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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.
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Can a Woman Pegging a Man Not Be Dominant?

Pegging is a sexual practice in which a woman penetrates a man’s anus with a strap-on dildo. Can a woman pegging a man not be dominant?  Vickie P. thinks so and describes the kind of pegging she prefers:

I wrote recently on the Tribe.net group Pegging is for Everyone that I prefer “loving, egalitarian pegging without the femdom stuff.” How, some of my friends on the group asked, could a woman pegging a man not be dominant? Allow me to explain.

First, let me tell you about the kind of pegging I like. I like the unusual — and powerful — feeling of having a penis between my legs. It may be artificial, but it’s always big and hard — unlike real ones. I like to be the one doing the penetrating instead of always being the one penetrated, the role reversal. Sarah at MyVag.net said it nicely: Read more

6 Responses to Can a Woman Pegging a Man Not Be Dominant?

  • Vickie P. says:

    Thanks for the link, Svetlana!

  • NewRyder says:

    Hi Svetlana,
    Great reading, thanks so much for being gentle voice.
    I guess my question (or comment) is this; does having a cock make you all powerful? Is every act of a man penetrating a woman an act of dominance and payback?
    To answer my own question. No. Men and women can make love gently or brutally and every shade and variation in between and beyond.
    So a woman wearing a rig can be a gentle lover.
    Strapon sex is just sex.
    It is role and gender reversal. Porn is dominated by images of domination. But I bet the beds are filled with gentle lovers.

    Oh. And by the way. Vicki P has the right idea.

    Thanks Svetlana
    -ryder

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    You’re welcome, Vickie. I agree with you completely, which is why I posted it.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    I agree with Vickie P, too.

  • Adonis says:

    I agree with Vicki as well. Thanks again for posting this Svetlana.

  • AG says:

    My wife suggested pegging a few years ago and she asked me to get a harness. She has always been very excited by anything anal and we regularly have anal sex with me penetrating her. I was hesitant to try pegging but once I did I found it incredibly erotic and sexual. Unfortunately once we got into it my wife didn’t feel comfortable. She doesn’t like being the dominant one and seeing me on the receiving end. We still do it once in a while but I am looking for positions that allow her to penetrate me with out completely switching the traditional male female roles. It may sound surprising but while I like the dildo inside of me I also like all of the contact between her body and mine.

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