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5 Rules for Better Fellatio

BJAlthough women know that most men enjoy fellatio, a lot of women don’t feel confident giving it. That’s somewhat understandable. Women don’t automatically know what feels good to a man’s penis.  It takes some tria and error to find out what oral sex moves turns men on. Also, every man is a little different in his oral sex preferences. However, there are certain things that nearly every man likes, and it really has very little to do with techniques and tricks. What makes  a blow job enjoyable is less about what you do than it is how you do it. If you follow these five rules when giving fellatio, you partner is almost certain to enjoy your blow job.

1) Know the territory.

The penis is basic: head, shaft, testicles. The shaft has the fewest nerve endings of the three. The testicles (balls) are very sensitive, but in a different way from the head. Think of the penis head as your clitoris. If he’s uncircumcised, it’s really quite similar because the foreskin serves to protect the head underneath. If he’s circumcised, the most sensitive part of the penis is usually what’s called the frenulum – that arrow-shaped V on the underside at the tip.

2) Take your time.

Don’t start out like a vacuum cleaner in overdrive. Just like women, men really like the build-up, so make him wait for it. Stroke his thighs and butt. Lick and suck on his balls. Avoid the penis for awhile, and then begin with the shaft (which is less sensitive than the head) before moving on to the head.

3) Follow his breath, not yours.

A good rule of thumb is to follow his breath, not yours. Match your speed and intensity with his breathing, speeding up and increaseing the pressure, as he breathes faster and harder.

n3) Show your enthusiasm.

By far the biggest turn on for your man is enthusiasm. Performing fellatio with enthusiasm is extremely arousing to a man and will make him enjoy it much, much more. It’s an incredibe ego boost for him. Boosting his ego works as a strong aphrodisiac on him and will ultimately make him have a more powerful orgasm.

5) Change it up.

One motion, over and over, is boring, so change it up as you go along. There is one exception to this rule: when his breath is coming fast, his hips are thrusting up, he’s got his hands in your hair, and he’s just about to ejaculate, don’t change what you’re doing. Keep going and don’t stop until you get your reward for a job well done.

These rules are mostly about your attitude and approach to fellatio. The focus of a blow job should be too given the man pleasure and make him feel good. Following these five rules will go a long way toward doing that.

All women know that men LOVE oral sex, but not all women know how to do it properly. Giving good fellatio is NOT just about opening your mouth and bobbing up and down. To find out what every woman needs to know about giving her man oral pleasure, click here.

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