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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Anal Sex

5 Best Anal Sex Positions for People Who Love Sex From Behind

If you love sex from behind, Sean Jameson says these five positions are the best.

Having sex in multiple positions and even oral sex are not as much of a taboo topic as having sex from behind sex, better known as anal sex. Somehow, people continue to be shy (scared?) when it comes to having sex from behind.

However, sex from behind can actually be a lot of fun — for both women and men. Plus, anal sex can save your sex life from boredom. Opening your mind to it can be one of the greatest moves you make in the bedroom. Trust me, you may be pleasantly surprised at just how much you enjoy taking him from behind. Read more

Everything You Need to Know About Anal Foreplay

Gigi Engle shares everything you need to know about anal foreplay.

When it comes to anything butt-related, we tend to get a little bit peevish on the by and large. Sure, 2014 was proclaimed “The Year of The Booty,” but some of us are more into anal in theory rather than in practice.

There are a few pervasive reasons why this might be: No one wants to be in pain from putting something up their butts, women are widely (and incorrectly) told they won’t enjoy anal penetration, and—of course—the poop thing. Read more

25 Super-Honest Anal Sex Tips

If you’re thinking about trying anal (or tried it and didn’t like it), here are twenty-five super-honest anal sex tips from someone who loves it.

While anal sex is definitely more out there than it used to be, it still isn’t exactly mainstream yet. Despite the fact that we’ve been experiencing a sexual revolution of sorts over the past couple of decades and feel more comfortable discussing acts that were previously taboo, the term “anal sex” is often still met with a cringe. Yup, war stories heard from friends have led many people to declare that hole an “exit only” zone. Read more

8 Anal Fingering Techniques to Make Your Partner Orgasm

Anal play can be quite orgasmic for women if you use these eight anal fingering techniques.

Anal fingering is a great way for you to give your lover pleasurable anal orgasms. The reason why you can give her orgasms through anal fingering is due to the fact that her vagina and her anus canal are only separated by a thin membrane. This allows your lover to feel the your fingers stimulate indirectly her G-spot and maybe even the back of her deep spot. Read more

4 Great Anal Sex Positions

Tracey Cox describes four anal sex positions you may not have tried.

Anal sex positions can be a lot more imaginative than doing it doggy style. If you’re up for some anal action, try any (or all) of these.

If you’re never tried anal sex before, do both of you a favour and read the Anal Sex Prep Guide first but if you’re an old hand, all you need is lots of (good quality) anal lube, a wicked glint in your eye and maybe the odd piece of furniture! Read more

11 Anal Foreplay Tips for Beginners

If you’re not ready for full-on anal sex, here are some warm-up exercises from Kathryn Lindsay and Anna Breslaw.

I am about to say something unpleasant but important: The first time you have a finger in your ass, it feels like you have a finger in your ass. What did you think it would feel like?

Actually, the first five, 10, possibly 20 times, it feels like you have a finger in your ass. But at a certain point, if everything goes right, it’ll feel like you have a finger in your ass accompanied by a spontaneous enhanced ~~**~~uNiCoRn oRgAsM~~**~~. It’s hard to know, because everybody’s different, and that includes each butthole-fingerer’s individual skill. “So many women have bad first-time experiences and never want to do it again. Some guy shoved it in without preparing for the action,” explains sexpert Dr. Emily Morse. Read more

10 Surprising Benefits of Anal Sex You Had No Idea About

If you’re unsure about trying anal sex, learning about these ten surprising benefits may help you make up your mind

Anal sex isn’t for everyone. Not surprisingly, there are many more men interested in this sexual act than there are women–for a lot of reasons. But I think the biggest reason women tend to avoid it is because they might not know about all of the surprising benefits.

I know “beneficial” isn’t the first word that pops into your mind when thinking about getting it on via the backdoor. However, there are a lot of misconceptions about anal sex that mark it as kind of taboo, dirty, and something only “sluts” do. Read more

Recent Comments

  • Flinkd: Bigger penis is stretching the walls of the vagina better. (nerve endings feel more pressure, therefore...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Depends on the woman.
  • Fox2: Would that be most probably wouldn’t feel it? I have seen you say elsewhere that less than 5″ means...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Some may, but most probably won’t. For some women in long-term relationships, penetration is...
  • Fox2: Not sure if commenting is working at the moment. Thanks but even though these positions will help maximise my...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: These positions help maximize what you have, whatever that is.
  • Fox: Would these positions help with a penis 4-4.5inches long and around 4inches around? Or do you need to be packing...
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  • Svetlana Ivanova: If a woman doesn’t want to please the man she’s with, she’s with the wrong man.
  • Jane Doe: This article not only implies that all men want submissive partners, it tells women to take on a persona....