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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.
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5 Mistakes Men Keep Making in Bed

If you’re unhappy with your sex life, are you making these five mistakes?

… Here’s a secret: Women like having sex. A lot of them love it, and a few even think about it all the time. But their shortcoming is that they often want men to be mind readers. Many women aren’t confident enough to ask for what they want in bed, so instead they accept a so-so sex life. Tonight, start a conversation about sex. Talk about the things that turn you on and ask her if there’s anything she’d like you to do differently.

“Since everyone is individual when it comes to likes and dislikes, the only way to make sure you’re having a hot sex life with your lady is to listen and incorporate her suggestions,” says Fulbright.

If you’re more open about sex, your partner will begin to enjoy herself more, which means that you’ll reap the benefits, too.

Mistake No. 1: Not Taking Charge
Women are leaders in the workplace. They run the household and can do pretty much anything they put their minds to. But when it comes to sex, they often want you to take charge and “be the man.” Anything halfhearted and tentative is a turnoff.

“If you’re holding back, she will, too,” says Fulbright. “You need to unleash your carnal side and make her feel wanted in an almost unbridled way.” Read more

2 Responses to 5 Mistakes Men Keep Making in Bed

  • Barry C says:

    Hi!
    I have been reading and as such i would like to ask a question.My wife and i have been married for 17yrs and as such I can never find an answer. how do you improve ur sex with a partner that does not have the ablity to daydream or fantasize? I know you are saying what the hell or how can this be, but I have tried for so long to find an answer to this question, please help?

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    Who is it who can’t daydream or fantasize – you or her?

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