Can Women Learn to Climax from Penetration Alone?
A Kinkly reader asks sexpert Ducky Doplittle a question:
I’d really like to orgasm with my partner, but I can only come when he gives me oral sex or uses his hands. Is there any way to orgasm during sex?
Ducky Doolittle replies:
Most women don’t orgasm from penetration alone. You may be able to learn to orgasm purely from penetration. If not, you will at the very least learn how to have bigger orgasms in general. But let me be very clear about this: Your body is perfect. There is no wrong way to orgasm. The way you orgasm right now is awesome. Just because you don’t orgasm from penetration does not mean penetration does not feel good. It is physical, bonding, playful and hopefully makes you breathe heavy and gets your heart pumping. So it doesn’t take you over the edge. It’s OK to let your lover know this.
And now I’ll give you some very solid advice on how to achieve bigger, more badass orgasms, with or without penetration. Read more