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Better Fellatio: 10 Things Your Blow Job Is Missing

Blow JobFor the most part, guys are delighted to receive a blow job, so set aside any fears or insecurities you may have. Giving a blow job isn’t as hard as some people claim.  (See my post How to Give Your First Blow Job: 5 Steps to Suck-cess if you are a beginner.)  Anyone can give a great blow job that will make it hard for your partner to think of much else for days afterward. That said, there’s a lot to think about while you’re doing it, so some small, but important, things may be missing from your blow jobs. Here are ten things you may be forgetting about during fellatio.

1) Put on a show.

Visual stimulation is as important as the sex act itself so put yourself in positions where he can get a good view of the act. If you’re feeling adventurous, do it near a mirror so he can get a total, unhindered view. Let him know by your facial expressions and movements that you love what your doing.

2) Make eye contact.

Don’t be shy. Your eyes are the windows to your soul. Don’t worry about how you look from up there. By looking up at him, you communicate; you see his reactions to your moves, and you can adjust your performance.

3) Use your body.

Girls are often so focused on pleasuring a guy with their mouths that they forget to put their whole bodies, especially their hips, into  the act.

4) Make some noise.

Moaning creates pleasurable vibrations that make your blow job better in more than one way. Moaning a lot communicates an important message: I’m… mmm… enjoying myself. And that is the core of a great blow job. Don’t expect him to enjoy receiving it if you don’t enjoy giving it.

5) Make it wet.

Use lots of saliva. Guys sometimes complain that their partner’s mouth is too dry, but that’s an easy fix. Use your own saliva to keep things really wet. Don’t worry about sloppiness. Now is not the time to worry about being a lady.

6) Use your hands.

If you’re getting really into givng a blow job, you may forget you have hands. But since you do, use them to stroke his shaft as you lick and suck. It will feel good for him, and also allow you to give him the feeling you’re going deeper than you are.

7) Lick the meatus.

The meatus is the incredibly sensitive hole on the tip of his penis, and it’s often ignored. Put medium pressure there with your tongue, and he will go crazy.

8) Grip the ridge.

When was the last time you paid attention to the ridge of his penis, the place where the tip meets the shaft? Covering your teeth with your lips, place them around the ridge and apply some pressure, release and repeat.

9) Play with his testicles.

There is more to his penis tha his penis. All around that area is sensitive, and you have to use all of it to create a “full-package” blow job. There’s so much you can do with his testicles. Tickle, kiss, gently suck, massage, the list goes on. You’ll send him right over the edge if you lick his raphe, the vertical line in the middle of his scrotal sac.

10) Remember the rest of his body.

For example, run your hands over his inner thighs or stroke his butt as your mouth moves on his shaft.

When you’re totally focused on giving head, it can be a lot of fun. Remember, you should only be performing fellatio on somebody if you’re really into it and are able to focus all of your energy on what you’re doing. If you’re staring at the clock, waiting for it to end, or worrying about the laundry in the dryer, you won’t have a good time and your partner will be able to tell you’re not into it, which will take away from his pleasure.

All women know that men LOVE oral sex, but not all women know how to do it properly. Giving good fellatio is NOT just about opening your mouth and bobbing up and down. To find out what every woman needs to know about giving her man oral pleasure, click here!

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