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Ask Ashley: What to Do If You’re “Too Well-Endowed”

Former New York governor Eliot Spitzer’s call girl Ashley Dupre now has a sex advice column in the New York Post. In her latest column, she gives advice to a man who claims that women don’t want to have sex with him because he’s “too well-endowed.”

Some of the girls I’ve been with lately complain that I’m too well-endowed and they don’t want to have sex with me anymore because it’s painful. I know a lot of guys might love to have this concern, but they don’t realize the problem it causes. Do you have any tips on how I can make sex less painful because of my size?— Anonymous

Lately? So what did all the other girls before them say? Being too big could definitely be a problem. Honestly, I dated this football player for a little bit. It never got to the point where we were having intercourse, but I did think, “How is that thing going to fit inside me and feel good?” I mean, I didn’t know they made them like that! It was like 12 inches long and the width of a 5-liter Poland Spring bottle. I didn’t want any part of it. Read more

3 Responses to Ask Ashley: What to Do If You’re “Too Well-Endowed”

  • I saw this on Failblog and thought it fit (pun intended)

  • Becca says:

    I’m pretty petite, 5’0″ and barely 110 lbs. My fiance is Greek/Italian decent, 6’2″ and very muscular. He is also very well endowed. He is really good, with the foreplay, getting me there before we start intercourse. lets face it, a womans body is designed to deliver a baby! I can only advise lots of foreplay, LOTS!! make sure there is enough lube! (natural or from a tube!) and go slow a penis is not a batternig ram!

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    I agree. With enough lube and patience, anything is possible :).

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