Sex Secrets started at Blogger on April 23,2007 with my article Tease Her to Please Her. It moved to WordPress.com in October of that same year, Sex Secrets finally moved to its own domain in June of 2009. The most popular post has been my article  10 Steps to Great First-Time Anal Sex, which has well over half a million page views. I believe Sex Secrets is one of the largest, if not the largest, collections of sex tips and techniques on the internet.

I welcome links to my posts. You have my permission to include a short excerpt if you do. However, you do not have permission to re-post entire articles even with a link back to Sex Secrets.

Sex Secrets is an sex information blog, not a personal blog, although I have written about some of my personal sex experiences. This blog is a combination of original articles by me and links to blog posts and articles by other writers. My own articles are based on my own sex experiences. On the other hand, I do not always completely agree with posts and articles I link to. However, I never link to anything I completely disagree with.

I write about sex as I have experienced it. If that conflicts with what academic sexologists claim to be true, too bad. My articles are not politically correct. If my viewpoint contradicts fenimist dogma, I don’t care.

When I started this blog, I also deliberately decided not to include several things in my articles that other sex bloggers seemed to think were obligatory. I thought they were unnecessary in most cases and made the articles more difficult to read.

• I do not nag readers to practice safe sex.
• I write my articles from a heterosexual point of view for clarity and simplicity. I assume readers are intelligent enough to realize that some of the sex information can be used by gay and lesbian readers too.
• I do not include bromides about not having to do anything sexually you don’t want to. Any woman who doesn’t already believe that is not going to be persuaded by a sanctimonious sentence at the end of an article.