6 Ways to Stimulate the Clitoris during Intercourse

Many women have a difficult time reaching orgasm during intercourse (if they are able to orgasm at all) because they don’t get sufficient clitoral stimulation. The vaginal opening provides perfect stimulation to the penis to bring a man to orgasm, but the clitoris isn’t inside the vagina where it would get sufficient stimulation to make the woman climax. Instead, the clitoris is outside, so it needs direct stimulation. Here are six ways to stimulate her clitoris during intercourse.

1) If you place a pillow under her lower back (not her rear end), this will tilt her pelvis down and will allow your penis to have a better chance of rubbing against her clitoris as you thrust in and out.

2) When you are on top in the missionary position, instead of having your legs inside of hers, try putting them outside of hers. With her legs together, she will get more stimulation than normal ,and you are more likely to make contact with her clitoris as you thrust. You can still thrust the usual way, but a circular motion like you are stirring a drink with your penis really works well.

3) The Coital Alignment Technique (CAT) is a sex position combined with a sexual movement technique that facilitates clitoral orgasm. This technique replaces deep thrusting with subtle, coordinated rocking.

4) Another thing you can do is insert your penis into her vagina as far as it will go, but don’t move it in and out. Just grind your pelvis right up against her clitoris and keep grinding. Try to really push against the front of her groin with the area just above the penis. Rocking back and forth or side to side is a really good way of getting started. You may need to lubricate her first as you want to pleasure her clitoris, not irritate it.

5) With her sitting on top, lie flat on your back, pelvis tilted upward, and stomach muscles tightened. You want to arch your hips upwards to improve the quality of “the Grind.” This can be achieved easily by putting a pillow under your hips. You then should put your hand over your woman’s pubic region, and place your thumb on her clitoris. While she is riding you, you can simultaneously stimulate her clitoris.

6) Have your woman lie on her back with one leg flat on the bed and the other raised in the air. Kneel between her thighs, straddling the leg that is lying flat on the bed and supporting the leg that is up in the air (which is making a sort of right angle to the other leg.) This can be a great position for deep penetration while. at the same time, exposing her clitoris for manual stimulation. This double stimulation is very satisfying and can often lead to orgasm really quickly.

A man cannot “make” a woman orgasm, so don’t beat yourself up if she doesn’t get there. However, by listening to her and watching for the positive signs, you can fine-tune your performance to help her achieve it.

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