About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Svetlana Ivanova

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships.

What Is a Super Orgasm and How Do You Get or Give One?

What is a “super orgasm,” and how do you get or give one?

The idea that some women are multi-orgasmic was long considered a myth, or possibly a wind-up. Surely, there’s no such thing, we all thought. Wh o are these people, these mutants, these XXX-Men with sexual superpowers? Well, hold onto the headboard because it turns out that not only are multiple orgasms possible, there exists such a thing as The Super Orgasm. Read moreRead more

10 Secrets to Make Sex Unforgettable

Adina Rivers reveals her ten personal secrets to make sex unforgettable.

How to Give a Woman a Sensual Erotic Massage

An erotic massage can be a fun time by itself or lead to something more. Find out how to give your woman a sensual erotic massage.

Everyone loves getting a massage. It relaxes the body, stimulates circulation, and feels great. The only thing that tops a massage is a sensual erotic massage. It’s a great way for you and your lover to have a sexy time together and make her feel good. You don’t need to be a massage therapist, either, to give a sexual erotic massage. Just follow the steps below. Read more

How to Use Your Fingers to Blow Her Mind in Bed

Danielle Page reveals how to use your fingers to blow your woman’s mind in bed.

What’s the problem with those “try these 10 moves tonight, guaranteed to get her off every time” lists? For starters, their success rate is nil. Since every vagina is shaped slightly differently, the moves that get women off vary from lady to lady. Meaning, every woman needs something a little bit different in order to reach the big O. Also, that “something” might not expressly involve your dick — since only 12.9% of women consistently reach orgasm through penetration alone. Read more

4 Tips for Being on the Bottom

Missionary position is the most popular sex position, so Tara Block gives four tips for enjoying it even more.

So I’ve given you some tips for being on the top, but good old missionary position (guy on top) is also a fan favorite! The guy being on top can give a man a real sense of control and dominance, which can be very arousing to a woman, but since you’re not doing much of the moving around, here are some tips to make being on the bottom more exciting. Read more

10 Tips to Make Married Sex Feel Like a One-Night Stand

Has your sex life gone into hibernation after marriage? Use these ten easy tips on how to make married sex feel like a one-night stand.

A marriage is a happy beginning to many things.

But when it comes to sex, a marriage can do more damage than good.

Of course, the first few months of a marriage after dating each other for years can still be fun. Read more

Study: Multiple Orgasm the Norm Not the Exception

How many times can YOU orgasm? A study found that 7 in 10 women can climax more than once during sex (and some reach orgasm twenty times in a session).

Doctors used to think that multiple orgasms were rare.

But new research proves the opposite. Seven in 10 women are able to climax numerous times with their partner.

In fact, hitting the big ‘O’ more than once during a steamy session is common in most relationships, a study shows. Read more

Recent Comments

  • Katie: Great article, this is exactly what I have been doing with my husband for years now. All massage’s with...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: More women than you might think actually measure a particularly large penis. That’s how they...
  • John Mode: Either women are very poor judges of how big an inch actually is, or they have very unrealistic...
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