About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Svetlana Ivanova

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships.

The Most Popular Sex Positions in 9 Different Countries

Find out how  sex position preferences vary in different countries around the world

DrEd, a U.K.-based doctor-service site, asked 2,000 people in the U.S. and the U.K. about their favorite sex positions, and—for better or worse—it appears most of us aren’t terribly eager to reinvent the wheel. Doggy style was the most popular, favored by 35.1 percent of respondents, followed by missionary (22.5 percent) and cowgirl (19.4 percent). After those three, the numbers took a pretty big dip: “holding legs up” and “69” each got 4.3 percent of the vote, “spooning” sex got 4.1 percent, and 3.9 percent of people say they favor “reverse cowgirl.” Read more

5 Sex Positions That Hit Her G-Spot

If you want to give your partner a G-spot orgasm, try these five sex positions, says Mikayla.

Who doesn’t want to have the best sex ever? And what woman doesn’t want to have a glorious G-Spot orgasm? Well, I think it is safe to say that all women would love to have this type of orgasm and those who have already had one would like to have more! However, the G-Spot orgasm is not always easy to achieve. Sure, there are those rare women who can just think G-Spot and have an orgasm – but they are the rare birds of our sex. The G-Spot, on average, is a hard thing to stimulate during intercourse. Why? Well, it is on the top side of the vagina, about 2-3 inches in. It is not always enlarged enough to be stimulated. A penis is usually flexible and not as hard as needed for proper stim (no offense guys!) Also, it takes a long time to get to the point where you can have an orgasm from G-Spot stim. So, how can you improve your odds?

START WITH THESE THREE TIPS Read more

Two Fingering Techniques That Drive Women Crazy

These two fingering techniques are great for either foreplay or taking a woman to orgasm.

If there is one surefire way to give your lover sexual pleasure, it is by fingering her. Your fingers can give you complete control over how you stimulate her, and since you have five fingers and two hands, an almost infinite variety of ways to do it. Whether used as foreplay or the main event of your sex session, these two lesbian fingering techniques will drive your lover crazy with passion Read more

Learn 3 Sex Tips Most Men Will Never Know

In this video, the women from the podcast T and A Talk Sex share with their top three sex tips for men.

How to Have a Satisfying Double Penetration

Have you decided to fulfill your fantasy of being with two men at once by arranging an MFM threesome? If you have, you are in for an amazing experience, but you still may have questions, especially about double penetration. First of all double penetration is not a requirement of an MFM threesome. The men can just take turns or you could just do oral along with vaginal or anal sex. However, double penetration is what makes an MFM threesome special, particularly for a woman. If you do want to try it, here are a few tips to have a satisfying double penetration. Continue reading

The 7 Most Pleasurable Sex Positions

D.A. Barber says these are the seven most pleasurable sex positions. Have you tried them all?

If your sex life is loosing its excitement or you just want to spice things up and make her moan every night, then it’s time to start experimenting with the 7 most pleasurable sex positions. No, you don’t have to become a Kamasutra master or crawl into bed with a bunch of battery-operated toys. You’ll just need to be willing to sweat a bit (chicks like that!) while you lift, squat and bounce her panting body around. So consider this a “menu” of the 7 most pleasurable sex positions to feed your gratification and surprise the hell out of her. Read more

How to Give a Woman a Blended Orgasm

Vanessa Marin reveals what a blended orgasm is and how to give one to a woman.

If you’ve been known to troll—er, frequent—female-centric websites for insight on getting her off, odds are good you’ve stumbled across something called a “blended orgasm.”

Something of a unicorn in the world of pleasure, the phenomenon seems elusive and mysterious—and we’re betting you sure as hell wanna get your hands on one.

Well, now’s the time to learn. Read more

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