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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Svetlana Ivanova

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships.

5 Tips for Better Clitoral Stimulation

The clitoris is the only organ in the human body designed solely to proviide sexual pleasure. What that means is that even though women have other sensitive erogenous zones, the clitoris with its 8,000 nerve ending is the key to female orgasm. Try these five tips for better clitoral stimulation to bring your partner to a toe-curling climax. Continue reading

How To Turn a One-Night Stand Into a Regular Booty Call

Danielle Page reveals how to turn a one-night stand into a regular booty call.

Booty calls are the lazy man’s one-night stand. And that goes doubly if you’re able to find a girl who’s willing to be your regular go-to. For starters, booty calls are more reliable — and definitely involve less work. They’re also easier on your wallet — assuming you’re being a gentleman and buying your target a drink. Not to mention how time efficient the whole booty call process can be, when done right. Instead of chatting up a girl for hours at the bar only to have her turn down your offer to come back to your place, your booty call is, ideally, ready and able. Read more

8 Sex Hacks for When You and Your Partner Are Way Different Sizes

If you and your partner are way different sizes, Hayley McMillen gives eight different sex hacks you can try.

If you and your boo are significantly different sizes, sex may present some logistical challenges — whether you’re attempting to align the body of a basketball player with that of a jockey or a linebacker’s figure with a ballerina’s. Fortunately, there are ways to deal short of finding another partner. Read on for size-difference tips, with insight from sex therapist Vanessa Marin, who happens to be five feet tall with a six-foot spouse, and sex educator Kelly Shibari, Penthouse’s first self-described plus-size model and collaborator on the instructional film Read more

5 Techniques for Achieving Multiple Orgasms

If one orgasm is good, more is even better. Once you reach orgasm, using one or more of these five techniques may lead to another.

While it’s true that too much of a good can sometimes be bad, that doesn’t go for orgasms. If one is good, having two, three, or four is even better. Multiple orgasms means having more than one c.imax during a single lovemaking session, which could mean within minutes, hours, or the entire evening. All women are capable of having multiple orgasms. If you want to give it a try, using these five techniques one you reach your first orgasm can often lead to having more than one. Read more

The Sex Positions Yo Need to Know If You Want to Have Sex Outdoors

If you want to have sex outdoors, you need to know these sex positions, says Cory Stieg.

Outdoor sex isn’t just for through-hikers on the Appalachian Trail or teenagers trying to find a place to hook up away from their parents — having sex outside can be exhilarating and wild for lots of couples. But, unlike squeezing in a spontaneous quickie, sex in the great outdoors requires a little more planning and caution. Read more

Why You Should Never Chew Gum Before Sex and 5 Other Libido Torpedoes to Avoid

It turns out that chewing gum not only turns off the person watching you do it, but ruins your own libido as well. Science reveals why you should never chew gum before sex and five other libido torpedoes.

Think it’s a good idea to freshen up your breath with some gum before getting it on? Think twice. Science says that chewing gum prior to sex will affect your bedroom life in a negative way. Read more

The Art of the Hand Job

Tantric sex practitioner Shakti Amarantha describes how to give a hand job the Tantric way.

I’m continuing to collect things I wrote in other places that are relevant here. In this case, I was asked to explain what I mean by “giving a great handjob.” (I’m going to describe giving one to a man, but the setup is similar and there’s a link at the end to more detailed instructions for women.)

For starters, I strongly recommend three things: Read more

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