About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Svetlana Ivanova

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships.

10 Foreplay Moves Every Man Should Try

Every man should try these ten foreplay moves to warm up his partner for sex.

Men and women, generally speaking, have very different attitudes towards foreplay. For some men, the very act of putting down their cans of beer and unzipping their flies constitutes as foreplay. But women don’t tend to respond so readily, and they need some warming up first. Read more

What’s Wrong With Doing the Jackhammer?

Sexp” ert Emily Morse explains why “doing the jackhammer” is boring to women.

5 Good Girl Turned Bad Girl Sex Tricks

Discover the hidden vixen waiting to come out and play with these five sex tricks every bad girl uses!

Have you ever secretly wished you were a bad girl in disguise? Most guy’s secret fantasy is knowing that while their woman is respectable, they can also get down and dirty in the bedroom. Not sure how to release the vixen within? It’s not as difficult as you may think! You don’t need tons of sexual experience, leather get-ups (although they don’t hurt!) or a demanding attitude. What you do need is a willingness to explore being more confident in your sexual life. To help you out, we’ve compiled the best Bad Girl Tricks that will turn you into a bedroom vixen almost overnight. Your partner won’t know what hit him, but he sure won’t be complaining! Read more

3 Sex Tricks That Drive Women Wild

You’ve probably heard the admonition that “every woman is different” when it comes to sex techniques. While that is certainly true, some things do work with most women when they’re done correctly. These three sex tricks are good examples.  They work with just about any woman to drive her wild with passion and give her toe-curling orgasms. Continue reading

What to Do if You’ve Run Out of Ideas for What to Do in Bed

The longer you’ve been together, the more likely this is to happen: what do you do when you’ve run out of ideas for what to do in bed? Sexpert Tracey Cox has some thoughts.

Lots of couples think the ‘new’ thing has to be something crazy kinky to work. It doesn’t.

The trick is to try one or two small things and build from there.

Here’s some ideas to get you started: Read more

5 Tips for Men to Give Her the Best Sex She’s Ever Had (From a Woman’s Perspective)

A woman gives men five tips for giving their partner the best sex she’s ever had.

Listen up guys: most lesbians love men. Sure, we might not fall in love with men, but we tend to love guys as friends and peers.

Some of us gay gals love playing sports with guys. Some queer women love geeking out on video games and technology with our nerdy brothers. Just like the affinity between straight women and gay men, there can be a lot of camaraderie between lesbians and straight men. We have so much in common, after all, including a passionate love for women and the desire to sexually satisfy our female lovers. Read more

You Know About the G-Spot, but What About the A-Spot?

We know all about the G-spot, but here’s why you need to find your A-spot tonight.

You probably know about or at least have heard of the female G-spot, a zone responsible for mind-blowing orgasms when hit. But if you’ve never heard of the A-spot — a lesser known (and therefore highly underrated) area that’s just as pleasure-inducing — you’re in for quite the treat tonight. To get the lowdown on this foreign territory, I spoke with clinical sexologist and founder of b-Vibe anal sex products Alicia Sinclair, who provided us with everything you need to know, from where to find it to how it can change the way you orgasm. By the time you finish reading, you’ll want to rush straight to the bedroom yourself. Read more

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