Can a Woman Feel When a Man Ejaculates Inside Her?

couple-in-bedCan a woman feel when a man ejaculates inside her? Curious men want to know, or at least several men I’ve known have been curious. I always said I could when they asked because I was pretty sure that’s what they wanted to hear. However, a more honest response would have been to say that it depends on what you mean by feel.

What I can always feel  when a man gets close is his penis swelling and hardening and then twitching and pulsating as he ejaculates.  What I usually don’t feel is the semen shooting into me. (Of course, when he’s wearing a condom, I definitely don’t feel the semen – at least I hope I don’t – though I still feel the other signs of ejaculation.)

From what I’ve heard, many women never feel the semen shooting into them. At most, they feel an increase in warmth and wetness.  (It’s tough to feel because it’s already pretty wet down there anyway.) A few women say they feel it all the time. Others, like myself, sometimes feel the actual ejaculate, but not most of the time.

When I do feel it, the semen isn’t hitting the vaginal walls, but the cervix. One woman told me she can feel the man ejaculating if he’s really big, but I haven’t noticed that to be the case for myself. In my opinion, it’s the amount that comes out and how much force is behind it that either causes me to feel or not to feel it.

By the way,  when I do feel it, it’s a delicious sensation. Too bad it doesn’t last a little longer! For me, though, it’s not something that I can count on happening, but it’s a pleasant surprise when it does.

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33 Responses to “Can a Woman Feel When a Man Ejaculates Inside Her?”

  1. Jennifer Lawless Says:

    Hi Svetlana,
    Add me to the “sometimes” category, too. It makes sense to me that the force and volume of his ejaculation causes a woman to feel or not to feel it. I also think, though, that size could be a factor. The tighter fit may force his ejaculation straight to the back of the vagina.

    Another thing that probably makes a difference is whether you’re really into it and focusing on the sensations. Thinking about your meeting at work the next morning and wondering when he’s going to finish aren’t conducive to feeling subtle sensations.

  2. Tessa Says:

    I wish I could feel my man ejaculating inside me sometimes. I’ve notice the changes in his body when he’s about to come, but I’ve never felt it when the semen shoots inside of me before.

  3. BSG Says:

    God, it arouses me sooo much when Svetlana talks about her personal sex experiences!!

  4. Svetlana Ivanova Says:

    From what I can tell, you’re in the majority, Tessa. Most women say they never feel the actual spurts of semen. The front third of the vagina has most of the nerve endings, so unless he shoots onto your cervix, you probably won’t feel it.

  5. havingmycake Says:

    Yup, Im with you guys. Sometimes I can feel it hitting my cervix, depending on the ferocity of the ejaculation and the angle of his penetration, sometimes it just gets extra wet and warm down there but mostly what I feel is the twitching of his penis or pelvis or the change in the sounds he makes.

  6. doll Says:

    I don’t think I have ever felt a man ejaculate inside me but I do know that I get an extra special sort of orgasm when semen hits my cervix, it comes on several seconds later and is mind blowing.

  7. Svetlana Ivanova Says:

    Feeling semen hit your cervix is feeling him ejaculate inside you, isn’t it?

  8. Deborah Lazaroff Says:

    It depends upon the size of the man and the type and intesity of his orgasm. I love it when I can feel those rythmic pulses when a man comes inside me. But men don’t always come the same way, with rythmic pulses or throbs. Some men come with just a single large rush of semen that floods you and makes you extra wet. However it happens, it’s always deeply gratifying.

  9. Svetlana Ivanova Says:

    If S. always felt your semen inside her, that’s unusual. For most women, it’s occasionally or not at all.

  10. Jim Says:

    She is more prone to feel it running out of her after you withdraw from her, or the volume of wetness increasing, but not the actual shooting. I shoot for “distance” when I pull out on orgasm, but internally, she does not typically feel the force of the shot

  11. joseph Says:

    Hi am a guy, so i will be short, ladies if you want to feel him cumming you must relax and let him cum, if you try to feel good at the sametime you will not feel the cum. its his moment not yours, try it with your eyes close an you will feel the thick hot wet load shooting in. and also its better if you are in a doggy position

  12. Mike Says:

    Once in a while my wife can feel me spraying her cervix with my seed. I cum pretty hard and strong inside her. Most times she can only feel my cock twitch and pulse inside her before my seed is filling her.

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