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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.
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Are Facials Only Good for Porn Films?

Ejaculating all over a woman’s face, called the money shot in porn films, is considered demeaning by some. I don’t think it’s degrading or demeaning, particularly – just baffling. Why would a man want to finish off sex by masturbating? Isn’t that what he’s trying to avoid having to do by having sex with a woman?

It’s called the money shot. In straight porn it involves the male giving the female what is euphemistically called “a facial.” (Not the kind from Bliss Spa.) In some porn films, the facial is played up to emphasize his humiliation of and domination of her, but in other porn flicks, the money shot is just something the actors do. In real life, I suspect facials happen more for pleasure than for humiliation, seeing as women have a little thing called self-respect. But when I recently mentioned facials in my 10 Things Women Forget To Do During Sex piece, a hootenanny of condemnation—and defense—broke out in the comments section of that post. Read more

5 Responses to Are Facials Only Good for Porn Films?

  • Jim says:

    I have to take exception to the ‘Humiliation and domination’ angle. While I can’t speak for the porn industry, I’d bet that it’s more to show the guy gettin’ off (the money shot) since, if he’s inside her, how do you know he’s done? Yes, even guys can ‘fake’ an orgasm, unless a ‘cream pie’ is the desired result.
    I can say the times that it’s occurred with my partners, it’s been at their request, usually during oral sex or a ‘titty fuck’. I don’t see why it’s an issue. If a girl can ‘squirt’, she can do the same to me, and in fact, one former partner was very capable of doing so and I found it wildly exciting.
    Jeez, it’s just sex folks, lighten up. There are lot’s of things I wouldn’t do and find objectionable, but, as long as all involved are consenting adults, why is this an issue? If you don’t like it, don’t do it. Don’t put your ‘morality’ on me, I do fine by myself.

  • Red says:

    I would agree it’s more of a visual thing for the movie. I wonder who was the first to do it, because EVERYONE does it now for their flicks. Me personally, I enjoy cumming inside her one way or another. Especially when we cum together.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    I don’t believe anyone ever did facials before porn films did it. No sane man would pull out of a woman and start masturbating unless he’d seen it in a porn film and though it was the cool thing to do. As I said in my post, isn’t avoiding having to masturbate for sexual relief part of the reason men want to have sex with a woman?

  • Vickie P. says:

    I don’t get it either. Have you ever seen old porn films like “The Opening of Misty Beethoven”? Sometimes, the men pull out, ejaculate, then put it back in again. LOL!

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    He was still hard after ejaculating? Good for him.

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