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7 Ways to Turn Everyday Activities into Steamy Sex

Even in good relationships, couples often fall into sexual routines, doing the same thing over and over. To get out of your rut, try some of these ways to turn everyday activities into steamy sex.

When Jada Pinkett Smith said recently that she keeps things hot with husband Will Smith by being spontaneous — sexting, sending naughty photos, and having quickies — we rolled our eyes. Could they be any more TMI?! But we had to admit the woman must be onto something. After all, she and Big Willie have been married 12 years and are apparently still going at it like newbies.

“Even in good relationships, couples fall into the routine of something called ‘scripted sex’, doing the same thing over and over,” says certified sex and relationship therapist Megan Fleming, PhD. It usually happens after two or three years, but can start as early as a few months in, according to her. And even scarier, scripted sex tends to turn into less sex. “It’s important to be cognizant of when your sexual encounters are becoming predictable, and take action to make them more spontaneous,” explains Fleming. You don’t have to go all grand gesture on your guy; the idea is to keep him on his toes so he never knows what racy little move is coming next. Here are some ideas.

Print out these ways to turn typically mundane activities into naughty sex, and keep them with you at all times. You never know when inspiration will strike. Oh, and be a good friend: e-mail or Tweet the link to your girls. They — and their guys — will owe you big time. Read more

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