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5 Reasons to Give Blow Jobs

Blow Job“Blow job” (sometimes spelled “blowjob”) is slang for fellatio, or oral sex performed on a man. You might also hear the term “giving head,” which is also a slang term for oral sex on a man. If you have never given a blow job, you might be wondering, what’s the point? Even if guys like them, why would a girl want to suck a penis? There are five reasons for girls to give fellatio.

1) Guys love blow jobs.

If you want to please a guy, giving giving him a blow job is one of the best ways to do it. Fellatio is  enjoyable for guys on several levels. First of all, the fact that a girl is willing to to give him a blow job is flattering to a guy and boosts his self-esteem. Also, a girl focusing on pleasuring his male organ makes him feel masculine, especially if she is kneeling in front of him. Last, but not least, a mouth and tongue licking and sucking on his penis feels good, and of course, so does the orgasm at the end. A bonus is that he doesn’t have to do any work and isn’t under any pressure to perform.

2) Blow jobs are empowering.

Blow jobs can not only give a guy immense pleasure, but can also be extremely empowering for a girl. Although a lot of people view giving a blow job as an act of female submission, fellatio can also be seen as a form of male surrender, something requiring a mutual degree of trust and self-restraint. It is one of the only times when a guy is completely physically vulnerable, allowing a girl to have total control over his most sensitive organ and prized possession using one of her most powerful organs – her mouth. The mouth can be an aggressive part of the anatomy, and it could inflict severe pain and injury to the penis. This places a guy completely at the mercy of his female partner.

3) Blow jobs are fun.

Sucking a penis can be very sensual and satisfying. A penis feels really fleshy and smooth in your mouth at first. Then it grows and hardens, silk turning to steel, with your mouth gently straining and your head being physically inched backwards from the inside. His moans and groans let you know that he’s enjoying what you’re doing. As he approaches climax, his penis swells even bigger and harder, and then you feel it pulsing, and  semen surges through the full length of his penis, shooting and splashing inside your mouth. The explosiveness of his ejaculation can sometimes be a little overwhelming, but it’s also fun to know that you caused it.

4) Blow jobs keep guys healthy.

Guys don’t just enjoy ejaculating. They HAVE to. If a guy doesn’t ejaculate for a long enough time, he may get pain in his testicles. Most guys masturbate to climax long before this happens, but it feels better and is much more fun for a girl’s mouth and tongue to get them off than their hand.

5) Blow jobs won’t get you pregnant.

Fellatio is a way to satisfy a guy’s sexual needs without the worry that you might get pregnant. You cannot get pregnant from giving a blowjob or from swallowing semen. Babies don’t grow in your stomach. They grow in your uterus, which is not connected to your mouth.

A lot of girls enjoy giving blow jobs almost as much guys like getting them. Although ome girls worry that they won’t do a good job, and the guy won’t enjoy it, that isn’t likely. However,  if it concerns you, my post How to Give Your First Blow Job: 5 Steps to Suck-cess reveals what you need to know to give a good blow job on your first attempt.

All women know that men LOVE oral sex, but not all women know how to do it properly. Giving good fellatio is NOT just about opening your mouth and bobbing up and down. To find out what every woman needs to know about giving her man oral pleasure, click here!

4 Responses to 5 Reasons to Give Blow Jobs

  • Jeff says:

    Svetlana

    Describe what makes the explosiveness of ejaculation into the mouth overwhelming.

    As you sense ejaculation approaching,
    and you know you’re about to feel the explosiveness in your mouth, do you tend to tense up as you get ready it or are you relaxed and going with it?

    Jeff

    Right before ejaculation, do you tense up as you anti

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    I’m more relaxed than tense.

  • Jeff says:

    When a man nears ejaculation, can you physically feel with your stroking hand the first spurt of semen traveling through the penis? Does the first spurt of semen travel the full length of the penis from a single contraction or is it felt traveling through the penis in stages with multiple contractions? Are you able to anticipate the first spurt getting closer to splash into your mouth by feeling it surging through the penis and approaching the head?

    Jeff

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    Usually “yes” to all of your questions.

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