4 Tips for Negotiating a One-Night Stand
Men’s Health gives men four tips for negotiating a one-night stand from whose place to whether she should sit down. From the standpoint of negotiating a successful conclusion, i.e., you getting laid, the one tip I might quibble with is the first one. Yes, she will be more relaxed at her place, but if your place is much closer, reasonably nice, and CLEAN, you might suggest your place (emphasizing the above points) and see what she says. The more time a woman has for her sexual excitement to cool, the alcohol to wear off, or to have second thoughts, the more likely you are to wind up just giving her a ride home. For me, the later the hour, the more true this is. After a long car ride, away from the excitement of the party or club, going to sleep can suddenly become a lot more appealing than having sex.
Q: “Your place or mine?”
Always her place. Never insist on taking her back to your house. “Personal safety is going to be paramount for her and she’s going to be more relaxed at her own home,” says sexual and relationship psychotherapist Paula Hall. Not having your own toothbrush to hand is a small price to pay. Read more