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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Svetlana Ivanova

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships.

Female Ejaculation Is Real: 5 Ways to Help Her Do It

Female ejaculation is real, and several sexperts, including a porn star, give five ways to help a woman do it.

Female ejaculation, a.k.a. squirting, is the highest form of compliment in the bedroom: if you’ve made a woman squirt, you know that you’re doing something right. But even though the art of female ejaculation has been studied for more than 2,000 years, according to Beverly Whipple, PhD, a certified sex therapist and a professor at Rutgers University, most researchers are still mystified by it. Read more

5 Best Sex Positions for After You Have Had a Baby

Sex positions might be among the things you need to change after having a baby.

They say everything changes when you have a baby—and that definitely includes your sex life. “What worked for you before having a baby might be very different after giving birth,” says Mary Jane Minkin, M.D., a clinical professor of obstetrics, gynecology and reproductive sciences at the Yale University School of Medicine. Why? Your anatomy has changed. Read more

12 Days of Sexmas: Advanced Sex Tips

Women offer some advanced sex tips to make Christmas even merrier.

Christmas means a lot of things. It means you’ll probably get to see someone from the office throw up in the toilets before/during/after the office party, your uncle will definitely tell you something you don’t want to know about your mum and you will certainly be the recipient of an ill-advised Secret Santa gift that you’ve got to pretend is “just brilliant”. What it doesn’t have to mean? Average sex.

If you’re lucky, you’ll be getting a chunk of time off work and be at home with your significant other for a longer stretch than at any other time of the year. But what are you to do when good old standard missionary loses its merriment? While lists of sex tricks are ten a penny on the old gossip wall that is the internet and anyone that’s ever got it on can cobble together a must-do-between-the-sheets list, we dug deeper for you this year. Read more

Everything You Need to Know About Anal Foreplay

Gigi Engle shares everything you need to know about anal foreplay.

When it comes to anything butt-related, we tend to get a little bit peevish on the by and large. Sure, 2014 was proclaimed “The Year of The Booty,” but some of us are more into anal in theory rather than in practice.

There are a few pervasive reasons why this might be: No one wants to be in pain from putting something up their butts, women are widely (and incorrectly) told they won’t enjoy anal penetration, and—of course—the poop thing. Read more

From Red Room to Real World: BDSM in Your Boudoir

Lex Butler reveals how a typical couples incorporate a dash of BDSM into their sex lives.

50 Shades of Grey gave BDSM mainstream life. While this kinky topic is more prevalent in casual conversation, the actual practice is stillconsidered taboo in many circles. As intimidating as it may seem, BDSM is nothing more than a different avenue for sexual pleasure. Many of us find certain aspects of BDSM exciting, but have no desire to commit to the accompanying lifestyle. Fortunately, a happy medium exists. Many Red Room behaviors can easily be incorporated into your sex life. I’ll show you how…

The basics of BDSM Read more

Fake Celebrity Porn Videos Are Being Created Using Artificial Intelligence

Does it matter to you if the celebrity in a porn video didn’t really do the scene?

Fake, but realistic celebrity porn videos showing popular actresses such as Emma Watson and Gal Gadot in explicit scenarios are being created using artificial intelligence.

As reported by Motherboard, “There’s a video of Gal Gadot having sex with her stepbrother on the internet. But it’s not really Gadot’s body, and it’s barely her own face. It’s an approximation, face-swapped to look like she’s performing in an existing incest-themed porn video.” Read more

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5 Fingering Techniques You Should Try

Believe it or not, women enjoy fingering about as much as they enjoy oral sex and penis-in-vagina penetration. Take advantage of that with these five fun and pleasurable techniques.

Porn portrays lesbian sex as mostly dildos and scissoring, but fingering is actually the most popular lesbian sexual practice, according to at least one sex survey. Since most lesbians enjoy fingering, it’s important to know how to make it fun and pleasurable. The following are five fingering techniques that every lesbian should know. Read more

Recent Comments

  • Svetlana Ivanova: Depends on the woman.
  • Fox2: Would that be most probably wouldn’t feel it? I have seen you say elsewhere that less than 5″ means...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Some may, but most probably won’t. For some women in long-term relationships, penetration is...
  • Fox2: Not sure if commenting is working at the moment. Thanks but even though these positions will help maximise my...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: These positions help maximize what you have, whatever that is.
  • Fox: Would these positions help with a penis 4-4.5inches long and around 4inches around? Or do you need to be packing...
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  • Svetlana Ivanova: If a woman doesn’t want to please the man she’s with, she’s with the wrong man.
  • Jane Doe: This article not only implies that all men want submissive partners, it tells women to take on a persona....
  • Svetlana Ivanova: It isn’t misogynistic at all. It’s realistic and sex-positive.