About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Sex Secrets started at Blogger on April 23,2007 with my article Tease Her to Please Her. It moved to WordPress.com in October of that same year, Sex Secrets finally moved to its own domain in June of 2009. The most popular post has been my article  10 Steps to Great First-Time Anal Sex, which has well over half a million page views. I believe Sex Secrets is one of the largest, if not the largest, collections of sex tips and techniques on the internet.

I welcome links to my posts. You have my permission to include a short excerpt if you do. However, you do not have permission to re-post entire articles even with a link back to Sex Secrets.

Sex Secrets is an sex information blog, not a personal blog, although I have written about some of my personal sex experiences. This blog is a combination of original articles by me and links to blog posts and articles by other writers. My own articles are based on my own sex experiences. On the other hand, I do not always completely agree with posts and articles I link to. However, I never link to anything I completely disagree with.

I write about sex as I have experienced it. If that conflicts with what academic sexologists claim to be true, too bad. My articles are not politically correct. If my viewpoint contradicts fenimist dogma, I don’t care.

When I started this blog, I also deliberately decided not to include several things in my articles that other sex bloggers seemed to think were obligatory. I thought they were unnecessary in most cases and made the articles more difficult to read.

  • I do not nag readers to practice safe sex.
  • I write my articles from a heterosexual point of view for clarity and simplicity. I assume readers are intelligent enough to realize that some of the sex information can be used by gay and lesbian readers too.
  • I do not include bromides about not having to do anything sexually you don’t want to. Any woman who doesn’t already believe that is not going to be persuaded by a sanctimonious sentence at the end of an article.

Recent Comments

  • Svetlana Ivanova: Depends on the woman.
  • Fox2: Would that be most probably wouldn’t feel it? I have seen you say elsewhere that less than 5″ means...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Some may, but most probably won’t. For some women in long-term relationships, penetration is...
  • Fox2: Not sure if commenting is working at the moment. Thanks but even though these positions will help maximise my...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: These positions help maximize what you have, whatever that is.
  • Fox: Would these positions help with a penis 4-4.5inches long and around 4inches around? Or do you need to be packing...
  • BOB: FUR
  • Svetlana Ivanova: If a woman doesn’t want to please the man she’s with, she’s with the wrong man.
  • Jane Doe: This article not only implies that all men want submissive partners, it tells women to take on a persona....
  • Svetlana Ivanova: It isn’t misogynistic at all. It’s realistic and sex-positive.