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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.
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5 Ways for Women to Achieve Orgasm with Intercourse

Sex surveys indicate that only 25-33% of women have orgasms with sexual intercourse. Recently, some researchers have even suggested that the ability to have orgasms with intercourse is genetic, which I find extremely hard to believe. That would mean that a majority of women are genetically unable to perform a basic human function – orgasm from penetration. What’s much more likely is that women who can’t orgasm with intercourse are not using the right positions and techniques. Here are five ways for women to achieve orgasm with intercourse.

1) Strengthen the grip. In my opinion, this is the number one way that women can increase their orgasmic potential. My post Vaginal Strengthening Exercises for a More Powerful Orgasm outlines a program for dramatically increasing your capacity for sexual pleasure.  During intercourse, many women flex their pelvic floor muscles to give both partners greater pleasure. The stronger the muscles, the better you can contract your vagina and create greater friction against your partner’s penis, leading to more clitoral stimulation. Try squeezing down throughout intercourse.

2) Keep your legs together. This is another simple way to create friction from the penis, which can lead to a clitoral orgasm. When your partner inserts his penis into your vagina, squeeze your legs closed and have him place his legs outside yours. Your partner can then squeeze your legs further closed with his thighs. It may help if he can shift his pelvis forward to cause pressure and friction on your clitoris.

3) Woman on top. The woman-on-top position allows you to adjust the position of your pelvis so that you can better control the friction of the penis as it rubs against your clitoris. This position also allows deep thrusting into the vagina, which can stimulate the cervix and trigger an orgasm. The technique can be performed with your partner lying down on his back or sitting.

4) The missionary position with pelvic tilt. Lie on your back beneath your partner, and tilt your pelvis upward. It helps to put one or more pillows beneath your buttocks, or have your partner raise up your buttocks with his hands. This position enables the penis to reach the G-spot, the part of the clitoris that extends into the vagina.

5) Stimulate the cervix. While many women don’t enjoy penile thrusting against their cervix, others find it’s the key to orgasm. To determine whether this technique works for you, find a position that allows for deep penetration of the penis. You might try lying on your back, hugging your knees to your chest or resting your legs on your partner’s shoulders. Or have your partner enter from behind while you rest on your knees and lean forward on your elbow. For maximum cervical stimulation, straddle your partner, facing his feet.

Finally, try to avoid focusing on orgasm as the goal of your sexual experience with your partner. There is no right or wrong way to make love. The point is to achieve intimacy and pleasure, and there are many techniques towards that end. To learn more about achieving orgasm with intercourse, see my post How to Get the Best Orgasm.

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