About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Svetlana Ivanova

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships.

5 Hand Techniques That Enhance Cunnilingus

Cunnilingus is hot all by itself. Almost every woman enjoys the feeling of a warm, wet mouth in her most sensitive spots.  Besides stimulating your partner with your tongue during cunnilingus, there are also hand techniques that you can use to spice things up. Also, by using your hands and fingers, you can give your mouth and tongue a break without stopping the stimulation altogether. Here five hand techniques to enhance cunnilingus. Continue reading

8 Next-Level Oral Sex Tips

Cory Stieg shares eight next-level oral sex tips that people actually use.

The only thing more satisfying than being on the receiving end of great oral sex is knowing that you did a great job performing it on your partner. To give is to receive, if you will. Every sexual partner has different taste — literally and figuratively — and when you figure out exactly what your partner likes, it can be intensely gratifying.

Having a few go-to tips in your back pocket will make oral sex speed along for those times when you feel like you’ve been under water for hours. No shade, but giving oral sex is work, and it doesn’t make you any less altruistic if you wish it would go by quicker sometimes. Read more

5 Sex Positions for Plus-Size Women

Sarah Rae Vargas describes five sex positions for plus-size women.

4 Tricks to Make Her Orgasm

Using these four tricks will a woman achieve orgasm every time, says Rebecca Rosenblat.

She’s arching her back, moaning and groaning in the throes of pleasure. You’re feeling great about yourself and loving how it’s going, but you’re not alone if these moments are sometimes accompanied by a nagging worry: What if I can’t get it right a second time? What if this is all just luck? Read more

10 Fellatio Tips to Drive Your Man Mad With Lust

No matter how much a woman enjoys performing fellatio on her partner, the main reason she does it is to give him sexual pleasure. Men certainly appreciate receiving the basic blow job, but there’s so much more you can do to spice it up for your partner. If you haven’t tried anything new with your blow jobs lately, these ten tips are sure to give you some good ideas. Continue reading

Supersize Your Orgasms

Follow this step-by- step guide to deliver a supersized orgasm – one for him, one for her!

Give him the best orgasm he’s ever had
Yes, we all know the joke says simply handing him a beer and taking off your clothes will do the trick.

But we’re after a super-sized orgasm here, so start with the beer and nakedness and add a whispered promise that he doesn’t have to do anything: just take.

He’s in heaven already. Read more

6 Sex Positions to Try When You Just HAVE to Spice Up Your Routine

When you just have to spice up your sex life, try these six creative sex positions.

If you automatically roll your eyes when you see yet another headline with the words sex positions, rest assured that there are still at least a few you definitely haven’t heard of—and that won’t make you feel like you have to be part human, part pretzel to pull them off. If you wanted to, you could truly try a new, totally doable position every day without running out of options.

So if you’re itching for some new and creative sex positions but you feel like you’ve already tried everything in the book, here are some moves even the most voracious readers of sex tips probably haven’t heard of: Read more

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