About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Svetlana Ivanova

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships.

Adventurous Sex Positions That Are Actually Super-Easy to Pull Off

Spicing up your se x life is easy with these adventurous sex positions that are actually do-able.

Everywhere you look, there’s some new sex position being touted as a “must-try” move.

The problem is, the majority of those amazing, yoga-esque, Cirque Du Soleil sex positions are basically impossible to do unless you’re a gold-medal gymnast or an actual pole professional. It’s easy to fall into a routine when the alternative is a potentially mortifying trip to the ER. Read more

10 Food for Harder Erections

Diet can play a role in sexual health. These ten foods can help men have harder erections.

Sex In The Middle Ages: 10 Titillating Facts You Wanted To Know But Were Afraid to Ask

The point of articles like this, of course, is to make ourselves feel superior by laughing at how ignorant or weird our ancestors were. Nevertheless, they can still be interesting from a historical standpoint. Some men may wish that fact number five was still in fashion.

Without the Christian church of the Middle Ages, Sigmund Freud of the 19th century would have been out of work. Many of the deepest ideas and notions of sex that we hold today were formulated and laid down in the Middle Ages, especially by the Church’s sometimes confused and other times severe pronouncements.

The Church had opinions and laws about every aspect of sex. Adultery and fornication in some cases were sins punishable by death, but for a time the Church actually condoned prostitution, admitting that it was a necessary evil. And in the early part of the Middle Ages, priests were actually allowed to marry and have children. Read more

A Prostitute Shares 10 Secrets on How to Have a Satisfying Threesome

A prostitute shares her ten secrets on how to have a satisfying threesome.

I’m a professional prostitute. Personally, I’ve had at least 15 to 20 threesomes with different couples as well as my own boyfriends, plus one drunken gang-bang.

In short, I’m quite experienced with the more popular version of threesomes (two girls, one guy), which gives me ample expertise on sharing with you, the reader, the 10 major rules you MUST abide by if you’re going to have a successful threesome: Read more

4 Cunnilingus Warm-Up Moves

Starting cunnilingus with direct clitoral stimulation is usually a bad move. Instead, warm you partner up with these sexy moves.

The most often repeated sex advice is that “every woman is different.” One thing that is true of every woman, however, is that she needs time to get turned on. Even though your lover is undoubtedly already turned on before you go down on her, these four oral sex warm-up moves will help to take her to the next level. Read more

Teabagging: What It Is and How to Do It

The term teabagging has nothing to do with making tea. Teabagging is the act of a man placing his scrotum into the mouth of a woman, usually while standing or kneeling over her. It gets its name from its similarity to the dunking motion of a tea bag when making tea. Since the testicles are an extremely sensitive erogenous zone, dipping them into a woman’s mouth can be quite pleasurable Although teabagging is often seen as an act of domination by a man or submission by a woman, when a woman takes a man’s most sensitive body part in her mouth, the question arises as to who really has the upper hand. Continue reading

10 Foreplay Moves Every Man Should Try

Every man should try these ten foreplay moves to warm up his partner for sex.

Men and women, generally speaking, have very different attitudes towards foreplay. For some men, the very act of putting down their cans of beer and unzipping their flies constitutes as foreplay. But women don’t tend to respond so readily, and they need some warming up first. Read more

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