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5 Fellatio Hacks for Better Blow Jobs

Sexual DesireA surprising number of women are insecure about their blow job skills; however, giving a great blow job is not strictly about how and where you lick and suck. Giving a guy physical pleasure is the main purpose of fellatio, but giving him emotional pleasure as well helps take your blow jobs to another level. You don’t need to be a psychologist to do it, either. These five fellatio hacks will help make your blow jobs special.

1) Assume the position.

Blow jobs feel good in any position, but one position is especially appealing to guys because it makes them feel more masculine. It’s kneeling down  in front of him as he stands or sits. This position stirs up something primal in males, which can lead to a better response to your blow job. It’s also the perfect position for the next hack.

2) Make eye contact.

Don’t be shy. Make eye contact with your partner, especially at the beginning of your blow job. It establishes a connection with him and also helps you gauge his reaction to what you’re doing. Looking up at a guy with his penis in your mouth  is also an incredible turn-on to him.

3) Make some noise.

Moaning as you suck his penis communicates an important message: You’re enjoying yourself. And that is the key to helping him relax and enjoy himself. A guy will enjoy getting a blow job that much more if he thinks that you also enjoy giving it.

4) Finish with him.

Don’t abandon your partner at the climax of the blow job by stopping stimulation, or worse, taking his penis out of your mouth. He may still have an orgasm, but it will not be as pleasurable as it could have been. When he begins to ejaculate, keep his penis in your mouth and keep sucking through his orgasm. This intensifies the sensations he feels and maintains your connection with him all the way to the end..

6) Make him feel good about himself.

Getting a blow job places a guy in a vulnerable position, completely exposed. Even the most macho guy may wonder what you think about him (and what you might say about him to your friends), so sincere compliments can be reassuring. For example, complimenting your partner about the size, appearance, or hardness of his penis will help him relax as you begin. Afterward, saying something complimentary about how much he ejaculated or for how long, or how good he tasted will leave him feeling good about himself, the blow job, and you.

Pleasuring the penis is the point of a blow job, but pleasuring the person, too, makes it even better. A guy can’t fully enjoy the physical pleasure you’re giving to his penis if he is nervous or anxious. It’s not your fault that he’s nervous or anxious, but helping him relax and enjoy himself will make the blow job more fun for both of you.

All women know that men LOVE oral sex, but not all women know how to do it properly. Giving good fellatio is NOT just about opening your mouth and bobbing up and down. To find out what every woman needs to know about giving her man oral pleasure, click here!

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