté: intriguing enough, worth a try, but absolutely not up their alleys (as in, a penis will probably not be going up that alley ever again). We got women who fall on various parts of the anal sex spectrum to share exactly what it feels like during the act. Read on for their informative—and sometimes hilarious—opinions. Read more

How to Give a Woman an Anal Orgasm

Anal sexAnal sex can be extremely pleasurable, not only for men, but also for women. Generally, for women, the pleasure received from anal intercourse is due to the shared nerve endings located between the rectal wall and the vagina, and/or from indirect stimulation of the G-spot and Deep Spot. The anus also contains many nerves that can react in a pleasurable manner when excited. An anal orgasm is an orgasm produced by anal stimulation. All women are able to achieve it, but only a lucky few have actually experienced one. Those who have often describe an anal orgasm as stronger than other types. Continue reading

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