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5 Tips for Better Fellatio

Woman Looking Inside PantsFellatio, giving head, giving a blow-job – almost all men love oral sex by whatever name, and many women like giving it. Fellatio is the act of applying your lips to a man’s penis with the purpose of giving him pleasure. Men are different, and they like different things, so there’s no point learning a perfect fellatio “routine.” However, here are five tips that will guarantee a good blow job.

1) Turn him on visually.

Men are turned on by visual stimuli, so try kneeling in front of a mirror during fellatio so that he can see you, or position yourself doggy style so he can see your butt in the air. Undressing, either partially or completely, can add tto his enjoyment.

2) Make eye contact.

Men love it when you look as if you’re enjoying sucking his penis. One way you can demonstrate your enjoyment is to make eye contact. Get yourself in a position to look at him over the head of his penis as it rubs against your lips, as your tongue twirls around its head, as it slowly enters your mouth. It’s not something you want to spend the entire blow job doing, but it’s a great beginning, or a fine punctuation in the middle, especially if you want to slow things down while simultaneously heating things up.

3) Concentrate on the tip.

The most sensitive part of a man’s penis is the tip, which means that deep throating isn’t necessarily something that all men want. Start by using a windshield wiper motion to rub the tip before using light licking and sucking movements to stimulate his sensitive nerve endings.

4) Give him a hand.

Most men agree that a combination of oral pressure and friction from their partners’ hands creates the best sensation. Whether you use one hand or two is completely up to you, but a firm hand-over-hand method is the easiest way to build friction.

Feel free to grasp with your hands whatever of the penis you can’t fit into your mouth. As you slide your mouth off the penis, following behind with the hand allows you to linger on the corona longer and with a slightly diffeent sort of pressure. Most men like as much stimulation as possible, and the feel of a wet mouth and a saliva-lubricated hand are enough to send them to the brink of orgasm very quickly. Some men like the feel of a hand gently hugging or stroking their scrotum.

5) Stimulate other areas.

It is possible to make a blow job feel more intense for your partner by stimulating other areas at the same time. Stroking his other erogenous zones like his testicles and/or perineum during fellatio will feel good to him. Some men like their inner thighs and stomachs stroked during oral, whereas others are more turned on if you grab and/or stroke their butts.

Other things to consider are the sounds you make and the things you say before and after going down on him. It’s all about building the ultimate sexy atmosphere, so he knows you’re invested in pleasuring him. Enthusiasm for the act itself and for the pleasure of your partner is more important than any specific tricks or techniques though. If you truly love what you’re doing, your partner will too.

All women know that men LOVE oral sex, but not all women know how to do it properly. Giving good fellatio is NOT just about opening your mouth and bobbing up and down. To find out what every woman needs to know about giving her man oral pleasure, click here!

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