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6 Tips for Men to Perform Better in Bed

Couple Making LoveEven men who enjoy foreplay with their partner, usually still consider intercourse to be the “main event” of a sexual encounter. That’s why it’s called FORE-play, right? Men also tend to believe that their performance as a lover is judged by their performance between their woman’s thighs. These six easy tips can boost her sexual pleasure right away. You don’t have to learn anything or practice. You can use any or all of them tonight.

1) Make eye contact with her as you stick it in.

In any position that allows it, look your partner in the eyes as you stick it in. One of the things women enjoy about intercoursee is the connection she feels with her partner. Looking her in the eyes as you slide it in, creates a double connection between the two of you, not just the one below the belt.

2) Give it to her slowly.

Don’t just stick it in. Give it to her slowly.  It is both more sensuous and exciting for a woman when you slide your penis inside her slowly. My article Tease Her to Please Her goes into more detail about this technique.

3) In missionary position, put a pillow under her hips.

During missionary, place a pillow under your partner’s hips. Tilting her pelvis helps you penetrate deeper, stimulate her clitoris better, and rub against her G-Spot with each thrust.

4) In spooning position, massage her nipples and clitoris.

When in the spooning position, use your hands to massage her nipples and clitoris. You can get a motion going where you’re thrusting in and out with your penis, while rubbing the clitotid with one hand and working the nipples with the other. When done smoothly, this move will cause most women to have an intense orgasm.

5) When she is on top, have her grind her hips rather than move up and down.

In the woman-on-top position, instead of having her bounce up and down, have her stay down and grind her hips back and forth. Your penis stays deep inside her and feels great to both you and her.

6) When she is on top, do the Mr. Spock hand gesture at the base of your penis.

When she is on top, make your hand do the Vulcan Salute from Star Trek. Then put the base of your penis between your middle and ring finger. This allows your partner to grind her clitoris on your knuckle while being penetrated

Aside from technique, two tips that will make any man a better lover are slow it down and change it up. “Fast and furious” may make for a strong finish, but it’s usually not the best way to start. Also, no matter how good. anything can get boring if you do it all the time. It’s hard for a woman to stay excited when she knows exactly what is going to happen every time. Whether you use these tips or others, keep your partner guessing about your next move.

One of the worst things that can happen to any man is not being “sure” if he had given his woman a orgasm. Imagine being so sexually skilled that you can literally give ANY woman orgasms. To discover the secrets to giving your woman the best sex she’s ever had, click here!

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  • Svetlana Ivanova: Depends on the woman.
  • Fox2: Would that be most probably wouldn’t feel it? I have seen you say elsewhere that less than 5″ means...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Some may, but most probably won’t. For some women in long-term relationships, penetration is...
  • Fox2: Not sure if commenting is working at the moment. Thanks but even though these positions will help maximise my...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: These positions help maximize what you have, whatever that is.
  • Fox: Would these positions help with a penis 4-4.5inches long and around 4inches around? Or do you need to be packing...
  • BOB: FUR
  • Svetlana Ivanova: If a woman doesn’t want to please the man she’s with, she’s with the wrong man.
  • Jane Doe: This article not only implies that all men want submissive partners, it tells women to take on a persona....
  • Svetlana Ivanova: It isn’t misogynistic at all. It’s realistic and sex-positive.