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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.
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6 Moves Men Need to Be Sex Gods in the Bedroom

Has your sex life fallen into a rut, or, worse yet, almost disappeared altogether? If you want your wife or girlfriend to be eager to have sex with you, you have to give her a reason. If your old moves don’t seem to be working anymore, try these six moves that will take her from foreplay to intercourse to a toe-curling climax.

1) Use the back of your hand to massage the area between her breasts,

Massaging the area between a woman’s breasts produces the bonding hormone oxytocin. She will feel more intimate towards you and relax into orgasm. Run your hand up and down her breastbone before stroking her breasts. Using the back of your hand is best, as it forces you to go gently. Doing this while you’re performing oral sex will help her feel more connected to you and climax quicker.

2) Circle her clitoris.

The clitoris is essentially a miniature penis. The head is just like your glans, and beneath that, under the skin, is a tube shaped shaft packed full of nerve endings. Find it and you’ll be unforgettable. Start with a lubricated finger on either side of her clitoris:  Think of it as a clock face, with the clitoris in the center. Begin with one fingertip at nine and one at three. Move them in a circular motion, pressing down a bit harder when they’re at 11 and one. Women often masturbate using this movement.

3) Use your fingers to hit her G, X, and Y spots.

Just sliding your fingers in and out of her vagina doesn’t do much for a woman. It can even hurt. Instead, use a “scissors” move to rub her G-spot and the two points either side of it, her X and Y spots. The G-spot is on the wall of the vagina nearest her belly button, about two inches in. Insert two fingers so the tips press against it, then open and close them like a pair of scissors. If she feels as if she needs to urinate, you’re doing it right. Keep going and she’ll have a very deep orgasm.

4) Rhythmically kiss her during intercourse.

During sex, most men stop kissing, but kissing will help a woman climax. Apply light, teasing kisses at first, and then move into deeper, more rhythmic, kisses as you start having sex. Kissing rhythmically like this will add to her pleasure and keep her arousal red hot, but don’t thrust your tongue in and out deeply to match what your penis is doing. Women hate that!

5) Swivel your hips in a figure eight motion during sex.

Men tend to thrust in and out because the whole penile shaft is erogenous, but the most sensitive part of a vagina is directly around the opening. The figure eight swivel presses the base of your penis against all her sexual nerve endings. It’s especially effective from behind. It also works well in the missionary position if your partner hooks her legs over your shoulders to maximize G-spot stimulation. Otherwise, have her make the figure eight move herself when she’s on top.”

6) Use deeper thrusts during sex.

Men usually use shallow thrusts during sex. Tthe penis is pulled about halfway out of the vagina and then pushed back in. This feels good to men, but it doesn’t stimulate a woman’s G-spot or clitoris. Instead, insert your penis as deep as it will go and rock your pelvis. This will grind your pubic bone against her clitoris, which could make her climax very quickly. As a bonus, it won’t stimulate the head of your penis too much, so you’ll last longer. (For more about female-friendly intercourse techniques, see my article How to Properly Screw a Woman.)

These six moves focus on what feels good to women rather than what feels good or comes naturally to men, but don’t worry. If you make her feel good, she’ll make you feel good, too. Most women enjoy giving pleasure to their men, and when we’re getting pleasure back, it just makes us even more eager to give.

One of the worst things that can happen to any man is not being “sure” if he had given his woman a orgasm. Imagine being so sexually skilled that you can literally give ANY woman orgasms. To discover the secrets to giving your woman the best sex she’s ever had, click here!


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